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... Send *ndlesssong a private message | | | *ndlesssong's profile:I'm a 21 year old college student studying to go teach younger grade school children. I'm in what is my longest, first real relationship with a guy who lives about 6 hours away. I love him very much and even though the distance makes things tough, its worth it.
I don't know a lot about relationships from my own experience, but I've learned a lot through friends. In general I enjoy listening to peoples problems and helping them out. |
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How do I get over my ex?
Q. i have a boyfriend but still have lots if feeling for my ex but he's in juvy and will be there for 8 more months so my question is how do i get over my ex?...
A. 20 November 2007: To get over someone, you have to seriously want to and make yourself do it. If you don't, then it will never happen. I have a friend who still can't get over her ex two years after breaking up for the simple reason is that she never realy wanted to ... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to help a girl with a broken heart ?
Q. whats the best way to help a gurl with a broken heart?...
A. 30 March 2007: Tell her the person she broke up with isn't worth her tears and that she's better than that. Give her physical contact if she looks down and hug her if she cries. If she dosn't feel like she's worth anything or feels like she'll never love again, ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend never calls when he says he will, We love each other so why is this ?
Q. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's bad calling habbits anymore! We're in a long distance relationship and a few weeks ago he moved out of his roomates place and back home with his parents. His cell phone has been dead for the past month ...
A. 30 March 2007: Anon #1- Thank you, I don't understand that way of thinking at all! I'll not call him the next few days and see what happens. I'll be somewhere anyways where he's already worrying about me getting hit on a lot by other guys XD
Anon #2- I already ... (read in full...)
Is this too soon to be getting engaged ?
Q. me and my boyfriend were dating for seven months an we split up for two years we are now getting back together and he wants to marry me and i want to marry him but be engaged for about two years is this too soon for our relationship?...
A. 29 March 2007: If you feel like its too soon, then maybe it is. Are you just now getting back together and getting engaged? After two years being apart? If that's the case then maybe you should wait a little, two years is a long time to be away from each other and ... (read in full...)
We have known each other since we were 14, Ive fallen for her, but cant tell her in case she doesnt believe me!!
Q. ok me and this girl have been friends all our life since we were little we are now both 14 and i think im falling in love with her, shes all i can think about, it upsets me to see her down and i want to be with her all the time, i honestly love her ...
A. 29 March 2007: Don't just tell her how you feel, but proove it! Woo her and be completely sincear about it. Your friends with her, so you should know what she likes and how to make her see just how much you like her and that you mean it. There might be a chance ... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell my good friend that I am seeing a guy, she used to sleep with. How can I tell her?
Q. hello everyone this is my dilemma i have been seein (not going out with) a boy on and off for about 6 months. i really like him and the feeling is mutual. However he slept with one of my close friends before i knew him. although she has had many ...
A. 29 March 2007: Tell her there's something you want to talk to her about and just let her know whats going on. Its the only thing you realy can do. If she dosn't want to be friends with you because of it, she dosn't have her priorities straight. She's your friend, ... (read in full...)
I've had a crush on him for 3 years and it just wont go away!!!
Q. Ive posted a few questions on here, but im in need for desperate help, im really really really crushing on this guy at my school and its not a school girl kinda crush that lasts a few months i honestly really really like him. ive liked him for 3 ...
A. 29 March 2007: I'm going to assume your in high school. We all go through this, liking the popular good-looking guy we hardly even know. I know I went through the same thing in junior high and high school. If you want to get closer to this guy, talk to him once ... (read in full...)
How can you stop loving someone!!?
Q. How do you stop liking/loving someone? Thanks to people who reply to this question....
A. 29 March 2007: Falling out of love is hard, I've watched many people go through it and have myself. The best thing to do is tell yourself for whatever reason they arn't worth your love. Don't see them, don't contact them because if you do it won't help you move ... (read in full...)
Why do men tell their gf's-- they are the most beautiful woman and then turn around and gawk at other women?
Q. Why is it no matter how smart and beautiful we may be as a mate, men still gawk at other women? They will tell you how beautiful you are and how much they love you and then in the same breath they will turn around and drool over some other woman? ...
A. 29 March 2007: Reebe's right, you don't look at just him, do you? Not even just to glance at other guys a little?If he's looking at other women yet still telling you how beautiful you are, thats a good thing! It means none of them please him as much as you. If he ... (read in full...)
Meeting him this weekend for the first time. I'm afraid he's going to think I'm really fat and ugly and be disappointed when he meets me. What should I do??
Q. I'm meeting this guy that I met on the internet this weekend. We're having lunch in NYC and he's very excited. I'm excited also. The problem is, he thinks I'm really pretty. From the few (edited) pictures I've sent him, he seems to think that I'm ...
A. 29 March 2007: As long as the images wern't heavily edited, I don't think you have a problem. I'm sure he likes you for more than just the fact that he thinks your pretty too if he wants to meet you! I'm sure it will be fine, and if he does turn out not liking the ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?
Q. guys, would u sleep with a girl who isnt toned and who has some cellulite?...
A. 29 March 2007: Some guys LOVE women with curves! My boyfriend is tall and realy skinny, the kind of guy I never thought would be interested in me because I'm a bit overweight. I think I have a large legs, butt and my stomache isn't as nice as I would like it at ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband that after 3 kids...I am pregnant again?
Q. im 30 odd and ive had 3 kids i decided i was done with mothering but yesterday i was late, so i went to the store and bought a test and it was positive. however i made a big fuss over not getting pregnant again. how do i tell my husband with out ...
