How long to have an orgasm?
Q. How long does it take for you to achieve an orgasm? (specifically for girls, but guys can answer too)...
A. 24 January 2009: Depends on time, mood, excitability, pleasured moments etc. Even pre coital can be orgasmic. Heightened pleasure equates hastened orgasms.... (read in full...)
Is he worth a second chance even though he has hit me twice...
Q. I went on holiday with my boyfriend in sept just gone, i am 29 he is 25 though very wise and mature for his age in some ways. Met a year ago on holiday and started going out in may this year, he suffers from schizophrenia though i never knew how ...
A. 8 January 2009: THROWING AT AND KICKING AERSON ARE BOTH UNFORGIVEABLE.
ONCE BITTEN TWICE "BEWARE". Leave the scene. Drop the person. Bring no harm and regrets to yourself (and him).
One act of quit, and both benefit in the long term. Heal your mind, go to volun... (read in full...)
I want my mum to accept my boyfriend. How can I do this?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for the past six months, but before we were going out we were good friends and introduced him to my parents. After 3 months i told my mum i was going out with him and she got angry, not because i have a b/f but ...
A. 5 October 2008: Firstly, interracial marriages are not yet an expected aspect with parents.
Secondly, you have known him 3 months, and your mother met him as a friend of yours. How many times has she met him?
Thirdly, age 19 does not yet, make you a judge of... (read in full...)
Should I have 2 sleepovers instead of one? Suggestions please...???
Q. My 16th is coming up in a 2 months and i am just having a sleepover with about 12 people and a chinese which im looking forward too as i cannot do something mega big due to finances. However, i have two completly different groups of friends and w...
A. 4 October 2008: Yo Mon,
Are you hiding something/anything that anybody should not know. Have you set eyes on any one particular, in each grup. If so, then have 2 diffrent dates, or at diffferent hours of the same evening or invite all and let them make the best... (read in full...)
Why does he want threesomes after 5 years?! What happens if I say yes?
Q. i am 19 and for the last 5 years i have been with the same person. We now have a gorgeous son who is 5 months old. Ever since the beginning of our relationship everything was fun we didnt have sex untill about a year after we met just recentlly afte...
A. 19 September 2008: Adventures are better than "BED VETURES". You both are married 5 years. You say, you are 19,with your first child and have been his love and care for 5 years now. How old is he, what is his work environ, and has he of late turned to porno? Is there ... (read in full...)
I don't want anyone to know about my previous marriage...
Q. Unfortunately, I will be getting a divorce soon. I've been married for almost 6 years and my family does not know about it. My family, being my parents and siblings. I wish to keep this confidential, especially to my future gf/fiance/wife. Is this ...
A. 19 September 2008: HOW DID YOU KEEP A SIX YEAR MARRIAGE IS SUCH SECRETIVE SILENCE? Are you saying that, parents on both sides do not know this, your friends,her friends,neighbours, and the close members of your social fabric do not know at all.
How could you ditc... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend acting so strange? I'm confused, help please!
Q. Hey guys, i just want to let a few things out about how i feel and basically whay my girl is making me feel like (if u get me).. Just to let you know it is a long story, so if you dont want to read i understand. Ok, i met this girl literally l...
A. 19 September 2008: YOU ARE AGED 18-21. Her's we do not know. What did you want/expect from her, and what did she want//expect from you? Maybe, to her it was just compnionship, and to you, it was expecting luna landing. The drinking coupled with close companionship on ... (read in full...)
I understand that parents are a bit wary of letting me go over to Ireland to see someone they'd barely met, but they're being unreasonable about it!!
Q. Hey Aunts. It started like this, I met a guy online and we liked each other loads, so I gathered as much proof as I could that he was who he said he was, and arranged to meet up with him. We'd known each other for over a year and a half over msn ...
A. 17 September 2008: HONEY! you are 16-17. I am 57. Think a moment. You have known a "stranger" for 1 1/2 years, but not in person at all. WHEN YOU MET UP, THERE WERE NO PROBLEMS". Of course, there was no problem in the first encounter. Each trying to please the other ... (read in full...)
Did I miss a small window of opportunity with her?
Q. Hello to all! A young lady(29) applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. She asked me if I was married and when I said ...
A. 17 September 2008: HELLO, my friend. What do you want? A teacher or a mate. You meet someone in an interview for the first time, you are "already attracted to her",you go on a date, she speaks her term of 2-3 hours and negotiates away from your 5 hours criteria, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me, as a female, to enjoy watching porn?
