I fancy this boy near where I work but he refused a date
Q. hi i am 17 and work parttime on a Saturday. I am bi also. A boy who works outside the place where i work, on a market stall, he is very nice looking and i am attracted to him a great deal. he is not what most gay teens would go for i dont think ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hello, well if you think there may be hope then continue talking to him, no matter how demanding a job is, people still need relationships. However there is always a chance that he may not be gay or interested.
Not what you want to here I k... (read in full...)
Dating a friend just doesn't feel right!
Q. The guy I am with right now used to be one of my closest guy friends and then I decided to give a relationship a try. But now I am having second thoughts. He's always around me and hanging on me all the time. Also, when he holds on to me I get the ...
A. 10 September 2005: I think you should be completely honest because in the long run, it will hurt him less. It's hard to say what you should do exactly, but you obviously want different things to come from your relationship and you are clearly not comfortable and ... (read in full...)
It feels like the love is gone... Is it something I'm doing?
Q. Dear cupid, I have been in a relationship for a few months now and it feels like there's no love there no more. Is it something I'm doing or is our relationship coming to the end? I'll be grateful if someone could help me out on this. ...
A. 31 July 2005: It's hard to say, it could be just you being a little paraniod. But unfortunately i can't be sure, but there is a way you can find out, ask. Talk with them see if they feel the same way, either that or you may be the one who seems distant causing ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend ignore my request that he not go with his friends to a strip club?
Q. Hi, I am 19 years old and a freshman in college. I am living at home this summer and my boyfriend is also living at his home. He informed me the other day that he and a bunch of pals (some I personally deem as immature) are going to take a trip to ...
A. 19 July 2005: I'm sorry if this comes across as harsh, as it isn't intended to be but boys will be boys. Though I am sure he is a veery loving and mature boyfriend, he is still a guy, and even if you are the most amazing thing he could ever imagine, going out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says nothing is happening with his ex, but I'm sure it is!
Q. My live in boyfriend is cheating with his ex. He says he's not cheating. Everything that I say is wrong and it turns into an arguement. Please I need help. I love him but it is hard to even think he is with her. How do I prove to him that I am rig...
A. 17 July 2005: Will proving to him that you are right give you peace of mind? Though you love him if he is cheating get rid of him! You do not deserve to be treated like that. You deserve so much better than that.
Are you absolutely possitive that he is chea... (read in full...)
We just can't have sex. It's too painful for me!
Q. I am virgin and my bf is not. Recently, we have had several attempts for sex. The first time, it seemed that he could put it in about half way. I didn't bleed at all. Since then, all the times we attempted to have sex, I feel pain . We were not ...
A. 17 July 2005: Try and make sure you are relaxed, a problem could be that you are clenching with nerves or excitment without realising. Also Make sure there is foreplay as this will help releave some tenchion and make you feel more relaxed and ready. Then ask him ... (read in full...)
It feels like he doesn't care about me or my feelings. When I try to talk about it, he just says I'm too young.
Q. I a 20 years old and have a 4 year old son and a daughter on the way on the 25th of July. I am in a relationship with a 25 year old and we've been together 2 years. I love him to death and will give him the world if I could, but half the time I f...
A. 3 July 2005: You need to tell him hgow much he is hurting you and that he needs to treat you as an equal, or the relationship will end, its not healthy for him to be so patranising. take care... (read in full...)
I have a child and a relationship with my boyfriend... and feelings for my ex!
Q. I am a female and I've been going with my boyfriend for two year that I love and we have a child but I am in love with my ex-boyfriend. What should I do about my feelings?...
A. 29 June 2005: I think you should take time and seriously consider you options here. You love your current boyfriend, the two of you have a child and I am assuming he loves you bak. Do you want to risk this all because your in love with your ex. He is your ex ... (read in full...)
When we went to the club, everything went great! Now I text her and get no reply...
Q. I’ve come out a long-term relationship about two months ago, since then ive had a fantastic social life. My female friend that ive known for ages (who i dont hang around with) said if I ever wanted to go for a drink with her and a few mates we ...
A. 29 June 2005: I would try and think positive, as she is on holiday it might just be that literally she has no time, signal or credit. From you you have said it sounds like she likes you. She may have been a bit gutted that you didnt want to take it further ... (read in full...)
I secretly crave a big, busty woman, but my fiancee has the body of a model!
Q. "My fiance's body doesn't sexually interest me, but i truly love her." Ok, I've got a very interesting question for everyone. I'm 26 years old, and I'm engaged to a woman that I've been with for near 10 years. We're not legally married yet. She...
A. 12 June 2005: This is a bizzare problem, well you have to try and think, do you want your relationship or your fetish to be fulfilled because it seems you must choose one or the other.
Trying to secretely get her to gain wieght is not the right way to go. ... (read in full...)
Why would my husband comment that I'm a lesbian, when I'm not?
Q. My husband and I have been married 13 years. But when we argue he makes comments that I'm a lesbian. I'm totally heterosexual. So why does he make those comments?...
A. 31 May 2005: This is probably nothing to worry about, he is probably just using it as an insult. It is the same as when people who arn't homophobic call things that are bad "gay". Either this or do you have a history like you "experimented" once maybe which ... (read in full...)
