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writes:HiI have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years and he got very close with all my bestfriends guys and girls we Recentley just broke up and I started falling for my bestfriend and his bestfriend we have been hanging out and kissing behind his back but everyone else knows he likes me too but we cant do anything about it cause all them hang out with my ex boyfriend please help me on what to do Thanks
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reader, here to help..x  +, writes (21 February 2007):
 you are doing somthing really wrong you need to consider how your boyfriend will feel if he finds out from somone else you need to sit and talk to him and tell him you dont think your relation is as good as it should be and you need to break up and you are seing someone then leave it a while before you make it offical or he could get very hurt.please trust me because its happend to me before and the boy i broke up with locked himself away for ova a year he lived on apples and water he was seriously ill and rushed into hospital it may seem durastic but thinggs like this can have huge affects on people.sorry im not trying to scare you im just sayin you need to have a long think about this ..x..x here to help x..
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Would your ex think twice about hurting you? if you keep it secret wouldnt it hurt him more when he finaly found out? but that would depend on how long you feel you could keep it hidden for. Would your ex ever want to go out with one of your friends? If he is your ex there must be a reason for it, who is he to stop any future relationships? Or you could even let your feelings pass and hope it all turns out ok. Good luck xxx
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reader, hails +, writes (21 February 2007):
 talk to your ex about it is all i could suggest, he may b fine with it, who broke up with who?. if he broke up with you then i wouldnt say anythin but if you broke up with him i think you should talk to him and tell him how u an the best friend feel
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