Could you try to give me tips or anything that will help me get a boyfriend?
Q. I'm 15 years old, and I know most of you adults would probably say wait you'll have plenty of time for boys. But it seems like MOST girls at my school have boyfriends. Its like everyone is paired up. Walk down the ONE hall in my school, and you'll ...
A. 13 January 2009: okay, you see 6 or 7 couples, now look around and look at all the other people who arent with anyone, who're just chillin with friends in other places etc. and realize you aren't so alone, your previous boyfriend played your feelings and was an ... (read in full...)
I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!
Q. Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...
A. 1 January 2009: you sound overprotective, she isn't the president and doesn't need THAT much protection, i can understand your need to protect but still bro, just chill and let her live her own life as well... (read in full...)
Your dirty little secrets
Q. I was listening to all american rejects (a band) on youtube. One song got my attention. Its called dirty little secrets (dls) Its one of the most touching videos I've ever seen! Full of confessions. But its more than the video, underneath on the ...
A. 22 December 2008: i doubt anyone is going to put their actual secrets on here but the all american rejects got their idea from here
postsecret.blogspot.com
check it out, i'm sure you'll love it... (read in full...)
What should I do in my situation?
Q. I recently confirmed that a girl I know likes me, and I was planning on asking her out on the day I found out, but her friends got in the way and I didn't ask her out. When we got back to the school her friend told me she wanted to get to know m...
A. 12 December 2008: sounds like its just awkward because you both realize the affections between you two and that tends to make both parties nervous as you are both somewhat unsure of what to say so you just kind of pick at topics to keep up a semblance of ... (read in full...)
Should I stop giving advice?
Q. Hi! I will except advice from anyone. Ok... I 28% of my ratings went to poor. I thought I was doing well, but a big percentage doesn't seem to think so. Should I call it quits, and stop giving advice because that was very discouraging to see. ...
A. 12 December 2008: i have a rating of 3, majority of them are poor, but you know what? people might not like your advice, but it doesn't mean it isn't true and doesn't mean there isn't some advice/help they cannot derive from your words
keep posting advice, ... (read in full...)
Since I am Filipino, am I Asian? I was never told, just that I'm part Filipino.
Q. Since I am Filipino, am I Asian? I was never told, just that I'm part Filipino....
A. 28 November 2008: specifically, you are considered pacific islander, but generically you are asian so if someone says you are asian, YES you are asian but tell them "but i'm specifically pacific islander."... (read in full...)
How can I get a guy who's my type?
Q. I'm mixed race but I'm quite light to say I am. I don't mind being mixed race but people always think I'm some urban/chav/fesity rude girl and I'm nothing like that I'm really nice, christian, I love rock music, I'm bit of a punk too :P Most of...
A. 25 November 2008: Find some indie friends and see where that takes you =)... (read in full...)
Will it ever happen for me?
Q. Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot ...
A. 19 November 2008: i'm where you are at...."it will happen some day", all I can say is continue talking to guys and you're bound to make a connection, but hey if you REALLY want to give yourself a chance, you can do this
talk to one new guy a day (or guys you dont... (read in full...)
Nothing I do helps... My boyfriend is addicted to games!!!
Q. To put it simply my boyfriend is addicted to games =,= and I love sex but usually after he's done going out with his buddies he's on his games UGHH! and he's so hot I can't resist.. and I've tried a lot of things, teasing him showing up naked even ...
A. 19 November 2008: this might sound harsh, but how about you tell him how you feel about this and if he doesn't stop after that talk, leave him. at some point he is going to have to choose between the virtual world and the real world. either be with you, a REAL ... (read in full...)
After sports showering shows guys with bigger packages than me, am I normal?
Q. I'll just cut to the chase.. I have a small penis erect i think its roughly 3-4 inches. Is the small or around average. Im 16 so im still growing but i'm a bit concerned. This is gonna sound really perverted but I play rugby so we shower together ...
A. 19 November 2008: eyeswideopen, dont be an ass, how do you honestly know its the same guy? you're just fine bro and tbh the angle at which you are looking at your penis is straight down while other guys, you see their penises from a different angle and from straight ... (read in full...)
I can't ejaculate yet... is something wrong with me?
