Is it time to ask him if he likes me or not?
Q. Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connec...
A. 27 October 2011: I agree with all those posters above me. I was in a very similar situation to you actually. A while ago now I finally had the courage to leave an emotionally draining relationship, while I was going through the break-up process I spent a lot of time... (read in full...)
Telling someone you cheated in the 1st 2 weeks after being together for 2 years?
Q. Ok so this is just one about cheating and being unfaithful I would like to ask the females since I'm a guy. If you cheated on someone in the first two weeks of a relationship because it was long distance and you didn't think that person would last ...
A. 28 January 2011: It was two years ago, it only happened once and at the very earliest stage of your relationship...I'd say you'd be best off to let it go.
There's no use hurting her when it occurred so long ago.
You may just have to live with your guilt.... (read in full...)
Why do I want her back more than anything in life?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 4 years, 3 days ago. I thought I was making the logical choice. I am 28, she is 25, and I was her first boyfriend considering she is muslim and was raised to expect an arranged marriage. When we met, I was ...
A. 11 January 2011: Hi there, first of all you cannot blame yourself for this girl's insecurities. If all you have done is try to be a perfect boyfriend, then you have done your job. All we can is try right?
Also, I must add, you're a recovering alcoholic. Please f... (read in full...)
What do I do about my woman hugging, boob poking, chain smoking boyfriend?
Q. ok My bf hugs other girls and pokes there boobs to so I am like wtf I am right here.Also he smokes to and I just found out last night he is not a virgin. He keeps secerts from me and he does not call me at all. I just dont know what to do , I like ...
A. 11 January 2011: Love, did any warning bells ring while you typed out the question?
Seems to me that this boy is just not that into you - otherwise he wouldn't be treating you like that.
I say dump 'em and move on. You're worth so much more than to sit around w... (read in full...)
What kind of guy do girls want?
Q. Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?...
A. 14 November 2010: ^ I agree with the above poster, personality definitely overrules looks. When I look for a guy, I think about his qualities. I need a guy to be creative, funny, intelligent and caring.
In saying that, looks matter to a certain degree..... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so hurtful one minute-yet loves me the next?
Q. What does it mean when your ex you've been with for six months, is constantly bringing you down, critising you, picking on you, mocking you and is still possesive, but then he says he is kidding, and he says im beautiful and perfect and his girl. Y...
A. 14 November 2010: This guy sounds like a douche who has absolutely no self esteem. It's like he feels though he needs to cut you down to get an inkling of self importance. Believe me, you don't need someone like this in your life.
Move on, he's an ex for a reason... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm risking so much by staying this relationship...
Q. hey all, well just about half hour ago, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs told me the same thing. we are both 23 btw. he told me that its like a stressful "need" for him to go with other women. he says this crying as if he's guilty 4 feeling this way, ...
A. 17 October 2010: You have to ask yourself love, do you really want to be in a relationship with a man who has admitted to you that he would rather sleep with other women?
This, for me anyway, would be an absolute deal-breaker. A man that is in love with you will... (read in full...)
I'm debating on dumping her...
Q. I'll try to keep this short for you. I'm debating on whether i should dump my girlfriend or not. We've been dating for five months, We're juniors in highschool. I really like her alot, but our relationship has flaws i just cant ignore anymore. ...
A. 17 October 2010: I think you should confront your girlfriend before you end it with her.
If this is the issue then it can be easily resolved by just telling her that her constant flirting irks you. If she stops then congratulations, she obviously cares about yo... (read in full...)
Why would a guy not want to do it with his girl?
Q. I'm a little confused by the problem because in most cases a girl cuts her boyfriend off of sex, but in my case my boyfriend cuts me off! sometimes its for a few nites but there has been times where I'd only get it maybe once a month if I'm lucky. ...
A. 17 October 2010: What do you mean he 'cuts you off from sex'? is it after you guys have a fight or because he's too tired? or...we may need some more details than this to give you an accurate answer.
If he's just 'cock-blocking' you for the sake of it it may pay ... (read in full...)
I want to know more about my boyfriend's past hook ups!
Q. Hi I have been dating my current bf for a year and 8 months.. He's had more of a past with girls than I have (I was a virgin), he's done it with 6 girls. I ask him questions about his past experiences but he doesn't like to answer them and gets ...
A. 17 October 2010: I agree with the person above me. Don't let the past write your future. I had only been involved sexually with one guy before my boyfriend now (my ex and I were together close to six years) and we were both virgins. I knew that my boyfriend now has ... (read in full...)
Her ex is more fun than I am!
