I didn't sign on to this marriage for me to be this unhappy and alone!
Q. My husband and I have been together for 26 years, married for 18 years. We did things kinda backwards, had kids, bought a house and then got married. The baby is getting ready to go to college this fall and I have been struggling with what to do ...
A. 30 July 2012: hello, I think there might be some solutions to your problem. As far as doing something together, I think you really need to work on some sort of a compromise were you share his interests & he shares some of yours. Do you work? Maybe if nothing ... (read in full...)
I feel like it's a bad idea but ......
Q. ok I have a situation... I'm just not sure about. I recently started talking to my ex bf again.. he was flirting with me and kinda asked me out again (second time since i broke up with him nearly 4 years ago. lst time i said no after asking friends ...
A. 27 June 2012: I think you should go with your "gut" instincts here girl! If you;re having any doubts about not dating him anymore, I would certainly go for that. I think you might be a bit confused here on what you really want. Thinking maybe you're having ... (read in full...)
I want to fit in but I don't!
Q. For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I ...
A. 26 June 2012: I agree for the most part of what you've already been told here by "Chigirl" AND Bo-B0! But from a guys side of the story, yes, being a virgin can play a role in having depression! Believe me I know!!... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my small breasts
Q. Am 22.married last month.ive got small breasts. And my husband is'nt happy with. Which makes me sad and our sex incomplete. I really need make them little bigger to impress my husband.i need advice and solutions....
A. 18 June 2012: this is kind of unforunate for you. He knew this when he married you...that's only a part of you! He could be complaining about a whole lot more in his marriage than that. What i mean is, that if this is the only issue, he should feel very fortunate ... (read in full...)
Our marriage has hit a rough patch and his way of dealing with it is masturbating to pictures of naked girls. My feelings don't matter. Help?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years and for the second time we have hit a rough patch. When this happens he becomes glued to naked pictures of girls online. He even goes so far as to masterbate to them. We have recently talked and are ...
A. 15 June 2012: hi, to give you some type of answer here from a man's perspective.. I understand your feelings here & maybe things will get better for you. But I think you seriously need to look at this from your husbands point of view too. I'm married & have done ... (read in full...)
What did my boss at the restaurant mean when he said "Clean the shaft too"? Was he hitting on me?
Q. Maybe it's just wishful thinking but I think my boss was coming on to me a couple of days ago. I work at a restaurant. I'm still kind of new to the place, only a few months in. I was cleaning near the latte machine and one of the spoons was dirty...
A. 5 June 2012: I'm sure he was talking about the shaft of the machine, not his shaft.... (read in full...)
Twenty years old and never had a boyfriend! What am I doing wrong?
Q. HELP!!!!! I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend. Long story short I have been asked out once before but I turned him down. Now a year and half later I feel regretful. I try to act like being single and for this long doesn't bother me but it does. I feel ...
A. 4 June 2012: hi, I might add one thing here that I read about several years ago.When you think about this it does make a lot of sense. You would normally think(atleast from a guys perspective) that a lot of the good looking girls would normally be asked out a ... (read in full...)
I'm over eating and trying my parents alcohol as a solution. Could it be depression doing this to me?.
Q. Hiya everyone, I'm feeling a little bit worried about myself recently as I've been feeling really down and miserable for no reason. I'm 16 and thought it was just my hormones but since I was 14 going on 15 I have always felt a little bit down and...
A. 3 June 2012: I'll have to pretty much argue with the people here(3) of them that gave you their advice. Ya, sounds like depression to me. I was depressed early on in my childhood all the way past high school , so I defintely know what it is. One thing to keep in ... (read in full...)
I've liked him for almost 7 years and I really don't know how he feels about me even now
Q. I've liked this guy for so long! I cannot stress how long I've liked him for, it's been roughly about 7 years. We started out as frenemies and since last year we've became really close friends. My friend decided enough was enough and she told him I ...
A. 3 June 2012: normally I give my own opinions & advice here...but you might want to try to google(www.google.com). There you can ask a question such as, "How can i tell if my boyfriend likes me or not?" It will take you to the appropriate video. Good luck... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he won't cheat but is bored in the bedroom
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 1/2 years and we have a one year old little girl. he has no interest in me sexually anymore though, he says hes just bored, says he wont cheat but is bored so nothing ever happens in the bedroom. how ...