Q. I'm 15 and can't ejaculate yet, is there something wrong?...
A. 18 November 2008: One more thing to consider.........you know how to masturbate yes? Also, masturbation won't work if you aren't turned on by something. You can be erect, but if you aren't "turned on" mentally as well (i hope that made sense) then you are pretty ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this if he's my best friend?
Q. I told my Best Guy friend last night That I've had feelings for him. Even though I know he didnt feel the same. He played me along the past year because he wanted me to be his best friend with benefits.. we stopped doing that.. but he was the first ...
A. 16 November 2008: he is obviously not your friend if he is going to make you feel like this, you have other friends, hang with them and leave him be until he gets the picture and maybe he'll come to appreciate the sort of friend he had until his own selfishness ... (read in full...)
Was I destined to be miserable?
Q. I need help, I feel lonely and isolated in my school. I feel like I can't connect with people and I feel like they always avoid me.... was I destined to be miserable?...
A. 14 November 2008: Someone comes up to you, talks to you and tries to be friendly, you enjoy the fact that someone is taking the first step and trying to get to know you. Now reverse that situation. Sure you're nervous going up and meeting and talking to new ... (read in full...)
He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!
Q. Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...
A. 12 November 2008: You are above the age of consent so technically, your parents can't really stop you. However you are still a student and he is your teacher and there are student/teacher laws that could lead to repercussions, I suggest you go and research those ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him? Can you help, please?
Q. There's this guy i met at a concert in july. But when we first met it was kinda like love at first sight. It was like i known him all my life. Well we began talking more and more, and one day my parents read all my text messages of me and him joking ...
A. 5 November 2008: Everyone is going to hurt you at some point in your life, all you get to choose is who you are going to let hurt you. If you like him, then at least try, its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all to be honest and by trying ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to like me?
Q. im trying to get this girl to like me, shes a year below me and im 16. i have met her once but we have been texting for a few weeks now. i think she think likes me a bit as well however the downfall is im not very good with women at all. could ...
A. 4 November 2008: Well bro, the fact that she likes you means you can't be THAT bad with women. Have some confidence! she already seems to be interested in you and thus you are progressing nicely, just let things play out as they should, maybe by the end of this ... (read in full...)
16 and still never been out on a date...
Q. I was just wondering... When is the age when you're a little old to not have had any kind of relationship with a girl? I'm 16 I'm good looking (I get that a lot not making it up) I'm a regular person with a regular life (I'm not wierd or crazy LOL) ...
A. 31 October 2008: I am 17 and I have never been on a date, never had a girlfriend etc. etc. I know exactly where you are coming from and I know how you feel, what's the point right? I try and I try, there's nothing I can see thats wrong with me but there jus... (read in full...)
He says sex hurts him! Is this normal?
Q. my bf is 22 he was still a virgin we've only done it twice but he says it hurts him alot is it normal? ...
A. 20 October 2008: maybe its too pleasurable and hes confusing the pleasure overload with pain? take it slow and let him do his thing at his own pace and see if it'll work out that way, allowing him to get used to the sensation... (read in full...)
I really fancy my close friend's boyfriend!
Q. There is this super hot and sexy boy that I like. He plays soccer and has good grades and did I mention that he is hot? Well I really like him and he knows it and I also happen to know that he likes me. There's one problem, he has a girlfriend and ...
A. 19 October 2008: Save it, he hasn't even been with you for 6 months, theres no guarantee he'll stay around for you after this. Besides 14 is young and I think you're right to wait till at least 16.... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!
Q. my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...
A. 17 October 2008: This sort of relationship rarely works out very well and your mother is looking out after you whether or not you realize it. This man isn't for you, he is almost twice your age and as a teenager that is WAY too big an age gap. There are good ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my deformed penis?
Q. I have a problem with my penis,it is deformed.The left side of the head of my penis is shorter than the right side.This is because the frenulum is on the left side of the head of my penis and I masturbate regularly ever since I was 14 now a few ...
A. 17 October 2008: i dont recall masturbation ever doing something like this, was there something in particular you did while masturbating to cause your penis to slowly shift the frenelum over in this way?... (read in full...)
