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male
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41-50,
*rem kumar
writes: how cani know that my wife had no any sexual relation in past,that he had not done sex before marriage,from her argument i think that she is telling lie. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Did you ask? Have you ever acted in a way that would have her concerned about being judged for her answer? She can't change the past anyway.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): . . . except when she has an STD, or turns out to have slept with somebody you know, or has hidden emotional hangups about sex and relationships that were caused by that hidden past . . .
Honesty does matter.
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female
reader, Eskim0 +, writes (12 August 2010):
It doesn't matter even if she has. People have multiple sexual partners, it's just reality. As long as she didn't cheat on you, I don't see what the problem is. You can't exactly control her past, so look forward to the future.
Remember it's the LAST person she has sex with that counts.
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female
reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (12 August 2010):
There is no way to tell. if you didn't trust what she was saying then you shouldn't have married her.
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male
reader, Cloverfield +, writes (12 August 2010):
Well..... assuming the two of you have had sex, then you cant. It's all a question of trust.
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