Q. my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates ...
A. 16 October 2010: I agree with Johnnyrockets. The worse thing in the world is to feel like somebody's second choice. You deserve much better than that.
First try talking to her about how you feel, and if all else fails pack yo' bags and get out and find a girl who... (read in full...)
How do I stop being needy and clingy? I constantly need reassurances. Any good tips?
Q. How do I stop being needy and clingy? I am easily hurt and easily disappointed and I constantly need reassurance and unconditional love. I know unconditional love is practically non existent but I need it. If I don't get it I start to feel depressed ...
A. 13 October 2010: This question was posted close to four years ago and it seems that even now in 2010 it is more than relevant.
I, like you, have suddenly realised how clingy I am.
I didn't have parent issues/abandonment issues when it comes to my family life b... (read in full...)
Relationship is becoming more abusive, police no help!
Q. We have been together about 6 years. We have had good and bad times,,, We had a really rough patch where he was physically abusing me,,I never told anyone or called the police,because I love him and I didnt want him in trouble,among other reasons. ...
A. 20 September 2010: No matter how much you think you may love him, deep down I think you know that you need to leave this man.
No woman deserves to be with a man who abuses you physically or emotionally. You are worth so much more than that.
Guys like that are ho... (read in full...)
My BF lacks creativity and originality, but I love him. Getting bored fast....help!!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a little over one year is 20 (Four years younger than me). We met working for a national park last summer and have been traveling around for the last year. Anywho, my problem is that he has no creativity or originality when it comes ...
A. 20 September 2010: The problem with a lot of girls, I find, is that they tend to fall in love with a guy's potential.
You realise that there are guys out there who are not just potentially great, but are already awesome right?
I went out with a guy for five and... (read in full...)
I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?
Q. I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent ...
A. 20 September 2010: I think that you would be wasting your time if you were to answer back to this guy. He seems like a douche in my opinion, and totally not worth the effort.... (read in full...)
What is up with him?
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] My bf always gets jealous, when i write on a guys wall, or when i comment something. So i told him i wouldnt do it anymore. Now, he is doing it, and i dont understand. What is up with him???????????...
A. 20 September 2010: Love, you don't want to be in a relationship like this. There is absolutely no point. Half the world is made up of guys, and if he can't man up and get over that, then he ain't worth it.... (read in full...)
Should I just be content with what the ex and I have?
Q. Well my ex contacted me recently she wanted to be friends we have been talking for almost 2 months now and i still love her and out of the whole year that we havent talked i love her the same i was wondering should i try to get her back..tell her ...
A. 20 September 2010: I think that there was a reason why you both broke up and you've gotta remember why that was.
Remember, it's called a break up because it's broken. If a year has passed and nothing new has come into fruition for you to, it's probably time to ... (read in full...)
I hate my boyfriend, I'm lonely and sad..
Q. I need a lot of help with something. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we have lived together for most of that time. 2 months into the relationship he started calling me curse names and yelling at me constantly. When he ...
A. 25 August 2010: Hun, no matter how much you think you love him. You have to get out of that relationship.
What you're in at the moment is an emotionally abusive relationship.
You deserve to be with someone who doesn't use you like a whore, and actually cares a... (read in full...)
Child pornography on boyfriend's computer
Q. ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. he likes to watch porn hes nearly 25 and a couple of months ago i confronted him on how much porn he was looking at only to find disgusting child pornogrphy on our laptop. he swore it wasnt his and ...
A. 16 August 2010: You are ABSOLUTELY NOT overreacting. Child porn is illegal, anyone who watches it, or is involved in making it is breaking the law. It is also now become your duty to report it to the police.
You absolutely cannot be with someone like this. I ... (read in full...)
Life ruined because of my ex
Q. I am at a total breaking point. I have lost over three years of my life to a man who has NEVER been faithfull, honest, or remorseful. He was only ever sorry he got caught. The begining of our relationship when I was 20 (I am almost 24) I knew he ...
A. 12 August 2010: Okay so I read over your problem several times and I just don't get what you're trying to say. Your 'writing style' is kind of difficult to understand, and it seems that all you wanted to do was get things off your chest.
I think you should g... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my wife has sexual experiences before me?
Q. how cani know that my wife had no any sexual relation in past,that he had not done sex before marriage,from her argument i think that she is telling lie....
A. 12 August 2010: It doesn't matter even if she has. People have multiple sexual partners, it's just reality. As long as she didn't cheat on you, I don't see what the problem is. You can't exactly control her past, so look forward to the future.
Remember it's the... (read in full...)
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