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Am I bleeding because of his intensive fingering or do I just have an irregular period?
Q. Okay this is not going to sound particularly nice, but I'm kinda worried.. Well i was fooling around with a guy the other night and he was fingering me but doing it really hard, I did tell him after a while but it was sore at the time Then the...
A. 12 March 2007: its ok thats happened to me before, it will stop after a few days, whats happened is the thin peice of tissue that breaks when you lose your virginity has broke, but usually only a bit of blood comes out then and its sore for a few days, if i wr you ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to remove unwanted hair?
Q. this is kinda weird but im eighteen and me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and its a joint decision of ours to take our relationship to the next level. but i want everything to be perfect and wanna know what is the best way to ...
A. 12 March 2007: i would say hair removing cream i.e. nair is 99p a tube and thats good, but make sure you test it on your leg first as you maybe allergic to it... (read in full...)
I suffer with BO and afraid that some deodarants cause cancer... Any advice how else to smell nice all the time ??
Q. Hi guys i just wanted to know what skin care or hair care i can use to smell nice all the time. I like to keep clean and groomed, but the only problem is i sweat a lot in my underarms so i have to use deos a lot. But now i have also heard that deos ...
A. 12 March 2007: my mum gets somethin prescribed from chemist called anhydrol forte it stops you sweatin, u put it on like u wuld a normal deodrant an leave it on 4 12 hours, its best to do it when ur goin to bed as it can get itchy. after12 hours u wash it off an ... (read in full...)
I'm going on holiday next week and will have my period! How can I still go swimming while on my period?
Q. heya well im 13 and im going on holiday next week but ive realised that i will be on my period that week and im worried that its going to ruin the holiday!! As i love going swimming in the pools and on the beaches but does anyone no how i can stil...
A. 12 March 2007: yes you can still swim when your on your period, i worried about that when i first started my periods because i swam a lot but my mum said it stopped in the water and she was right, it did.... (read in full...)
Got a party this weekend, but suddenly broke out in spots!! Any ideas for quick reduction!!
Q. I've got a party coming up this weekend, and have suddenly broken out in spots! Anyone got any tips to get rid of them, or at least reduce the redness, quickly?...
A. 12 March 2007: hiya, i use a witch stick now, you can buy them in bodycare, wilkinsons etc, i use to have problems like that and tried all sorts but nothing worked till i bought a witch stick. and it clears it quite fast.... (read in full...)
What is this pea sized lump on my groin? Should I be worried about it?
Q. Okay, so I know none of you will be able to tell the answer to this question without seeing what I'm talking about and I will go and see the doctor anyway if it doesn't go away by itself but basically I have a tiny, pea-sized lump in my groin that I ...
A. 1 March 2007: my dad ad that too and hes kept disappearin an showin up in other places so he went the doctors an they sed it wr a cist so it could b that but id get it checked anyway... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 1 March 2007: i dont think yor to young an im sure you could cope, people r avin children when there still children in ourdays so i dont think your too young an i think you will cope very well. At the end of the day it comes down to u an ur partner an what you ... (read in full...)
I'm very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up I always back away because I'm scared he will be turned off . Any advice?
Q. im stuck in a complete rut and dont know how to get out of it!!!! ok im very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up (which isnt very often) i always back away cz im scared he will be turned off of me when we get inti...
A. 27 February 2007: your only young yet, your body changes, you maybe chubby now but your starting puberty an plenty of girls are chubby at your age as once you start growin you will b fine, dont worry about it. your too young to be thinkin bout these things anyway. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been depressed for a while now and I don't know what else to do to help him?
Q. i dont know what ells to do! my boyfriend for the last year is going through a depressed point and is allways accusing me of hateing him and wanting to find someone ells to be with, i have done all i can to get past this object so far, i dont want ...
A. 27 February 2007: i wr in a relationship like this an in the end i wr so depressed that it wr makin me ill as thr wr nothin i could do to help him and i did everythin i could to show him i wr gonna b thr 4 him but then i ended up depressed too. maybe he needs ... (read in full...)
She's my friend and has just broken up with her boyfriend, I like her... should I step in?
Q. So one of my close friends (a girl) just broke up with her boyfriend.. i have liked her for a while and i just wandered what you think i should do?...
A. 27 February 2007: be there 4 her as a friend, dont try anythin on with her as she just needs someone she can trust rite now, let her get over the break up as if things do happen between you 2 while shes still hurtin it maybe cos shes on the rebound an then ur gonna ... (read in full...)
I found out the beginning of our relationship wasn't what I thought. How do I move on from this?
