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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hey there! So I have this really burning problem. I think some guy is checking me out. I have found him on many occasions staring at me. We normally meet at the cafeteria only as we come from different departments in the same institution. I normally hang out with some very handsome guy -friend and his colleagues at lunch and we normally chat about many stuff including relationships. My handsome friend is particularly very confident and loud..no one can fail to notice him. Once I was alone at a table for breakfast and this guy passes his hand over my tea to pick a straw. I lightly told him..he had put infections in my tea nad the conversation kicked off. He then sat at my table and we had breakfast.Everytime he walks into the cafeteria I have noticed, he normally checks to see who is seated at my table. If there is someone, he will sit at an angle where when I turn he is always looking directly at me. I was even thinking of changing my sitting corner just to prove my hypthesis): About two days ago I had a nice hairdo and I decided to pass by the cafeteria to see his reaction. OMG! His eyes were smiling,,I think his eyes went wide open. I noticed that he picked a soda and sat at my favourite table where there was no one else on the opposite side. But I had a skype call to make so I left the cafeteria with my soda.Now, I could be fitting all these to my imaginations but my gut feeling says he's checking me out. I also think my lunch meetings with my loud friends probably enhanced his noticing me. He seems pretty humble and shy and one of his friends(I asked) told me he is very humble. He even assured me that he is single): I think I would like him too(I mean I am single and wanting a nice guy for a realtionship). I am 30 yo female and he is probably same age.What can I do to find out if he likes me and relieve myself of this anxiety? Thanks a lot.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (3 June 2012):
Ask him to meet for coffee after work. Coffee is about as innocent and innocuous as it gets, and it'll give you a chance to gauge his reaction. If he goes for it, then coffee will give you a chance to get to know one another in a very comfortable 'emotionally safe' atmosphere. If you meet for coffee rather than ride together, then there's no awkward end of the "date" thing in front of one or the other's place.
It's 2012 for crying out loud - go ask him yourself, don't wait on him!
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reader, downonmyluck +, writes (2 June 2012):
Look you're 30 yrs. old & wondering if you likes you! Why don't you just go up to him sometime & start up a conversion with him? I'm sure you;ll know in a min.or two if he likes you or not! If he doesn't like you for some reason, I;m sure he'll let you know.I mean, he may not come right out & tell you why he doesn't like you, but I'd bet that he'd say that he doesn't like you, if that's the case. Why not give it a try? You have nothing to lose if he doesn't like you. Better to find out now then worrying about it for who knows how long! Good luck to ya!
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