I think I might be bisexual or gay. How do I overcome my fear of asking a guy out or accepting a guy's advances?
Q. I dont know who I am or what I want. For years I tried to push the gay thoughts and desires from my head. Eventually I decided I was at least bisexual, if not gay. Now, however, it isnt the labeling that bothers me. I want to try having a relatio...
A. 30 June 2011: hey, well, 1st of all dont do night stands/hookups you are going to regret it. Take things slow...try gay dating sites, start talking to guys and once you feel comfortable, you can meet each other in person, then go from there. DOnt try to rush ... (read in full...)
Why do some gay guys don't seem to be gay at all?
Q. I have a friend who I've known many years. He always dated women and didn't seem gay. Then he came out a couple of years ago. I was surprised. His boyfriend is hot and doesn't really seem gay either. Such a shame! Is it just me or do I have a bad ...
A. 13 June 2011: I'm gay as well, and not too long ago, I came out. SOme people don't know, but the most important people in my life know, there rest will just have to find out by themselves. anyways, when I told some of my gay friends that I was gay, they couldn't ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my college room mates that I am gay?
Q. Ok, So Here I come again for some advice. Ok, So I'm 19 yrs old, a gay guy: I'm going to be attending college this fall. And well, I may be living on campus. But I dont know what to expect from all of this, since this is going to be the 1st time...
A. 9 June 2011: Hi, Thanks for your reply, I just learned that The dorms are like apartments, because you will be having your own room, the only things that will be shared with your roommates, are the bathroom and the kitchen, oh and living room. yeah, I know I ... (read in full...)
As an American woman, is it possible for me to find a Mexican man to marry?
Q. I`m feeling blue and I don't see how I can ever be happy. I don't want to date or marry someone just to be dating or marrying someone, I want to share my life with someone I really love. Being lonely is horrible but I won't settle for someone I ...
A. 8 June 2011: Hey I understand you. I'm Mexican but I'm gay lol..anyways, I'm not really attracted to Mexican guys. I LOVE white guys lol. You are still young. My advice to you, is try to go to places where most (if not all) are Mexican guys. You need to be ... (read in full...)
I love him but I want a relationship that I can tell everyone about!
Q. i am a gay teenager. Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 9 months and have been friends for 12years. Before we went out we both had girlfriends until 1 nite last summer when i got drunk and he made a move on me and told me he wanted to be ...
A. 27 May 2011: Hey, dont dump him because of that! You have to understand that not everyone has a family that support them as gay people. If you have a family that supports you, thats great, but not everyone is as lucky as you. Just give him sometime. Maybe til he ... (read in full...)
I think I am gay but I don't want to be! What can I do?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 years old. As question title says, I think I am gay. What can do I about this, if I don't want to be gay? I want to be straight, have a wife, family, kids. What makes me think that I am gay, is the fact, that I do not want sex with any...
A. 30 April 2011: Hey just wanted to share my thoughts on this. I'm gay too btw. Anyway, you could try to have sex with a guy and a girl. But let me tell you, that if you are a virgin, you may not like gay sex the 1st time you try it. With gay sex, things are ... (read in full...)
He's scared about things progressing so he has backed off!
Q. I am a gay male in my mid-20's. Just by way of background I recently got out of a 4 year relationship in which I was living with my ex for most of that time. About 8 or 9 months ago I met a guy and we became friends. I didn't even know he was gay ...
A. 29 April 2011: Something similar happened to me. Anyway, 1st of all give him his space and wait til he gets in contact with you. also, maybe he doesnt want somethings more serious (relationship) with you. Many people say that you deserve something better and blah ... (read in full...)
Could gay/bisexual guys possibly fancy effeminate ones?
Q. First things first, I'm an 18yo gay male, and have been wondering quite a few things for a while. A description of self: I'm gay, and I've been out of the closet since the prehistoric. I act, think, and talk like a femme, and somewhat dress, b...
A. 29 April 2011: Well, to be honest, I dont like effeminate gay guys. I like those who look and act like men not like girls. If I liked effeminate gay guys, I would be dating girls instead. I think it could be possible to fall in love with a effeminate gay guy, but ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend was on a dating site and he wanted to meet "me"!
Q. I receently had a tip off that my boyfriend has a profile on a dating site. The profile had pictures on it taken a few months ago and we've been together for nearly a year. I pretended to be someone else and got in contact. He replied and agreeed ...
A. 21 April 2011: Move on, he doesnt deserve you. This kinda happened to me with a guy that I was going on dates with. We werent like officially going out, but sometime we acted like if we were going out. Anyway, I found he was on a dating site too, and I contacted ... (read in full...)
Have any guys stayed with a girl that they dated in their teens?
Q. Is there any guys out there who met a girl at 15/16/17/18 and are still with them? maybe married to them, engaged, still dating and how old are you guys know? I keep hearing so much stuff about how when guys meet a girl at 18 or younger they nev...
