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writes: HiI've been with me current girlfriend for over 6 years. Up until recently everything has been great. Well until we moved in together. Now I feel as if we are almost flat mates. Everything has gone completly stale. No excitement or passion. It's making me really unhappy. A few weeks ago I went on a work night out and ended kissing a colleague of mine. We agreed that we would continue as just friends going for lunch etc, but I've been drawn close to her and have began to develop feelings for her as has she for me... What shall I do as I don't want to hurt anyone?? Least myself....
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): I don't agree! If you truly want it to work out with your current gf, then you need to speak to her about this. In ANY relationship there are "ruts" but they can be improved with communication and participation on each side. I wouldn't throw away 6 years so quickly, there is more to life than lust and crushes.
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reader, Christie +, writes (22 May 2005):
Someone will have to get hurt here, but better sooner rather than later as the hurt will be less. Things have gone cold between your girl friend and you, and you have feeling for someone else who has feelings for you in return, I think you should finish with your girlfriend. It may hurt her but it is for the better as you are not happy and it is likely she is not happy either so stop stringig her along and give the both of you a chance to move on.
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