How can someone who always goes to church and used to be so loving, become such a major jerk?
Q. I feel so sad. Please read and any advice would be deeply appreciated. I thought I met my soul mate 3 years ago. We were inseparable. I was so captivated by his kindness, generosity, affection for my daughter(from a previous long term relationship). ...
A. 1 August 2011: Hello dear!!!
Major puzzling! But the truth is that people with deep spirituality they should not confused with people that they 're fanaticaly religious. In the first situation people they try to work with themselves and the others, they 're open... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is working 7 days a week and never has time to see me! I'm worried it's just an excuse.....
Q. i've been with my bf for 3years. and for the past 1 year i find that his behaviour is changing. each time i want to spent time with him, he will keep on giving me excuses such as i'm busy with work. i'm so tired. when we 1st noe each other we always ...
A. 1 August 2011: Hello dear!!!
I 'm afraid that you should risk. It seems that your bf either is not sure about his feelings or he got tired.. in this case your persistance it will not help you... Don't call him and don't text him again... and I mean not at all!... (read in full...)
How can I tell her in a nice way that I'm no longer interested in her?
Q. Okay so I met this girl the other day at a social event and I got her number. Well we went on a casual date and while everything went great something she did finally made me put two and two together. See I have this friend and you know us guys that ...
A. 31 July 2011: Congratulations on your qualities, first of all!!!
You should know that the most of the men, not just in your age but also older enough, either they would have done it already in a very bad way or they wouldn’t say a word so they would be able to ... (read in full...)
Do shallow people lead better, easier and more fun lives?
Q. I have been wondering for some time about some of my girlfriends who I think are somewhat shallow. I mean, they don't reflect on anything, they just pursue what they want (sex, money, relationships) and don't much care who and what they damage in ...
A. 31 July 2011: Hello dear!!!
I think that Abella with her post bellow was really as her picture saws, a lighthouse! so you can see the safe entry to the harbor.
I would like to add though, that shallowness is definitely easier and this is because it’s not a se... (read in full...)
I can't get these cruel words out of my head
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...
A. 30 July 2011: Hello dear, Though I don't like lies I don't blame you. As individuals we need our space and our time for being alone or with friends or family, indoor or outdoor... I dont know what is the worst in your situation... that you're with a guy who refu... (read in full...)
How do I feel better about myself?
Q. Hi, Im never satisfied with my looks, and feel ugly all the time. Some people say im pretty but I never believe them. Im not very popular or outgoing, im very shy. How do I feel better about myself?...
A. 30 July 2011: Hello dear, It is all about you... being pretty.. the real difference from a pretty person to a not so preety one is just a sense of oneself. If you have a good sense of yourself that makes you pretty. Is magic. You can always improve some things f... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about ending up alone for the rest of my life??
Q. when i split with my boyfriend 4 months ago i found it so hard, we was only together for a year but i love him so much. when i found out he cheated it broke my heart, i cryed for 2 months and wouldnt go nowere but mop round. i am much better now ...
A. 30 July 2011: Hello dear!!! Is just so very soon, it will take a while you know... you will definitely not end up alone... you re so very young... take some time doing things that you really like... spend some time with your friends and your family.. but also fin... (read in full...)
How can I improve my attention span when studying?
Q. I can't be attentive in my study.when i start studying i frequently lose my attention.after reading for so many times i forget what i read the previous day.how can i complete my studies in due time with proper attention? ...
A. 29 July 2011: Hello dear... there 3 types of learners... the auditive type (acoustical memory)... visual type... (visual memory) and the kinaesthetic type... all these types they re nothing more... listening - reading - writing... If you use all the 3 types your ... (read in full...)
What does this dream mean? I'm scared to sleep in case it happens again!
Q. Hello everyone. Last night when I went to sleep, no dream no nothing, and this morning I wake up, and i got out for a bit, theb went back to bed rough two hours later. I had felt it was needed. Then about an hour later, I'm waking up screaming and ...
A. 29 July 2011: Hello dear... Of course we should know if your boyfriend is on drugs or if he has a violent temper. But if he's not, and if you love him, I think that your trying subconsiously to interpret your loss differentely. You might feel betrayed for your ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to achieve orgasm through vaginal sex?
Q. Hi guys, i am a 21 year old female. iv been with my boyfriend about 6 months and we have been having sex for a few months now. iv had previuos sexual partners before him. but one thing thats really been bothering my boyfriend is that he can't ...
A. 29 July 2011: It really bothers me that this is bothering your boyfriend so much. It is very ego of him.. to expect from you to do something that you might not be able... of course we dont know and the guy that he will discover that has to be a maestro!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has aftershave that ex gave him and I don't like it
Q. I know this sounds ridiculous, but my boyfriend has this aftershave that his ex-gf bought him and when he wears it it makes me really angry inside. He obviously doesn't know this because I would look like a joke. He's wearing it more and more and it ...
