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writes:I was drunk one day after a party and a friend dropped me off at my girlfriends house. Not knowing my girlfriends twin sister was in the house i tried it on with her thinking she was my girlfriend. At the time i really couldn't tell the difference until she pushed me away. Now i feel really awkward. My girlfriends sister said forget about it and that she won't tell my girlfriend. Im wondering if i should just tell her as it just feels weird.
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reader, HotGeek  +, writes (14 September 2012):
My girlfriends sister said "forget about it"
Stick to the basic wisdom.
Her sister will probably not make a big deal as I'm sure they are used to be mixed up with each other. It should not be a big deal for your GF, but don't worry her unnecessarily.
And if you're feeling shame, don't. As you said, you couln't tell them apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2012): Yes, tell her. You will feel better about it if you do. It was an honest mistake, and you mentioned you were at a party, so were you drinking? That would make it even more likely to make a mistake like this. Any small differences between the 2 of them wouldn't be as noticeable while drunk. I'll be honest, I laughed just from reading the title of this question. I think your girlfriend will do the same when you tell her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2012): That's awesome!.. But yeah, tell her. its no biggie if it was an actual mistake.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 Tell her about it. It was an honest mistake and you know why people hide information, right? When they feel that they are in the wrong. In your case, you were not wrong, only mistaken. If you conceal this from your girlfriend and she finds out from her sister, then she would get very suspicious about it and you dont want that to happen, do you? Why leave any scope for doubt? Tell her immediately.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 No you need to tell her. It wasn't a big deal, it was a mistake and you didn't go through with anything. But if you keep it from her and it comes up (things have a way of doing this) then it went from nothing to something. She will wonder why if it didn't matter didn't you tell me? Hiding it makes it like you are ashamed and something happened, it didn't so laugh it off with her and say what happened.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 Seriously? You must have been totally drunk. Yes, you should come clean and tell her the truth. Her sister will eventually. She's just waiting for the right time. The news will sit much better coming from you.
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