Q. I'm 20 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We've been living together for 9 months. Last week we were both talking about previous relationships and flings when we got on the subject of the last person we'd slept with ...
A. 27 February 2007: its not easy to let go of the past, but thats what he is now, her past, she chose to be with you so that must mean something. mayb she just neede that last fone call to make her realise it wr you she wanted... (read in full...)
What can I do to make things more understanding between us?
Q. hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect ...
A. 27 February 2007: you cant make him understand that family comes first, he will have to learn that himself im afraid, it may b he needs somethin in the family to shake him up an then he will realise how important family is but id say he will realise familys more ... (read in full...)
My husbands persisting affair! It's kept a secret but what can I do!
Q. I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. ...
A. 27 February 2007: follow your heart an do what u think is best. if i wr in your situation id probably tell a couple of other people an hope it eventually came out lol, but if you dnt want to just walk away, dont make it harder 4 you an the children than it needs to ... (read in full...)
I kissed by flatmate...but I love my boyfriend! Now my flatmate's trying to make me jealous! Help!
Q. I need help!!! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we are really happy together, but i moved away to uni last september and i think i fancy one of the lads i live with, we kissed but i felt so guitly coz of my boyfriend, now my flatmate keep...
A. 27 February 2007: well if your happy with ur boyfriend let ur flatmate keep playin his lil games as there not makin you jealous are they? If you think hes doin it to make you jealous then ur probably rite, just leave him to it, hell soon get bored if your ignorin him... (read in full...)
I cheated b/c I thought having sex w/ this other guy would lead to a relationship, but now he's ignorning me! I'm humiliated! Please help.
Q. i need advice, i have been in a 12 step programme for 2 yrs and met a guy at the meetings i really felt a connection with 1 year ago. nothing happend because i was in a relationship of 12 years already,i left my boyfriend for 4 months to sort out ...
A. 27 February 2007: id say he wants to have his cake an eat it, an you should tell him wr to go. it seems to me like your boyfriend loves you a lot and if you still love him then you should 4get about other guy as hes messin you about an hurtin ur feelings.... (read in full...)
You have to be 16 to go on the pill right? Do I have to know my insurance and all that too?
Q. i am 16 yrs. old and me and my boyfriend just recently started having sex. and we've been using condoms each and every time. but it just seems like a hassle compared to the pill or patch. i want to go on it but i know that i cant talk to my mom ...
A. 21 February 2007: i was 15 when i went on the pill, just go to your doctor and tell your doctor you would like to go on the pill, however i'd still use a condom too as my cousins girlfriend has just been caught out on the pill. you can tell your mum you want to go on ... (read in full...)
Why do things seem to be too big to others, that seem to be quite normal and not a big deal for me?
Q. Why do things seem to be too big to others, that seem to be quite normal and not a big deal for me. Infact i am looking forward for those things when others feel dreadful and nervous about it. As an example, when i was going for a job out of my ...
A. 21 February 2007: it sounds like you just like to take chances and like changes where not many people do they would rather play it safe and stick with what they know... (read in full...)
I really hate it when my breasts are touched, why do you think this is?
Q. Before I go to my doctor, I want to see if anyone here has any advise for me. I absolutely HATE my breasts being touched. It is really bad because my boyfriend is so sweet, and he loves to be close to me when we are naked, but I refuse to take my ...
A. 21 February 2007: maybe you need to talk to someone about this abusive boyfriend as having a counsellor will bring alot more of your past up than you think and maybe that isnt the reason but a counsellor can help you as its helped my mum alot and they will bring ... (read in full...)
I find intercourse boring and something to be done out of compulsion or pressure. Am I normal to feel this way or is something wrong with me?
Q. I find the act of intercourse to be boring and something done out of compulsion/pressure and not genuine conviction. Is there something wrong to feel that as a guy?...
A. 21 February 2007: i wouldnt say there is somethin wrong with it as i know a guy who feels like that too so your not the only one.... (read in full...)
I have a real problem with trust issues, how can I overcome this?
Q. Hi there, hope somebody can help me with this. I have a really bad issue with trust and im finding its starting to destroy my life and confidence etc. I am making myself worse lately because I have a new boyfriend, this guy is very fit, good ...
A. 21 February 2007: many people have a problem with trust as its a very big thing, maybe your scared of trusting him as that means lettin your guard down and your worried about gettin hurt, but if you dont let that guard down and let him in and learn to trust him then ... (read in full...)
The boy I'm dating has a child, I am really fond of the guy but if my mom finds out he has a child she'll throw a fit!
Q. I am dating this guy who has a child. I am beginning to like him very much. My mom knows I am dating him but she does not know he has a child. I am just seeking advice if it is proper to date a guy who has a child and what would my mom say when she ...