I'd like for our relationship to be going somewhere, but he's adamant he won't take on my son...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years. We do love each other but there is one barrier - he will not take on anyone else's child. I have a son from a previous relationship. He has a son from his previous too, whom he sees every ...
A. 31 May 2005: You should ask him about his feelings on the matter in more detial. It may well be that his pride is damaged because the child wouldnt be his, but having the two of you living together would not be a problem with the children. Tell him how you ... (read in full...)
We each developed feelings for the other, but she's already regarding me as her boyfriend!
Q. I know this girl from my class back in 2003. Since then, we never talked outside because I was shy until 2005 whereby I started to chat with her often outside and soon, became very close to her. I did develop strong feelings for her and in April, I ...
A. 31 May 2005: Try and gently explain to her that you are not yet ready for a relationship and you would rather just build on your friendship until after school when you have more time. If you truly love her and she really likes you back then there shouldn't be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend yells and swears at me when I suggest I move somewhere else...
Q. My gf of 2 years is playing on my mind. I moved in with her 6 months ago after her parents moved away. We are house sitting for them. At the end of each month we have no money left after paying all their bills (including rates)..feeding their do...
A. 25 May 2005: Dear Jason, Your g/f is just touchy because she likes living with you, and also likes to live in her parents house, if this is not for you maybe the idea of moving back home and continuing dating is a good idea. This could help improve ... (read in full...)
She broke it off with me, because she said it seems like I didn't want to be around her...
Q. I am from England and am studying in America. I have been dating an American girl for 1 year and she broke it off 3 weeks before I came home for the summer. She said that it didn't seem like it was before and that I didn't seem like I wanted to be ...
A. 25 May 2005: In this case actions will speak louder than words. If you are sure you want to be in this relationship, when she comes to visit really pay alot of attention to her. She clearly is feeling like she wants to be treated like a princess. If you do ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I should wait until we're married to have sex...
Q. OK, I have a problem with this boy who loves me and I love him, but well when the subject of sex it's all about us doing it! See I know he's ready and I am too, it's just if my parents ever found out they would move me and I would not come back ...
A. 24 May 2005: This is a very complex situation, that no one should have the authority to tell you what to do. The decision to have sex is a very important one which ONLY you can make. I understand that your parents' opinion means a lot to you but really i... (read in full...)
He won't tell me what the problems are. He just wants us to have a break...
Q. hey I'm dating a guy who is older than me by two years. I'm 20 and he is 22. He has a kid coz he was married. Things were cool but not anymore. He really changed towards me with no reason. I tried to know why but the answer was "let's take a break,...
A. 24 May 2005: I would try not to worry too much. I know this is very difficult as you are experiencing strong feelings for this guy, but the way to help him right now is to trust him and give him what he says he needs, which is space. He cares for you, he said ... (read in full...)
Things went stale after we moved in together, and now it's like we're flatmates!
Q. Hi I've been with me current girlfriend for over 6 years. Up until recently everything has been great. Well until we moved in together. Now I feel as if we are almost flat mates. Everything has gone completly stale. No excitement or passion. It's...
A. 22 May 2005: Someone will have to get hurt here, but better sooner rather than later as the hurt will be less. Things have gone cold between your girl friend and you, and you have feeling for someone else who has feelings for you in return, I think you should ... (read in full...)
Why do we get physical and abusive when we disagree?
Q. me and my boyfriend love each other but sometimes we get verbal and physically abusive when having differences what do we do? sadly loving#21...
A. 22 May 2005: I think you need to think about whether you really love each other. If you do and are willing to work to stay together, you should try and talk about why you hurt each other when you are angry. Next time you are angry at each other, do not be in ... (read in full...)
I told the boy in my class that I liked him but he already has a girlfriend...
Q. I am a 12 year old girl in 6th grade. I don't know if I'm too young for this advice website or not but I hope you will answer my question. See I like this guy that is in my class and I have liked him for awhile now (almost the whole year) well he ...
A. 22 May 2005: You are never too young too experience feelings for someone. You have to ask yourself "Am I happy with the current arrangement?". If you are not, you must say to him, as he already knows you like him, which was the hard part, that you are ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with doing my girlfriend a million favours. How do I put an end to it?
Q. How far can the knight in shining armor thing go? I have always gone too far to accomodate girls. My gf of over a year has enjoyed me fixing her drinks and snacks, tickling and backrubs, anything and everything I have to offer whenever she wants ...
A. 22 May 2005: Comunication is what this needs. You need to speak to her about this, tell her how you feel. Hopefully she will realise and stop being so demanding, she may not even notice what she is doing so it is important that you explain to her in a gentle, ... (read in full...)
He wasn't able to have sex with me, so I broke up with him..
Q. I broke up with a man who I had a four month relationship, love him so much, everything was perfect except sex, he could not perform intercourse, he said he was not impotent, but I think it is psychological, he is only 41. I wrote him a letter, ...
A. 22 May 2005: There is no point in wishing that you had done this or that. The point is you must not beat yourself up about a mistake you made, and start to focus on how to make things right again. By suggesting he was impotent, you most probably insulted his ... (read in full...)
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