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26-29,
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writes:There is this super hot and sexy boy that I like. He plays soccer and has good grades and did I mention that he is hot? Well I really like him and he knows it and I also happen to know that he likes me. There's one problem, he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend happens to be one of my closest friends. We started to text and get to know each other and I used to think he was a man whore but it turned out he is a really cool person. One day he asked me if I would go out with him if he ever broke up with his girlfirnd and I said yes. One day he asked me if I would have sex with him and I told him it depends on a lot of stuff. I told him the first on was age and that I would have to be at least 16. He said that he would wait for me. I believed it. Later on I told my cousin and she said that I should wait until I find someone that is meant for me. Then she told me that she knows this because she lost her virginity at 14 and she met somebody better and wishes she would have waited for him. I've never had a boyfriend so I don't know what I should do. Yesterday I told him that maybe I would do it at 14 and he said that he would be waiting for me and I thought that was so cute. Today I told him that I would have to be ready and mature too. What should I do, if he asks me out should I say yes or no, would I be a bad friend if I say yes and should I wait and not lose my virginity at fourteen? What do I do?
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reader, BLONDII3  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Babe, just don't go there. He may seem perfect but imagine how you'd feel if you were going out with him and lost your virginity to him and then he did this to you? How would you feel if he went behind your back with your close friend? Cause the chances are if hes did it once, he'll do it again. And you really dont want to have to go through that. And yes sorry but you would be the bad friend if you did this and chances are your friend wouldn't talk to you for a good while maybe never again? You don't want to lose your virginity to guy like this. Give it to someone who deserves it babe! let him know you want nothing more to do with him and if he keeps hassling you tell him you will tell your friend everything! he'll soon get the message! Good luck xxxx!
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reader, Everoth +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Save it, he hasn't even been with you for 6 months, theres no guarantee he'll stay around for you after this. Besides 14 is young and I think you're right to wait till at least 16.
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