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Is his sex talk normal, or a sign of paedophilia?

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Question - (15 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *nyluck111 writes:

im a 21 - if im having sex with my boyfriend and he says that he wants me to call him my daddy and he calls me his little girl or good little girl is that hot or perverted, pedophilia signs, or just getting freaky

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008):

Lol, that's not pedophilia. Your lover has an incest fetish. That's all.

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A male reader, FETSEA Malaysia +, writes (15 September 2008):

When is a person called "good little girl" or "my little girl" Whom and when do you call "daddy". At time of sex, when a man whispers "good girl" or "little girl", there is that fine mixture of love, care, tenderness and satisfying. Canthese 4 words be, between dad and daughter. A man can pound a girl sexuually very hard,fast and vigour to satisfy his fury, or to meet the ladie's hungered call.It could be just a role play of a caring dad to daughter(not appropriate though). Did you play along, and enjoy as well. Who is being freakish or a pervert?

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (15 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntI see it as a type of role play where he wants to the the one in control, in a freaky way, not "controlling" way. However, if it is a deep concern of yours, or it makes you feel uncomfertable, maybe in a giggle-ish way, tell him you'd rather call him "boss" or something like that. These types of role plays (in my opinion) are common, and normal. You always hear of the "naughty school girl and the principal" and such tings like that. He is just being freaky. If he made any kind of refrence to "little girl parts", or wanted you to call him "daddy" even outside of the bedroom, then maybe I'd be alittle more concerned, but I think he is just being creative.

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