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writes: I am a 12 year old girl in 6th grade. I don't know if I'm too young for this advice website or not but I hope you will answer my question. See I like this guy that is in my class and I have liked him for awhile now (almost the whole year) well he has a girlfriend at the moment and school is almost over. I wrote him a note like 3 to 4 months ago asking him of he liked me and then I told him that I liked him a lot. After he read it he looked at me and said "I don't know". So now he sort of flirts with me but yet he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do?sincerly, needs help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): just wait a while.... If he keeps flirting, flirt back. pretend 2 drop ur books. Hopefully He'll help u. ask him again if he likes u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): just wait a while.... If he keeps flirting, flirt back. pretend 2 drop ur books. Hopefully He'll help u. ask him again if he likes u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): I'm going through the same situation. There's a boy in my sixth grade class that sort of likes me to. Sometimes you really wish to know what he thinks about you don't you? Well, so do I. He knows I like him and I know he sort of likes me because my friends ask him and he say "She's okay". It bothers me to know what he thinks is wrong with me and I wish I could fix what is. What I would do is just flirt with him a little and then see what will happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): yeah ok i so know how you feel sweetheart! well the most you can do is just wait but don't be afraid to flirt back because if you all of a sudden just stop he will think you don't like him no more. trust me that is just how guys are they don't make sense!!! if he likes you too he will act very different all of sudden after him and his girl break up!!!compare how he acts with you and the other girls you should be able to tell if he like you or not! just be patient eventually he and his girl will break up and when they do its called catch him on the rebound be there to wipe the tears afterwards it will so be worth the wait! good luck!!!!
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (22 May 2005):
I'm not so far gone that I can't remember all the flirting and notes of middle school romance, so I'll try to help. Straight off, the point that sticks out to me is that the guy already has a gf, which is bad news bears. For his part though, he replied to your note with "I don't know", so maybe he's into his gf enough not to cheat on her. I think he flirts with you because he likes you, but for now, he probably isn't going to leave the girl he's with. If you like him that much, then you could go on like this and maybe he would fall for you. Or you could move on and not have yourself after this guy that might never come around, and freeing yourself of this mental burden. I'd leave him alone and look for someone else. Your call, though.
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reader, lozzy +, writes (22 May 2005):
Hi I totally understand your situation. I think you should wait until the relationship naturally breaks up. Don't interfere or else the girl who he is dating may turn against you. Ask him if he feels the same way about yo. If he does maybe you could work something out between you and if he doesn't I suggest you leave it.
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reader, LifeSucks12 +, writes (22 May 2005):
What i think that you should do is not worry about him, there is much better people out there for you, and by him saying "I don't know" it is just a comfortable way for him not having to tell you how he really feels. He just does not want to say anything so don't wait around for him go out there and find someone much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): Dear Needs Help, I have been in this situation once before and two days ago,I started going through it again.I know that it hurts when this kind of thing happens,and I feel your pain. Well,if you really like this guy,I say you should hold on.I mean,this matter is partially in your hands.The part about him having a girlfriend isn't,but the part about you deciding what to do is. You basically have two choices.You can either hold on,or let go and try to find someone else.And remember that this is all up to you.It's not up to me or anyone else here at dearcupid.org,it's not up to him,and it's not up to his girl.It's all up to you. I know that sounds weird.I'm just trying to make you feel better because at the moment your self-esteem might not be at its highest....at least,it isn't if you're anything like me.Best wishes,Sarah
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reader, Christie +, writes (22 May 2005):
You are never too young too experience feelings for someone. You have to ask yourself "Am I happy with the current arrangement?". If you are not, you must say to him, as he already knows you like him, which was the hard part, that you are uncomfortable with the way things are. It is unfair to you and his girlfriend.As he said "I don't know" when you asked him if he liked you back this is an indication that he probably does, but he has a girl friend and is reluctant to break that up as he likes her aswell. If he chooses to stay with his girl friend, or gets 'touchy' about what you say then please don't let him upset you too much. It will hurt, but you must try to focus on school or your friends, as sooner or later you will feel the same about another guy who will return the favor properly. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): You are so cute, first of all you are so young, you will like so many guys through out your life .... He is just a kid, just be friends, he has a girlfriend, so you need to behave like a princess, be kind and be his friend. You never know maybe something will happen down the line,
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