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Met her online and seen her 4 times, last time we had sex, now she's emailed me to say there's no spark!
Q. Ive met a 35yr old women on a dating site on the internet. i have seen her 4 times and on the 3rd date we were kissing and holding hands the next day we had sex. i thought everything was great between us until she emailed me 3 days later saying she ...
A. 16 March 2007: maybe she just got cold feet.age makes a difference to some people.if there is an age difference.sex isn't the same for everyone.some just do it with no feelings involved.that's why there are rape victims.they have
no feelings or care about what... (read in full...)
I am the first girl he has ever cared and loved and i know he is learning but he is a bit of a phycho! I just need to sort his dark side.
Q. I have been with my bf for 7 months now we have a very secure relationship. I see him every weekend as we live so far away i am very surprised that it has worked so well really but we make time for each other and chat, text and im all the time. I ...
A. 16 March 2007: it sounds like he can be harsh and nasty to others but he
can't take the same from others.love doesn't mean being hurtful to each other.sounds like you don't have very much love.you need to find someone to love you for who you are.
if it bothers ... (read in full...)
What is going on here and what am I going to do?
Q. Hi there. Me and my girlfriend up until recently, about a month or so, were madly in love. Then she decided she was holding be back and that by being with her I wasn't achieving my life's potential or my dreams and wasn't truly happy with my life ...
A. 16 March 2007: Sounds like she either has something to hide or she just doesn't love you anymore. maybe she never really did. you sound as if she has turned cold. love doesn't just turn into friendship not real love anyway. i think you should just pull yourself ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I slept with anyone but I think I might be pregnant. Help!
Q. i've dug myself a hole too deep... this year i started dating a hockey player, he's a really sweet and caring guy and i loved him to death. About a week ago him and a few of his buddies were threw a party and naturally he invited me. We cranked ...
A. 26 January 2007: first find out for sure if you are pregnant.get tested
for STD's.then go from there.if anything did happen
your bf is also at fault.these are his friends and he
took you there.if his friends would take advantage of
their friends girlfrie... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't have a phone. Not even a home phone! Am I right to be suspicous?
Q. I met this guy about a month ago, We've already had sex probably two weeks after meeting eachother. I've been on a few dates with him, he usually calls me everyday to say hello and see what I'm up to. Well, I like him alot but the only thing that is ...
A. 26 January 2007: some people don't like phones they can get bothersome
at times.buying him a cell phone for his birthday
sounds like a good idea.if he is planning to get a
phone anyway he won't mind.just make sure the bill
is in his name or it's a pay as you go.... (read in full...)
He won't finish it up with his gf for me..he says it's too complicated! What do you think?
Q. Right, a week ago i met up with a boy that has a girlfriend. (I've known him around 5 months). We shared a kiss and I've felt bad about it ever since but i love him and i would do anything to be with him and he says he loves me and wants to be with ...
A. 26 January 2007: well there is something really wrong
with this picture. stupidity would
have been you staying with him.if he
loves you you would be his gf.there
wouldn't be a problem.the two of you
could go on your own vacation. and if
mummy wanted to take ... (read in full...)
He scolds me, he short tempered and the sex is horrible! Should I just go?
Q. Ive had a 20+ relationship with someone and he just left his wife. At first we were suppose to get a place together and things quite did not fall into place. Now a month after his move, he's been acting different towards me. He has been very ...
A. 26 January 2007: well to start with he had wife when
he was with you.it took him 20 +yrs.
to leave her.he's with you now and he
is treating you like he probably did
her.are you going to wait another 20
years for him to leave you like he did
her for someone... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to reconcile so how do I get him back?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke a month ago and we both made mistakes , and i want him back and i dont know how because he doesnt want to get back now , only when he forgets everything and when he is ready to start again the whole relationship. how do i ...
A. 26 January 2007: well it's been a month and you say you both made mistakes.
he hasn't forgot your mistakes.but you have at least forgiven him if you want him back.were your mistakes worse
than his?it sounds like he thinks so.if you wait for him
you might be wai... (read in full...)
She said she'd call back in 10 minutes...3 days larter, I'm still waiting! What's up with this girl?
Q. ok well me and my girl have been having problems recently. she has become very hard to get a hold of. she would dissapear all day long to a friends house, i would talk to her in the morning and not hear from her again until the next morning. i ...
A. 25 January 2007: no i don't think you are being paranoid.i think she just
doesn't have the guts to tell you her friend has taken
your place.or maybe if she doesn't tell you and things
don't work out there she can come back to you.i don't
think you should call ... (read in full...)
I find myself being very nervous about driving. Any tips to dealing with this?
Q. I get nervous abour driving on the highway I do it right and need it for working and find many lorries and special vehicles on the way ,I even have nightmares about driving from an different place and see the car from outside, any tips to get more ...
A. 19 January 2007: well i have been driving for quite sometime and i still
get nervous sometimes.there is a lot of cars on the road
these days.but listening to the radio will help.i make it
a point to always watch the other cars.because you never know what crazy m... (read in full...)
