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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and i really like him. hes 20 and im 15!! the problem is that he thinks im 16 and i really want to tell him my age but im afraid he will finish me. What do you think i should do?? please help x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): I kinda of understand your situation here. I'm also only 15, and my boyfried is 20. I think that you shoul really tell him. You said that you are really interested in him, and if he's truly as interested in you as you are into him, he'll totaly understand. Just, if you haven't had sex with him yet, and you're not sure if you're ready, I would definately wait. You really don't want to make the same decision I made, and now Im 15 (like you) and in about 6 months I'll be having my baby, and my boyfriend (who is a year younger than yours) could be goign to jail. Be honest with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): Just get it over and done with and tell him your real age. It is so new into the relationship. If he goes off because of that then he is not for you anyway. I wish i was 15 i would be telling the world. A lesson for the future - BE HONEST!
TAKE CARE
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reader, ADELE14 +, writes (20 March 2007):
IF HE THINKS YOUR 16 HE MIGHT BE THINKING ABOUT HAVING SEX SOME TIME SOON BUT IF U HAV SEX N HE TIHNKS YOUR 16 AND SOME ONE FIND OUT AND KNOWS IT ILEGAL TO HAV SEX WITH SOME ONE UNDER THE GAE OF 16 HE COULD GO TO PRIOSN YOU NEED TO TELL HIM BEFOR HE TRYS N MAKES A MOVE
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): Hi anonymous,
You only have one option here really, tell him. I can't see why it would be a huge problem, I'm sure he will understand, however if he does not, see this as a life lesson in that it rarely helps if you lie to someone you are seeing. A good strong mature relationship is based on truth and honesty. So be strong and tell him so that you can put this behind you. All the best.
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 hey, you really need to tell him your real age, someone finds out that you two are together hes going to jail 16 or not! anyone over the age of 18 needs to date 18 or over you can get him locked up and seeing its only 3 months i would recommend you to do it asap cause if you truly love this guy you would do whats best for him, befor its to late...and if you do decide to date him you better keep it on the low and tell him your real age my friend just got out of jail he was 21 and dating a 15yr old who said she was 17 he did three years in the pen. do you want that for that guy? well i hope i helped
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reader, endlesssong +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Tell him your real age. If he realy cares about you, it won't matter. While it matters if you've had sex, it won't in any other way. A good guy who cares about you will be willing to be with you without the sex and not pressure you and wait till you are legally old enough to be with him.
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reader, lamo +, writes (20 March 2007):
 the first thing have you had sex with him coz someone your age he can get in alot of trouble about it. i think you shud tell him the sooner the better. you cant keep this up when you are only 15 he needs to know. and if you already have not had sex wait till you are ready please and always always use something you dont want to get your self in a mess e.g S.T.I or having a baby. some of my younger friends told me that they have not had sex and i was so happy that they aint. so please tell him that you are 15 and if you have not had sex please please wait till you are ready always put a jacket on when it raining if you get waht i mean.x
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