A. 3 June 2012: I;ll have to agree with "the old bag" & "honeybun" here. Also you might want to play some sexual board games or something along those lines. Or possibly try acting out different types of people.. like for example he can be the cowboy one time while ... (read in full...)
How did our relationship change so drastically in just a day?
Q. I don't understand what happened. We had got to know each other briefly a few month ago but I was with someone at the time, that relationship recently went down hill and he came back along. I was reluctant to get involved at first because as...
A. 3 June 2012: hi, believe it or not a problem like yours is fairly normal. Normal for both guys & gals. Sounds to me like he was just making trouble for you so that you would leave him. I hate to say it, but I would say he's probably got another girl on his ... (read in full...)
I wanna break up with him, am I gonna regret it?
Q. Hiya aunts, I need your help! Long Story cut short.. I've been seein this guy for 2 years now but he has a girlfriend who he lives with! I used to work with him and see him everyday but now we don't work together I never see him or even speak to hi...
A. 3 June 2012: hi, you don't say how long this other girl has been living with him. Which I guess still wouldn't change anything in my mind what I would tell you here. It just would be nice to now how long he's been living with her. Hopefully he hasn't been living ... (read in full...)
Want to introduce my boyfriend to my bandmates who are in love with me?
Q. Well, I play in a band and 2 out of the 3 guys are in love with me. I can't help that, they are my best friends and I love them ( yes, they're kinda friendzoned), but they don't know I have a boyfriend yet. But here's the problem... We ha...
A. 3 June 2012: hi, ya they might be upset about it, but listen, they';ll just have to live with the fact that you already have a b/f. Or are you worried about it, maybe because you;re not too sure which guy you really want?... (read in full...)
Tips for changing the timing of my period?
Q. Right... So basically, im going on holiday on the 1st of August, but im due to be on my period then. I dont want this to ruin my holiday, so i want to dely my period? Im not ready to use a tampon and i dont want to go on birth control.. Does a...
A. 3 June 2012: Not sure what you might do to change the date of your period. Why don;'t you just change your plans of being away for a few days that won't interfere with your period?... (read in full...)
Is he checking me out?
Q. Hey there! So I have this really burning problem. I think some guy is checking me out. I have found him on many occasions staring at me. We normally meet at the cafeteria only as we come from different departments in the same institution. I ...
A. 2 June 2012: Look you're 30 yrs. old & wondering if you likes you! Why don't you just go up to him sometime & start up a conversion with him? I'm sure you;ll know in a min.or two if he likes you or not! If he doesn't like you for some reason, I;m sure he'll let ... (read in full...)
I don't think I understand "flirting"
Q. Keep in mind, I never dated, or actively try to "flirt" with girls, but I do observe a lot, and I gotta say, I don't really understand it. For instance, one of the bigger things I've noticed is guys commenting on girls' physical features (and I mean ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi, flirting is something that it can take a little bit of time to discover on your own. It's pretty normal thing for guys to do. Certain girls react differently to different types of guys.For instance, one girl might be upset being told she has ... (read in full...)
Does this constitute sexual trauma or am I overreacting?
Q. For two years - from the time I was 17 to 19 - I was involved with a man 20 years older than me. It was strictly an online relationship and I never saw him in person. Six months ago I finally saw him for what he was and dumped him, and haven't ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi, I'm sorry to hear that you had to go thru all of this! But I think you should go get some counseling for yourself, rather than waiting around to see if things should get better for you. And yes I would call it sexual trauma. If you cannot afford ... (read in full...)
He confessed to like me. I don't like him. Should I not be around this group of friends now?
Q. A guy in a group of friends confessed to me and I rejected him. And because i really have no interest in me,i am feeling very disgusted with him and wish to avoid him. But recently he kept organising group outings,i really do not wish to attend as i ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi, I'll try to respond here although I'm not quite sure what you're asking here! Need more information, please. A group of friends confessed to you about what?And not sure here, but you mentioned that You have no interest in YOU? If that is ... (read in full...)
