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writes:i've been with my bf for 3years. and for the past 1 year i find that his behaviour is changing. each time i want to spent time with him, he will keep on giving me excuses such as i'm busy with work. i'm so tired. when we 1st noe each other we always meet up watch movie together. bt lately ive not been seeing him for the past 9 month.and whenever i text him, its like he doesn't bother to reply my text. i even waited whole day for his text but end up i have to call him up late at night to know if he was find or maybe something bad has happen to him n that the reason he did not reply my text. but when i found out he was sleeping n he told me he was tired working n had no time to reply my text. this has be going for some time. is there such thing as working for 24/7 no off day. when i ask him when will be his off day so we could meet up he just say that im busy with my work n not sure when is my day off. for your information the past 1 year i have notice that he has got no day off each time i ask he will say i'm working when i call sometime he won't answer my call. and after few hours he just reply and say im busy rite now. text u later. bt till the next day he still remain silent i ever ask him that we should get married. and whenever i ask this question he will try to avoid by saying im not yet stable. pls give some time. or even cange the topic. when i ask if he is seeing some one he deny. when i ask do u still love me he say yes i do. i really don't know what to do. Could anyone help me out with this. what i should do?
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reader, Celest  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Hello dear!!!
I 'm afraid that you should risk. It seems that your bf either is not sure about his feelings or he got tired.. in this case your persistance it will not help you... Don't call him and don't text him again... and I mean not at all!!If he cares about you, he will contact you or else you have to move on... but I thing that it will be better for you to move on, why would you like to be in a relathionship like this? Find someone that he will like to spend his time with you and he would show you how much he cares about you. You can't do much better!!!
Good luck! All my best!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Some people do have to work harder than slaves. In this case, however, it seems this is his excuse.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 sorry but it sounds like you are wasting your time with this man. he never wants to see you but he cannot tell you, maybe he is scared of your reaction, or he does not want to hurt you by ending the relationship or maybe he is happy to keep you in his life but does not actually want to spend time with you, or even bother to contact you.
but him to the test. tell him you have had enough you think that you should maybe break up with him or at least have a temporary break. i bet he won't try to talk you out of it.
if he thought you were worth keeping he would not dare to treat you this way coz he would not want to risk losing you
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