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writes:im trying to get this girl to like me, shes a year below me and im 16. i have met her once but we have been texting for a few weeks now. i think she think likes me a bit as well however the downfall is im not very good with women at all. could anyone help me out or give me tips of any kind, they will be much appreciated.
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reader, JustChillin  +, writes (4 November 2008):
 With the fact that you've only met this girl once, it might be a bit more difficult for you to get her to like you. But, first you need to let her get to know you before you can see if she likes you.
Fact is you two don't really know one another. Yes, you might get to know each other a bit more by texting, but as far as building any kind of a friendship or potential relationship with this girl, it would best be done in person.
Furthermore, I might add that you can't force someone to like you, that is something that comes naturally. Either a person likes you or they don't and that usually is by way of a natural progression with a friendship or relationship with someone.
If you want to get to know one another, I might suggest that you text'd her and let her know that you would like to meet up with her again, so you two can get to know each other. Maybe you could meet up to go to a movie, shopping, or to meet up for lunch or something.
You can't be the shy one, or this girl, as well as many others will pass you by. Women typically go for those guys that are confident and able to carry on a conversation. So, if you like this girl, you better let her know that you want to get to know her better. =)) Best of success in your endeavors! =))
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reader, Everoth +, writes (4 November 2008):
 Well bro, the fact that she likes you means you can't be THAT bad with women. Have some confidence! she already seems to be interested in you and thus you are progressing nicely, just let things play out as they should, maybe by the end of this week you should go ahead and ask her out? That would show her you're interested as well to some degree and give her some incentive to continue hanging around and hopefully something will work out with you two. Good luck and just have fun.
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reader, cuteblonde124 +, writes (4 November 2008):
 okay lol i am 15 so i think i can help you with this. Well first you should make sure she likes you, and that is probably the easiest thing to do. once we girls like someone we def. show it. Something you can do to make sure is to take her on a date, like a movie. i know its old school, but it works everytime. oh and be prepared to pay. its very gentlemany. if she wants to pay, then dont fight with her either. ask her what movie she would like to see, and if she says she doesnt know- take her to a scary movie. that way you can hold her when she is scared. if she acts like she likes you, then ask her to be your girlfriend. its as easy as that. with the relationship thing- just make sure she always feels special. ask her what she is thinking, and bring her suprises. hold her hand when yall are walking together. most importantly-- make sure she is happy.
Good luck
love LDC
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reader, xxhoplesslyhisxx +, writes (4 November 2008):
hihi! i think the best way to get her to like you is to just be yourself. just be calm and take things slow. you dont have to change for her to like you. and if she doesnt like you for exactly who you are you deserve better
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