A. 29 July 2011: Hello dear... if your boyfriend behaving properly to you and if he's not flirting with his ex or any other woman.. just relax and don't make big fuss out of it... go in a parfume store, make a present to yourself to cheer up and remember to take ... (read in full...)
Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?
Q. I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...
A. 29 July 2011: :-( I am extremely sorry about your situation! I know that you cannot trust him anymore and I would have done the same... propably he will lie again...lets say that it is not real cheating and is just a mind game... he's fantasising about other ... (read in full...)
Worried all the time bout relationship
Q. I got this problem which is really annoying. I'm always terrified that my girlfriend is going to dump me or stop loving me. Even the smallest action sends me into worrying and i have to physically stop my self from calling and txting her all the ...
A. 29 July 2011: My dear friend... if you are obsessed with this, eventually it will come true.. you should relax. Tips? I dont really know what it might work for you, you know... first you have to try to fingure out why is it like this... does she something wrong ... (read in full...)
Why did he move on so fast after he said he wanted to be single?
Q. I was dating this guy for a little while not that long then he broke up with me saying i became too clingy and that he doesn't want to be with anyone for a while but it has been two days i called him and he had someone over and he hung up in my ...
A. 28 July 2011: My sweet dear... unfortunately he wasn't honest enough.. I dont know if you were clingy or he just claimed so, and I dont know if he just got tired or he is just interested in somebody else. To be honest it is sad but doesn't really make any ... (read in full...)
I think I only stay with my boyfriend because I have very low self esteem
Q. Dear Cupid, please can you help me, sorry about the long letter. This is the first time I am telling anyone about this. Ok, so I come from a background where my parents had a very volatile and unstable relationship, growing up in my house hold...
A. 24 July 2011: I was thinking of you... of your story... almost the whole night... I can sense that you are a very good person, an angel, I should say, this is why that is happening to you!!! Angels often being victims of an abusive situation because still can ... (read in full...)
I think I only stay with my boyfriend because I have very low self esteem
Q. Dear Cupid, please can you help me, sorry about the long letter. This is the first time I am telling anyone about this. Ok, so I come from a background where my parents had a very volatile and unstable relationship, growing up in my house hold...
A. 24 July 2011: Go away immediatly young lady... as fast as you can!!!! I can see very clearly why you re doing that to yourself because... it is the devil you know... it is familiar for you to be in a position like this.Nevertheless you are enpowered to choose how ... (read in full...)
27, never had a girlfriend, now can't even go out...
Q. I'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship with a girl at all. I can talk to girls though. In my job there are maybe half a dozen girls, all of whom I find attractive and I can chat with all of them. I got on really well w...
A. 23 July 2011: May I ask? Why you cannot go out?? Because you don’t have a girlfriend?? And what about your friends then?? You might not have enough friends, but you’ ll have some… I was also a very social and very lonely person at the same time. I knew so many ... (read in full...)
How can I feel sexy again? The guy I was seeing doesn't seem interested anymore.
Q. Hi... Lately I've felt tired all the time, and I feel really sensitive about my body. I feel fat. I feel as though the man I was seeing has lost interest in me because I'm not sexy anymore. He rarely texts me unless he wants a favour. And when...
A. 23 July 2011: Being sexy it should not be the major thing in your life. It is not the best it is not the worst. But honey, if you want to look like a million than you have to feel like a million. Or else you will look cheap.. The key is. The way you feel about ... (read in full...)
What topics are important to talk about on a first date?
Q. I'm going on my first date, and I need to know which topics are important to talk about for future dates so I get a good idea of what sort of person he is. Things like future goals, etc. Any advice?...
A. 23 July 2011: Have a nice time I should say... the first impression that you re getting on the first date is almost magic.. I advice you to not lose that sense because you were so focused on the right topics... you should not ask so many questions unless he is ... (read in full...)
In a dead relationship but somehow still together....what should I do?
Q. Im in a dead relationship with my boyfriend he has cheated I have cheated but for some odd reason we are still together he's very attentive to me when he's out of town but when he's home he completely ignores me my question him he gets upset and ...
A. 22 July 2011: Hello! I won't try to tell you that I know what is happening but it seems to me that you both have lost the respect between you. And this is what it comes after cheating, and it was both ways, unfortunately! And you started by writting exactly the ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to lose weight? 100lbs seems so overwhelming!
Q. Hi all. This is more a self-esteem/relationship with myself kinda deal. I'm currently 220 lbs and at only 5'4", I'm a big girl. It sucks and I hate it. I was actually one of those girls you called anorexic back in elementary school because I was so ...
A. 22 July 2011: Hey There! Congratulations on your decision! Whatever you do, I am sure that you will make it because you have decide so. I will also add, that exercise it helps a lot and you should definitely do something. It will help you to lose weight, it will ... (read in full...)
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