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writes:I don't understand what happened.We had got to know each other briefly a few month ago but I was with someone at the time, that relationship recently went down hill and he came back along.I was reluctant to get involved at first because as I told him I've recently just broken up with someone, he said that's okay we will take it slow and be friends first. So we did that for the last month and it was pretty awesome, I've never had anyone want me the way I felt he wanted me, one time I had gotten upset over a minor fight I had with someone so I was going off home, I looked behind and seen him jumping the fence and chasing after me, he walked me home and we spent the rest of the night watching a few movies. He even cooked for me at one point, bought dinner for us, spent countless hours cuddled up watching movies or just playing board games, he was always texting and calling telling people he wants to be with me, so he asked me out and we were together as bf/gf for about a week until this.For the past two days I noticed he started cooling down on me, but even then the night before we spent the whole day laying in bed together cuddling and kissing. I had gotten a little grumpy which comes with been a woman and having hormones.I seen him yesterday, I was in the most horrendous of moods, I sat there not saying much all day which I shouldn't have done but talking wasn't going to help me, so i stayed quiet as to not be an ass. He kissed me once before he ran off to do an errand which took him 2 hours. Then when he came back he didn't bother me anymore, spent the next few hours in uncomfortable silence till I went home, he didn't walk me to the car which he always does, he left me to go alone. I can admit I didn't help the situation with the mood I was in and then blowing up when I went home telling him he's a prick, what else is a girl supposed to think when the guy ignores her?I texted and asked what's your problem? He said he's shy, I laughed at that reply, he hasn't been shy all this time but he's shy now? An that was the only reply I got from him, he hasn't contacted me since, I've sent him a text and a message on Facebook, so he can't say he never got my message.I noticed that he was texting someone yesterday and he wouldn't let anyone touch his phone, which adds to suspicion if there was any. I mean we were happy, I thought things were moving along great so I don't get what changed and now he's no longer talking to me, I even asked his brother who's my sisters boyfriend to see what's up and he won't talk to him, he still has his computer console up at my sisters that he will need to pick up.I don't understand how a man goes from making you feel like the only woman in the world to dropping you off the face of the earth. I'm so confused as to what even happened. Any insight into what happened to everything?It's only been a month I don't have those feelings of love as its too early on but I really liked him a lot and thought we were going places. I thought he liked me too, you tell by a mans actions and he did everything right, he was always trying and we were always laughing together, how did that change in a day?There again its only been a month so do I have any right to be upset? I guess I just ended up really liking him and missed my usual good morning text.
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reader, downonmyluck  +, writes (3 June 2012):
hi, believe it or not a problem like yours is fairly normal. Normal for both guys & gals. Sounds to me like he was just making trouble for you so that you would leave him. I hate to say it, but I would say he's probably got another girl on his "string". Some guys are just like that... they move from one girl to another to another just to have sex with & don't care who they hurt along the way. And to answer your Question, yes, you've got every right in the world to be upset! The sad thing(for the guy) is that after awhile word gets around town about how he's treating you girls, then he doesn't understand why girls don't want to go out with him, which by that time can end up being way too late for him. In other words, he could actually wind up being alone in this world for all the ways in which he's taking advantage of any girl he meets. Any girl with half a brain won't put up with something like him. I would move on to another guy... I know it won't be easy, but I think it's in your best interest to do so. Good luck!
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