I wish I hadn't asked my b/f if he would be interested in dating his friend if we broke up
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months and I enjoy discussing everything and posed the hypothetical question of "if we were to break up, would you be interested in pursuing any of your friends". Fyi, he has casual female friends whom he has dated briefly in the ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi, let me comment here just a little bit. First of all in reading about your problem,I think its great that you can discuss everything together. Communication with your mate is very important! I see nothing wrong with either one of you dating ... (read in full...)
Thoughts of being sexual with someone scares me.
Q. From what I can tell, my problem is me. I'm a twenty-one year old virgin, who is terrified of not only relationships, but sex in general. If I ever think about sex, I get uncomfortable thoughts and feel odd. As if the thought of being intimate with ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi,just to let you know your feelings are pretty normal.I went thru the same thing,so know what you;re going thru. Not sure here if you;re shy or not, but if you can find a way of getting over your shyness will certainly be of help. I got over mine ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend would rather look at porn pictures than pictures of me
Q. Would this bother anyone else? It feels like my boyfriend didn't want pictures of me to use when i wasn't there because he prefers the porn models. I know he wouldn't ask me for pictures because he's too nice, but i'm concerned why he wouldn't ask ...
A. 2 June 2012: hi, sorry to say,but I think your b/f is putting you on just a bit! Sometimes guys will defintely look at pics from porn magazines such as Hustler, Playboy,etc. I do agree though, ya it would bother any female to have her b/f prefer the porn models ... (read in full...)
Does alcohol really make men lose their erection?
Q. Ok, does alcohol have that much affect on guys performance? Never had a bloke keep going soft on me before, ever. He said he has some viagra that he sometimes uses for when he's been drinking, but we didn't use it this time. I have had guys take ...
A. 2 June 2012: I'll have to defintely agree with what C.Grant wrote to you! It's probably him (your b/f) that the problem. But ya, he should be aware not to mix alchol with the viagra or anything else for that matter. I've only tried Viargara or one of those ... (read in full...)
Guys: Is a bossy girl a massive turn off?
Q. Hey, i was talking to my friends the other day about guys we've hooked up with and now im a bit worried. When im with a guy i tend to sort of tell them what I want them to do...like if they're not turning me on, i'll say 'do this is me...'. But my ...
A. 1 June 2012: hi, I have to agree here with what "aunt honesty' has told you.(see what she has written here, also on this same date of June lst. 2012.But if I may, I would have to add just a little something to what she has told you. I being a male, would just ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have pains every time you have sex?
Q. i just want to know is it normal to have pains everytime you have sex and you dont enjoy it at all,i am 22 and never ejoyed sex, im very worried as i always end up crying during sex....and one more thing me and my boyfriend had sex about a month ...
A. 1 June 2012: hi,I used to do a lot of counseling here online for marriage & family counseling & also sex therapy, although I'm not a licensed counselor i have been told I may have missed my calling! I;ve been told by several people that the information was well ... (read in full...)
30 year age difference. How do I tell my parents?
Q. Am a 20 years young woman who is in love with a 50 years old man he wants us to get married as soon as possible,i don't no how to brake the news to my parents ....
A. 1 June 2012: hi, I have to agree with everyone else here that have given you answers,etc.But one thing comes to mind here....is this guy working or not?? If not,he's probably looking for someone to take care of him financially. In other words, he might have ... (read in full...)
B/f broke up with me, he's moving on but I can't!
Q. Hi, about 4 months ago, my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me, apparantly because I was leaving home to go to Uni, and he didnt want to stop me from living the uni life and having a good time. I was heartbroken and it doesnt seem to be ...
A. 1 June 2012: hi, first of all let me tell you this is a common problem with people in your own age group.Just to let you know it's something "normal" to feel. I'm not too sure of his actions while being drunk,etc.. in kissing another female & whatnot. Maybe it's ... (read in full...)
I don't want to know about a girl's sexual past. Why do women find that shallow?
Q. Why do women find my rule shallow? I have this rule when dating that I absolutely DO NOT want to know anything about a girls past sexually. I have this rule because I'm a virgin and I already know that everyone else has a past and to refrain from ...
A. 1 June 2012: hi, I know where you're coming from in asking about a girls sexual past.Being your a virgin yet I can understand that. You certainly don't want to hear about some girl having more sexual experiences that you. Here's my recommendations to you ... (read in full...)
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