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writes:hello everyone this is my dilemma i have been seein (not going out with) a boy on and off for about 6 months. i really like him and the feeling is mutual. However he slept with one of my close friends before i knew him. although she has had many boyfriends since and is currently in love with someone else im afraid to tell her about me and him because it might affect our relationship i dont want 2 lose her as a friend. also he does not want 2 come between us either. i know i need 2 tell her because him and i would like 2 became more serious but im scared of her reaction and i dont know how she would feel. i dont know how 2 tell her!any help and advice would really be appreciated thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, endlesssong  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Tell her there's something you want to talk to her about and just let her know whats going on. Its the only thing you realy can do. If she dosn't want to be friends with you because of it, she dosn't have her priorities straight. She's your friend, its likely she'll understand, especially since she has someone else she loves now. If for whatever reason she sincearly understands yet still dosn't agree with you seeing this guy, listen to her! She might know something about him that you don't that you need to know.
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