A. 21 February 2007: at the end of the day you cant help who you fall for, mums are always going to have there opinion on everything you do but you need to follow your heart ... (read in full...)
If I start seeing his best friend do you think it would hurt my ex?
Q. Hi I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years and he got very close with all my bestfriends guys and girls we Recentley just broke up and I started falling for my bestfriend and his bestfriend we have been hanging out and kissing behind h...
A. 21 February 2007: talk to your ex about it is all i could suggest, he may b fine with it, who broke up with who?. if he broke up with you then i wouldnt say anythin but if you broke up with him i think you should talk to him and tell him how u an the best friend ... (read in full...)
How do girls like to be kissed? Is there that perfect way to do it?
Q. hey I was wondering how do girls prefer to be kissed? My ex gf said i kissed perfectly but i have my doubts considering I had never kissed a girl before or even went out with 1 ya anyways a little feedback on what kind of ways girls like guys ...
A. 21 February 2007: everybodys different,if you both feel strongly for each other no matter how you kiss it will be perfect, i personally like to kiss with tongues but im sure you will find no matter how you kiss, if th eperson is into you shell like it ... (read in full...)
I've been lying to my grandparents about my boyfriend as I think they would forbid me seeing him but I hate lying to them. Any advice?
Q. Hi i am 16 almost 17 yrs old and have recently been seeing a 20 yr old guy. We really like each other so far and we have alot of fun together. I live with my grandparents and am afraid they wont approve. I'm afraid that they'll forbid me from seeing ...
A. 21 February 2007: iv recently had the same problem with my mum as im 18 an my boyfriends 22 and lives a distance away. id been with him 2 months and kept it quiet, im sure your grandparents know you well enough to have an idea you have a boyfriend and at the end of ... (read in full...)
Should I forget about him altogether and move on or work at it?
Q. Dear Cupid, A month ago I met a guy that I instantly hit it off with. He was a fresh change from the past of complete unavailable "jerks" that I was accustomed to -- he held as much respect for me as I did for him, and I could still remain int...
A. 21 February 2007: if uv fallen for some1 else u shuld go for it, i had the same problem not so long ago, but remember he's the one thats not ready an its his loss, i know how your feelin as this as happened to me and i've been with the new guy nearly 3 months now, ... (read in full...)
He expects me to have sex with him because he thinks I'm not a virgin! What can I do?
Q. I've liked this boy in my tutor for a while now and i've just told him and he asked me out but he expects me to sleep with him because he thinks that i've lost my virginity when i haven't. i don't know what to do :(...
A. 21 February 2007: if he liked you he wouldnt expect anything, he'd just be happy to be around you but you should tell him you're a virgin and take it from there.... (read in full...)
My friends are all having sex and I've never even been kissed!
Q. I am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. All my friends are now having sex and i have never even kissed one. They always tease me and i dont like being round them when they are talking about things like that. Do you have any suggestions about ...
A. 21 February 2007: well i was the same as you to. i thought they were all stupid for having sex at such a young age and making it into a competiton on whod do more, id never even kissed a boy at your age either an sometimes they asked me questions, you should be proud ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my bf asked if he could take my virginity. What should I do?
Q. im 13 n still a virgin. i've been goin out with my boyfriend for awhile. one day i was on the fone with him n he just asked if i as a virgin. of course i said yes. then i asked if he was on he said no.i said oh ok, cuz it didnt really bother me. so ...
A. 21 February 2007: remember its illegal to have sex till your 16 and if your scared your not ready, when your ready it will just happen but dont let anyone pressure you into it as if they do then there not worth it ... (read in full...)
Will I still bleed if I lose my virginity to him?
Q. hi well im in a long distance relationship...and its goin great just over the 5 month mark. We are going to see each other this week...we have both talked about sex, we are both 18 and feel very ready...we talk and are very open with each other, ...
A. 21 February 2007: it sounds just like my experience even with thelong distance lol. it sounds like hes broke your hymen already. you may still bleed when you have sex as iv had the same experiences as you, but then you may not but dont worry about it. just remember ... (read in full...)
Will I still bleed if I lose my virginity to him?
Q. hi well im in a long distance relationship...and its goin great just over the 5 month mark. We are going to see each other this week...we have both talked about sex, we are both 18 and feel very ready...we talk and are very open with each other, ...
A. 21 February 2007: well im in a long distance relationship to and by the sounds of it uv lost ur virginity just by his fingers as i did too, an yes u may still bleed but after a couple of times of sex it will stop ... (read in full...)
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