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*ristina kumar
writes:Hiya aunts, I need your help! LongStory cut short.. I've been seein this guy for2 years now but he has a girlfriend who he lives with! I used to work with him and see him everyday but now we don't work together I never see him or even speak to him! I don't feel like the loves there anymore! Ive told him how I feel and that I'veBeen thinking about ending the nonsense but he said"if u let me go whor u gonna have to talk to when u need someone? I might not be there always but im here" why did he say that? Is he scared of loosing me? He says I'm the best he's ever had and that he loves me but I can't carry on this way its like I'm having a relationship with myself because we never speak or see eachother!!! I love him so much but if I let him go am I going to regret it?
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reader, kristina kumar +, writes (3 June 2012):
kristina kumar is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's lived with her the whole 2 years.. He's been with her for 8
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reader, downonmyluck  +, writes (3 June 2012):
hi, you don't say how long this other girl has been living with him. Which I guess still wouldn't change anything in my mind what I would tell you here. It just would be nice to now how long he's been living with her. Hopefully he hasn't been living with her all this time for the same 2 yrs. that you've been seeing him. My answer to you, is to move on with your life. I know you may love him somewhat but think about what this guy is doing to you & how he's treating you.I don;t know if he's actually worried to much about losing you, maybe he is.Sounds to me like you're just another girl to hang out with, when the other girl he lives with isn't around or something. Sounds like he's calling you a whore here so I can't believe you need to put up with someone like that. When he's telling you that you're the best he's ever had, I don't think he's telling you that you're the best friend he's had...think about it??? I think he's telling you that you're the best girl in bed that he's had.I don't think he loves you as much as you think he does. You go on to mention that you hardly ever speak to each other or see one another. So why on earth would you want to keep in a relationship with this guy? Hope this helps.. good luck to ya!
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reader, Thelaird1  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 You would regret it if his girlfriend found out. You need to leave this guy straight away. If the feeling was mutual, he would have left her long ago.This guy is playing with your emotion and craves the hold he has on you.Walk away with your head high while you still can
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