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I find intercourse boring and something to be done out of compulsion or pressure. Am I normal to feel this way or is something wrong with me?

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Question - (21 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I find the act of intercourse to be boring and something done out of compulsion/pressure and not genuine conviction. Is there something wrong to feel that as a guy?

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntThere is nothing wrong with you, there could be many reasons for this. Lot's of women feel this way when they are not 'making love', just doing it with someone random. Maybe if you waited until you met someone you felt a lot for, it might get better? If you already are with someone (you don't really mention this), maybe the feelings for them are going? Making love to someone you feel so much for should never feel that way so maybe sort those problems out first.

I think, if most guys were truthful, a lot of them have sex with random women because they feel they should, their mates do and they seem more of a man when they do. It's all really pathetic and maybe you're just not that guy. You obviously want more from sex and that's good, you're better than all these guys and you'll make a girl very happy.

Get in touch with me if you like, give me some information like are you talking about a girlfriend or sex with women you know/don't know?

Good luck anyway, whatever you decide.

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A female reader, hails United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

hails agony aunti wouldnt say there is somethin wrong with it as i know a guy who feels like that too so your not the only one.

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