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writes:Ok, so I asked an advice before regarding to this, but anyways, i met a guy two weeks ago. I posted an ad on a gay dating site stating that i was looking for a Bf but obviously friends and then we would see where would it take us. Anyways, we went for a late lunch, and we were chatting for more then an hour, then he asked me to go out for dinner and watch a movie right after we met for lunch. anyways, we had been texting eachother for about two weeks, and i was always the one who would text him 1st, but since i dont want to annoy him, I decided to stop texting him 1st, but before I forget, he kind of changed after our second meeting ( i wont call it date since he wants to be friends 1st since he needs a relation break) anyways, I noticed that he wont text me as much as we did before. yesterday i decided not to text him to see if he would text me, and he didnt. so today I sent him a text to see how he was doing, and he didnt texted me back...so should i wait till he text me, or should i try texting him in a couple of days if he doesnt text me...or should I move on??? I cant stop thinking of him...i cant believe I have fallen head over heels this fast...He's a very nice guy, anyways, what should I do? and well I think the problem is that he has a professional job and I dont.. i'm still trying to get into college..btw his 4 years older than me..
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reader, gaydating +, writes (25 February 2011):
gaydating is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, and yes I want to take things slower...and I want to be patient, but is really hard...anyways, I'll wait and see what happens....but I'm just a bit worried why he's acting this way, since we met, we have been honest to each other and we agreed that we were going to be honest, we both share the point of view that honesty is very important for any kind of friendship. SO if there's a problem, why he just doesnt tell me?
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reader, phoenix69  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 Hello I think you should take things slower yes its very hard to do sometimes people confuse not wanting to be alone to love but it takes time to fall in love. I dont know why its so easy for us gay guys to fall in love so quickly maybe we think we wont find someone. They always say once you stop looking thats when it will find you but we never wanna wait. Waiting is very hard especially when you feel for someone because its better to be loved for just a week than not at all some people are still waiting some get into relationships like me that never last but theres hope for all so try and take things slow if he just wants to be friends then be his friend and find someone who will love you forever...
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