A. 20 April 2011: Yes!!! My parents met when they were 16 (my dad) and 15 my mom. Both of my parents are in their 40's. I just have to say that they went through a lot of stuff. My dad cheated on my mom a couple of times ago. But he changed, so is all good now. But I ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else
Q. I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...
A. 14 April 2011: hmmmm there is something wrong, is weird that she didnt asked why....some of the signs I got that this guy wasnt that much into me as I was into him, was that sometimes he would ask me how I was doing, and he never asked why in some of the times ... (read in full...)
Is he just a rebound guy and given his history, will he cheat on me too??
Q. I got out Of a relationship 3 weeks ago and have started having feelings for this other guy. Two problems: first, I'm not sure if I really like him or if he's a rebound crush. Secondly he told me that he has cheated on two of his previous ...
A. 13 April 2011: hmmm maybe he is just a rebound crush. If you would like to know for sure if you really like him, I would recommend you to take things slow, and take your time. I just stopped seeing this guy, because he was using me as a rebound, maybe he didnt do ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else
Q. I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...
A. 6 April 2011: well take it easy dude, and 1st establish a friendship with her, and then just see where it leads to....I was used as a rebound, and I also met this person online. anyways, before you do anything, ask her where you stand with her and ask her to be ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from suitor after one date, what is the best way to move forward?
Q. So I met this guy online and we agreed to meet up. After a lot of hesitation of whether he was feeling energetic enough to come out, we finally met up, things went well, it was a short meeting over coffee. We then went back to mine and messed ...
A. 31 March 2011: It sounds very similar to got just happened to me, anyway, take things slow, dont mess with each other anymore, treat him as a friend, if he wants to be with you, he has to do the work too, both sides of the relationship need to do the work in able ... (read in full...)
Am I being used as a rebound?
Q. Ok I have asked for help regarding to this matter before, and here I am again asking for some help. I just want to know if I'm being used. Ok for those who didnt saw my last questions, the things is this I met a guy online and we have been going on ...
A. 31 March 2011: ok, I decided to move on, this guy turned out to be a total jerk. I saw that he created another profile in the dating website under different username and city, he said he lived in the city where i live but he doesnt. So i created another account ... (read in full...)
Am I being used as a rebound?
Q. Ok I have asked for help regarding to this matter before, and here I am again asking for some help. I just want to know if I'm being used. Ok for those who didnt saw my last questions, the things is this I met a guy online and we have been going on ...
A. 22 March 2011: Thanks blonde30s thats what im going to do, give us time to get each other more and, that will give him time to get over his past relationship....and yes I will still go on other dates...only time will tell.... (read in full...)
My dominating boyfriend who thinks he's "Gods Gift" is making my life miserable...
Q. hey, so im about to turn 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 21. we have been together for a couple months and things are getting very complicated. im becoming scared of him. he keeps pressuring me about falling in love... he always says "i dont thi...
A. 4 March 2011: I think you cant fix that...If I was you, I would leave him, there are better guys out there...yes some of them are not really attractive, but some are somewhat hot and nice too...he's using you as a sex toy to pleasure himself. to me, it seems that ... (read in full...)
I'm falling head over heels for him, but he wants friendship and who's supposed to text first?
Q. Ok, so I asked an advice before regarding to this, but anyways, i met a guy two weeks ago. I posted an ad on a gay dating site stating that i was looking for a Bf but obviously friends and then we would see where would it take us. Anyways, we went ...
A. 25 February 2011: Thanks for your advice, and yes I want to take things slower...and I want to be patient, but is really hard...anyways, I'll wait and see what happens....but I'm just a bit worried why he's acting this way, since we met, we have been honest to each ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be gay!!
Q. I am a Baptist Christian guy. I know the Bible prohibits homosexuality, or bisexuality etc. But I feel attracted to mens bodies. It's not like I love men. It's lust. And with girls I'm not attracted to their bodies as much but I love them for who ...
A. 25 February 2011: Hey, you can fight this for how long you want, but let me tell you, you wont change a thing...I'm Christian too, and yes I know that I wasnt born this way and I know I didnt chose to be this way, but some how I started to feel attraction for men...I ... (read in full...)
I love my friends, but all they talk about is sex! How do I tell them I think they are being crude? Or should I say nothing?
Q. I have a great group of friends ranging in age from 13 to 17. I'm almost 15, so I'm in the middle, age-wise. Well what's upsetting me is that my friends are funny and great, and I love them, but every other topic is sex! Like threesom...
A. 25 February 2011: yeah, you should get new friends...try talking to them...... (read in full...)
How do I meet someone?
Q. Dear Cupid..... hi, i'm 16, i'm lesbian and i need a girlfriend! How do i meet someone??? i've crushed over loads of girls now, older and younger and i'm feeling really really horny a lot of the time. I touch myself a lot, but i want more now, do ...
A. 23 February 2011: I would recommend you to wait, I kinda had the same feeling when I was at your age Im gay btw...anyways, the best answer is to wait, come out and meet lesbians friends...because finding someone who is gay/lesbian is really hard when you are still in ... (read in full...)
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