A. 29 March 2007: I don't think there's any easy way to do it, just tell him your pregnant. If you did everything to NOT get pregnant, there realy shouldn't be an issue. I think its something thats important that you tell him as soon as possible too, its both of your ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, married 2 years but I'm wondering about life as a single woman but I don't want to make the biggest mistake of my life by leaving! Help!
Q. I'm 21 and have been married for almost 2 years. My problem is that on a daily basis I think about how my life would be if I were single (which I haven't been since I was 15). My husband is the second man I've ever been with and we began dating ...
A. 23 March 2007: If you love your husband and he's good to you, I don't see why you'd want anything else. You said you wonder what "real dating" would be like, yet wonder what its like to be single? Those two are far from the same thing, in my opinion. If you want ... (read in full...)
What attracts you to a man? What do you look for in a man?
Q. Dear Ladys What attracts you to a man? What do you look for in a man? Thanks...
A. 22 March 2007: Not everyone will look for the same thing in a man, so there may be a slight problem in asking such a question. I think the most important thing is someone thats loyal that they can trust and be entirely comfortable with. Someone who is also ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse?
Q. Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse? I haven't had sex with my boyfriend yet but my waist seems a bit thicker than it used to be... But maybe I'm [hopefully] just being paranoid....
A. 21 March 2007: Your likely just gaining a little weight, but if your realy worried try looking up symptoms of the first few months other than just gaining weight on the internet. If your pregnant, you'll likely notice first that you missed a period or have ... (read in full...)
My friendship is damaging my relationship!
Q. Please help! I am in a situation I haven't been in before and I don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a few years and living together. I had some health problems for quite a long time so wasn't working or study...
A. 21 March 2007: Sit him down and explain to him that he's simply just a friend. Tell him you love him, and that you'd be friends with this guy whether or not he was gay or straight. I think everyone is entitled to be friends with who they want. I'm sure he'll see ... (read in full...)
I cant forget her, it hurts too much, How can I get past this ?
Q. i dont know what to do, me and my ex gf we just broke-up for almost two years but why i cannt forget her, please help me what to do...shes still in my mind and all the memorise we had is always fresh... please try to help me what to do...
A. 21 March 2007: Sorry, but I'm confused? Did you just break up? Or has it been a while? If you just broke up, its going to take time to heal. You just have to be strong and remember that it didn't work out for a reason. Remembering is fine, but don't hold onto ... (read in full...)
Someone told me my boyfriend is gay, they have a recording of him admitting to it!
Q. ok, well,this is a long story. i met this boy wen i was about 14. from then i liked him, even tho he was goig out with my best m8s, m8. afta 2 years of being with her they split up becoz there was a rumor he was gay. well i met up with him and he...
A. 20 March 2007: If he's realy gay, why would he be with you? Even if the recording is real, it could be false. Why are you talking to his ex about this anyways? Did she come to you about this not knowing you two were dating? Or did you go to her? Either way, you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, my boyfriend's 20 but I've told him I'm 16.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and i really like him. hes 20 and im 15!! the problem is that he thinks im 16 and i really want to tell him my age but im afraid he will finish me. What do you think i should do?? please help x...
A. 20 March 2007: Tell him your real age. If he realy cares about you, it won't matter. While it matters if you've had sex, it won't in any other way. A good guy who cares about you will be willing to be with you without the sex and not pressure you and wait till you ... (read in full...)
We've been together for a year and a half but I've gone back to college and we hardly see one another. Would it be better to let this relationship go?
Q. I don't know what I should do and I can't make a decision to save myself. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and he is the only person that I have met that is very much like me. I rarely ever meet anyone else that is ...
A. 16 March 2007: I say if you realy care for him that much, keep at the long distance. Long distance is hard, anyone who's been in a long distance relationship will tell you that. But it can be worth it too, just to talk to him daily and know that after you've done ... (read in full...)
I miss her so much, she occupies my every waking thought!!
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for about a year. I've been to see her 3 times for 2 weeks at a time and she came to see me once for a month. Then recently I got back from staying with her for 3 months so despite our long distance ...
A. 5 March 2007: While I don't think my situation is quite like yours, as a person who's also in a long distance relationship, I can understand what your going through. Its perfectly normal to miss your girlfriend as much as you do, as it is to worry that she'll ... (read in full...)
How can I show my friend I havent changed??
Q. My male friend, who hates change, doesn't like my boyfriend. He has been always like this not liking if someone walks with my friend, him and I. It was always the three of us for about a year and then suddenly my boyfriend came and he hates it. ca...
A. 5 March 2007: It sounds more like change isn't so much of an issue as he's afraid to loose you as a friend. I've had friends that are somewhat like this and think that just because I have a boyfriend now they are no longer going to be as important to me. Explain ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clearer to him that I want him to kiss me!?
Q. hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :) all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and ...
A. 4 March 2007: Just go for it and be the one to kiss him. I can understand where you want him to kiss you, but he want the same thing and is afraid. That and sometimes a guy likes it when a girl takes charge :3 (I was the one to make the first move on my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour for a girl??
Q. So i've been dating this girl for four months. Everything is great and i think i'm falling in love with her. It's very complicated because she was dating my friend before we ended up getting together, and we also work together. So i kinda jumped ...
A. 4 March 2007: Are you sure she's even aware that she's acting in such a way? Point it out to her if she dosn't! Otherwise she could naturaly accidently flirt. I'm very friendly with my guy friends and I'm always giving them hugs and stuff to. But in now way is ... (read in full...)
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