My brother's wife is quite rude to our Mother! What can I do?
Q. My brother's wife gave birth for the 1st time 2 weeks ago, she had lots of help from my mummy and I like doing the shopping or tidy her house b4 she came back from hospital, my parents are wealthy and try to help them anytime, my mom invites them ...
A. 19 January 2007: well it sounds like your brothers wife is very selfish.
it sounds like she missed out on something growing up
MONEY.she seems to think now she is suppose to act like
she is better than others.maybe that's how she was treated.
maybe she is ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm only second best in my man's life. I feel he'll never see things for what they could be. What should I do?
Q. i have been seeing a guy on and off for about 10 years.he says he loves me and i care a lot about him.but he thinks i should be happy with things the way they are.he lives with a woman they share nothing together but the home they made many years ...
A. 12 January 2007: thanks for all your advice.i know now what i have to do.
i will miss him. but i should have told him to hit the hihgway a long time ago.thanks again i know i will be
better off.... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of my bf b/c he's a bit overweight and not incredibly attractive. But he's a lovely guy!
Q. i have just started dating a guy who i really like.my friends make fun of him though because he is a little overweight and not the most attractive guy.these comments that my friends are saying really hurt me because he is such a lovely guy and they ...
A. 12 January 2007: maybe you need some new friends.out in the real world looks can be decieving.buttholes come in all shapes and sizes.but if you find a guy you care about and he cares
about you that's really what matters.you can loose weight
and even change your loo... (read in full...)
He stopped having sex with me and I found out why..he started an affair! Any advice?
Q. This is so typical that it almost hurts to write it, but pain propels my fingers. He starts an affair behind my back, but then believing he should only have sex with one person at a time, still hangs out with me, but stops the sex (with me), b...
A. 8 January 2007: tell him to get lost.stop wasting your time.if he has a girl #2 mosy likely he has a few more on a string.he has
no interest in marriage he is just playing all he can for fools.... (read in full...)
She dumped me and I'm a living wreck. Please help!
Q. My girl friend broke up with me about the begining of november and i am a living wreck. i feel empty in side i just need her back and i dont know how to let her see that what really matters to her is right in front of her. We was once together for ...
A. 8 January 2007: it sounds like you were more into her than she was into you.she may regret her choice someday but you can't wait for that to happen.get on with your life find someone who deserves you. ... (read in full...)
My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?
Q. I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We ...
A. 6 January 2007: get out i found myself in that same kind of mess.we were
only married for 1yr and i got out.we had no kids together thank god.but i am happy and doing great.you can do it too.you and your kids will be much better off.it's better
to have one lovi... (read in full...)
Got pregnant. Going to terminate. Should I tell him I had an abortion while he's on holiday... or wait until he returns?
Q. I have just find out I am pregnant. My boyfriend is away on holiday on the other side of the world for another month and I am going to terminate the pregnancy, which I am happy to do. I was wondering whether I should tell him while he is on holiday, ...
A. 6 January 2007: abortion isn't the only way.if a doctor said it would kill you to carry this child i would understand.but there are thousands out there who want to have childern and can't.
this child could be put up for adoption.maybe by the time it was born you ... (read in full...)
All my trust in her was shattered when I found out she's still in touch with the guy she cheated with!
Q. A year ago I found out my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me 2 years ago. It took time and I was heartbroken but I got over this and forgave her. Then I found out that she was still speaking to this guy - she had told me previously that she wasn't ...
A. 6 January 2007: well i believe evryone deserves a second chance.but once
bitten twice shy.if she really loved you she'd never have cheated to begin with.if she is talking to him behind your back something else is probably going on too.trust is very important once... (read in full...)
We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?
Q. Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and ...
A. 6 January 2007: it's only been a couple of dates.don't do anything too hasty.if he didn't like what he saw there wouldn't have been a first date.be careful hair will grow back but if
he's a control freak.honey you might want to stand back
and take a good look at ... (read in full...)
I cant see him leaving his wife so do I stay with him? or do I end it now? i
Q. i have been having an affair with a married man for 5yrs, we were friends well before we were lovers,i knew he didnt love hes wife, and was and still is unhappy at home,he tells me he hasnt had sex with her for yrs?i dont believe that for a ...
A. 6 January 2007: god you sound like me.i have been seeing a guy for 10 years.he has been with a woman he knocked up [as he
puts it]for about 30 years.the child has long since
grown up.his excuse is everything he has built he would loose.they were never married ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm only second best in my man's life. I feel he'll never see things for what they could be. What should I do?
Q. i have been seeing a guy on and off for about 10 years.he says he loves me and i care a lot about him.but he thinks i should be happy with things the way they are.he lives with a woman they share nothing together but the home they made many years ...
A. 5 January 2007: i know the advice is what i should take but i am afraid of being alone.i know i can't find mr right with mr wrong in my life.but i am not sure there is a mr right for me.i have trouble meeting people.crazy but i don't really know how to ... (read in full...)
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