Q. Hiya, I am just wondering if I am normal, or this situation is normal. Well, I have been in a relationship with my fiance for nearly three years and I have always looked at porn on the internet. He does not know this, nor will I tell him beca...
A. 15 September 2008: PORN is NORM. Equal number of men and women watch in private as well as together. See on screen, what you both do in bed. Only difference, men loudly repeat, what they have seen. Women keep it all on hold. Who is he? Does he enjoy sex jokes; remarks ... (read in full...)
He went down on me and wanted nothing in return - is this normal?
Q. Me and this guy that I've only met twice have hooked up each time we've been together while at a friend's house. Each time, he's gone down on me, but afterwards it didn't seem like he wanted anything in return. Does that seem wierd to anyone? Why ...
A. 15 September 2008: Meeting for sex at a friend's place can be neutral, but not comfortable. Was there time for fore-play, and all the excitement of fellatio and cunnilingus, and sexual positions, if it mattered. Perhaps, on sight both were ready to excute and ... (read in full...)
Is his sex talk normal, or a sign of paedophilia?
Q. im a 21 - if im having sex with my boyfriend and he says that he wants me to call him my daddy and he calls me his little girl or good little girl is that hot or perverted, pedophilia signs, or just getting freaky...
A. 15 September 2008: When is a person called "good little girl" or "my little girl" Whom and when do you call "daddy". At time of sex, when a man whispers "good girl" or "little girl", there is that fine mixture of love, care, tenderness and satisfying. Canthese 4 words ... (read in full...)
Was this really a one-night stand?
Q. Am so confused! 2 year ago i met a guy n we became friends. last year we were invited 2 a party n he showed more interest in me. later that night we went 2 his place, he wanted sex n i said NO. We kept in touch n 2 weeks ago i went 2 his place n we ...
A. 10 September 2008: APPEARS SO TO BE.Again, it may not be so. To be exact, you have met twoice only.At the part and then to his place. You said "no". Kept in touch & all that: was it hai!hai! When you went to his place (the second time, that you are meeting why were ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 8 September 2008: MY DEAR FRIEND, you are asking for a load of problems, and is going to hurt you the rest of your life. (1) It is not ok to have sex with a 26 year old. (2) What would youdo, ifshe mae up to your parents, and said that she's pregnant with your child? ... (read in full...)
How tight is a normal vagina?
Q. I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...
A. 8 September 2008: WHY THIS SUDDEN CONCERN? Tightness is as as tight a water leak seal. Remember the occasion, you held back urine until arriving at a toilet. On the other hand,visualise how the vagina opens up to deliver a child. On both occasions are muscles and ... (read in full...)
Are there any more ways I could pleasure my boyfriend even more?
Q. My boyfriend and I have very experimental sex and when we have a few drinks we do alot of things that we wouldn't normally mention but that we are really happy about because we discover new ways to pleasure each other. For those who say the male ...
A. 4 September 2008: Hey,listen! Experimental sex? You did not elebaorate on those two words or even describe anything. The very first sexual contact was experimental to both of you. Did any one of you, knew what the reaction is likely to be. What was pleasurable, both ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?
Q. I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...
A. 1 September 2008: HEALING TAKES TIME.This is not just physical, but an emotional as well. The journey to making her completely comfortable is going to be tough. GET THE TRUST FIRST. Everything hat you say or do must be reassuring to her. Until her mind says, I can ... (read in full...)
Best things to say during sex to impress or surprise him?
Q. hey i love havinbg sex with my partner. i know this might sound starnge but whats the best sound and best things to say during to impress or surprise him ?...
A. 1 September 2008: Words and sounds add depth to sex. The guy can say "wider honey" inferring spread yourself more. He can say "you are tight"; "we will again tomorrow"; "let me hammer you"; "i will give you an hour of pumping"; "you deserve this to be tamed" and so ... (read in full...)
What sex positions are there were the girl does the work?
Q. Hello! I was wondering if there are any other postitions (other than girl on top) that requires the girl to do work, or even variations of girl on top other than reverse cowgirl, something new? I do like missionary and doggy style and whatnot but ...
A. 30 August 2008: Many ways. When the typical missionary is reversed, the female partner keeps sex in motion. The cowboy position and straddled with knees bent and leaning forward enables good breast tease from his palms. In this position, she can induce maximum ... (read in full...)
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