I'm worried about what will happen if I have sex with my boyfriend.
Q. Okay first off I'm fifteen years old and my boyfriend is seventeen. We've only been going out for two months, but we've known eachother for a good chunk of eachother's lives. (his dad dated my mom for awhile, but they broke up. I then dated his best ...
A. 16 October 2008: stay with him at least 6 months to a year and if hes still around then you can start to consider it and its not true about never staying with the one you lose your virginity to, some stay together for a very long time, i know someone who has been ... (read in full...)
If men see my qualities, why don't they approach me? My friend says I'm amazing but doesn't want to disappoint me...
Q. I am a 20 year old woman, I have been told that I am good looking, smart and can talk to anybody.. if this is the case why do men never seem to approach me? they always come up to my friends. the only guy i think i truely love is one of my best f...
A. 16 October 2008: your friend is being silly. maybe you're just so wonderful he has a hard time seeing himself with you, i know some girls have that problem. try to convince him others and to see sense if you guys are this close already. maybe guys are just ... (read in full...)
How could someone do in seconds what I've been trying to do for ages!??
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 17 year old male who has a serious problem affecting me. I have liked a girl for 5 years now, and slowly been trying to get her to be mine. Throughout the years it has been very dramatic and has gone up and down like a roller co...
A. 16 October 2008: ........i have had your problem. I liked a girl for 5 years and I tried so hard to get her to slowly like me and she went out with diff. guys over the years but I was always there after each one. I never understood how she didn't like me, I was ... (read in full...)
She is my first girlfriend, and I think I love her, but am not sure, as she annoys me sometimes, not sure I want to break up either or hurt her, please help me?
Q. So I have this girlfriend of about 6 months, she's my first girlfriend (I'm 17 she's 18), and it wasn't love at first sight, I just wanted a short relationship cause she left for college (in Europe) about 5 months in. But as we got further I started ...
A. 17 September 2008: well you should talk to her if things about what she says bothers you, communication is key to keeping any relationship alive and keeping all these hidden annoyances locked up and letting them build up isn't doing you any favors. by the way, do you ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to talk about with my boyfriend. What do I say to keep it interesting?
Q. my boyfriend and me have been goin out for about four weeks now i think and when we end up talking/txting i dont know what to say or talk about except "what are you doing?" or "what are you doing for the rest of the day/tomorrow?" he works ...
A. 17 September 2008: I just want to say that maybe you two just had a crush on each other and it is starting to wear off. One thing you can do though is set up a day and just spend it with him, I'm sure your boyfriend could find one day to spend some time with his ... (read in full...)
He is insecure about having sex. How can I help him? What if we never do it?
Q. i've recently stared a relationship with a guy who i feel very strongly about. He's the first one in a long while that i've thought i could really stick with. The problem is a few weeks ago we shared a bed and to which i thought we would of had sex....
A. 17 September 2008: Well you said you've recently begun this relationship with him, maybe he just isn't at that stage yet where he is comfortable enough to have sex with you yet. Also, if the insecurity is about not being good enough/his body, you just have to talk ... (read in full...)
The stretch marks and hair on my body, make me not want to have sex with my boyfriend, for fear he will be turned off, what can I do?
Q. So There Is This Guy We Have Been Off And On Since The Fourth Grade I Love Him Very Much We Have Not Been Together For Like Two Months We Text A Lot And He Always Tells Me He Wants To Have Sex With Me And Im A Virgin But Its Like I Have Stretch ...
A. 17 September 2008: i agree with baby duck, you're age range puts you at 13-15 and in my opinion thats too young to start this and you don't sound ready for this either
you've been together for two months and he's always telling you he wants to have sex with you? it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend texts another girl while he is out with me, I have told him it bothers me, but he won't stop, is he cheating on me or what?
Q. My boyfriend says he loves me still and wont break up with me and when i hang out with him or talk to him on the phone he keeps txting this one girl and when i tell him it brothers me he doesnt listen to me.... i dont know if he is doing something ...
A. 17 September 2008: Guys can have friends who are girls and girls can have friends who are guys and this continues on even if they are in a relationship. I think you should just play it cool for now and don't overreact too much but you should talk to him about how ... (read in full...)
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