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30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend and me have been goin out for about four weeks now i think and when we end up talking/txting i dont know what to say or talk about except "what are you doing?" or "what are you doing for the rest of the day/tomorrow?" he works pratically all day besides school so i dont get to see him much. it seems like we know everything about each other and our conversations are so boring... what should i say to make it more interesting??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 September 2008):
If you've run out of things to talk about after 4 weeks then you are in trouble.
Talk about the news, there is an election on so get him to talk about all the issues and his views on the world.
It's all part of getting to know eachother.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): I don't know but that's the worse kind of relationship there is. It'll wear off really soon and it'll wear you guys out. Forget him, gal.
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reader, Everoth +, writes (17 September 2008):
I just want to say that maybe you two just had a crush on each other and it is starting to wear off. One thing you can do though is set up a day and just spend it with him, I'm sure your boyfriend could find one day to spend some time with his girlfriend. Texting or just talking on the phone isnt such a great way to keep up a relationship, but it can be done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): All the men I've ever met love to talk about themselves. If in doubt,encourage him in this direction...
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