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Your dirty little secrets

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Article - (22 December 2008) 9 Comments - (Newest, 18 January 2009)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I was listening to all american rejects (a band) on youtube. One song got my attention. Its called dirty little secrets (dls) Its one of the most touching videos I've ever seen! Full of confessions. But its more than the video, underneath on the comments page the was over a MILLION of comments from people confessing there dls. It made me realise how many people have dls and how good it must feel to get it of your chest! This is the perfect place for a dls bored I cant stand it anymore!

My dls- I've been abused I dont love my family, I act happy to my friends even though Im dieing inside and non of my family no's im bi!

I feel better now. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009):

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Thanks! I just feel so alone.

I guess all we can do is wait for somone to realise and bring us out of it, but to me the fact that somone has to is the most depressing part.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009):

Everyone who looks at me says I am very pretty.I have a tough time believing it as I was an ugly duckling.People think I am very confident because of my looks but a little girl inside me remembers being bullied at school for being the shortest and ugliest.

I find it very difficult to forgive people though I am brought up to be a christian.

I am very egotistical,stubborn and opinionated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009):

My dirty little secret is that I make out I wasn't bought up in a bad home, I try to make out that i've had the best upbringing in the world, where in actual fact, my parents were drug dealers, my dad was put in prison for an attempted armed robbery due to drug money debt, and my mother is a complete real life, and cyber whore. Yea, it actually feels better getting that out :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008):

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Thanks. In a way it does. I just think though why me? I envy my friends that are'nt as messed up as I am but thats life and now my friends are my family. Thanks :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008):

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Disturbed princess- I feel the exact same way about my family!

Also to others writing thanks but your kinda not getting it its a place for people to get aload of there mind. I read so many problems on dc about cheating, secret relationships, failed marriages and more so I just thought it might help.

:)

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A female reader, Disturbed Princess Australia +, writes (23 December 2008):

Disturbed Princess agony auntI have the same thing i dont like my family i wish i was never born or they werent my real family and all my friends think im a happy person because im always pretending im happy n just smiling only a few people know how i really feel i cant trust my family because they make it a big deal n my friends just try to help me to the best of their abilities.

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A female reader, question seeker and lover United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2008):

question seeker and lover agony auntdont act happy 2 your mates

if they are true friends theyll usterstand and be there for you im from the uk as you can see

but ive been on postsecret.blogspot.com and its good i reccomed it!!!!!!!!!

p.b.w.u.

xx

(that means : peace.be.with.you)

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A male reader, Everoth United States +, writes (22 December 2008):

Everoth agony aunti doubt anyone is going to put their actual secrets on here but the all american rejects got their idea from here

postsecret.blogspot.com

check it out, i'm sure you'll love it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008):

Thanks for confiding in us and don't worry we won't tell anyone!

I'm sorry you were abused. I was a battered woman so I know what abuse can do to you.

It's okay not to love your family. I also have family members that I am not too fond of. There is no law that tells us we have to love our family of origin. It's a good idea to create a family of friends though so you will have someone to confide in. It's difficult going through life wearing a smile when you're dying inside. I did it for years. I hid my pain with humor. wound up suffering with Post Traumatic Stress. I'm okay now though and I can definitely say there is life after abuse, and happiness is possible.

It's also okay that people don't know you are bi. It's nobodies business but yours, and when you want someone to know you will tell them!

It's a great idea to have a dls board...it feels so good to just spill your guts, especially when you know you can recieve support of others, such as on this site. I think DC should consider having a true confessions or dls!

Thank you for your article. Knowing it made you feel better makes me feel better too!

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