My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......
Q. This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...
A. 22 February 2011: Thanks though for all of your opinions, definitely helped me sort shit out.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......
Q. This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...
A. 22 February 2011: Just to clarify, I wasn't there when any of this happened. I was home, she went out with her friends.
You're all correct though, I am splitting hairs here. Also, I agree with tennisstar, I would consider kissing someone else as cheating... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......
Q. This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...
A. 22 February 2011: But normally she doesn't drink, at all. This is maybe the 4th time shes had a drink since we started going out, but at no time was she totally fucked except for this one, usually a bottle of wine at most. She actually seemed like a very decent ... (read in full...)
He cant marry me because of his parents......
Q. I've been in an on/off relationship with this guy for many years now. We always break up due to one problem, his parents. Our parents come from the same country and religious background, however he strongly believes that his parents will never ...
A. 22 February 2011: Once again I completely agree with Annalisa. He has to stick up for you.
Tell him what you want out of this, and ask him to commit to it.
If he's that afraid of his parents, then do you really want him as a husband? With his mother deciding ... (read in full...)
I am dating my ex's friend, is this wrong?
Q. Hi there can anybody give me some advice please? I started seeing a guy last year, he is of different religion to me and within a few days i could tell he was a jealous person and trying to gain control of me. He didnt like me going out with ...
A. 22 February 2011:
I don't think you're doing anything wrong under the circumstances. Its not like you're being a hoe and sleeping with everyone you see.
Your ex was obviously wasn't for you. He seems overly jealous, controlling, selfish, and completely u... (read in full...)
American Dad, Canadian Mom.....Baby in the middle
Q. I am a Canadian citizen who recently found out Im preganant with my American boyfriends child. After discussing the pregnancy with him he has expressed that he'd like the baby to be born in the US however because Im not a citizen the matter of ...
A. 22 February 2011: You have to take his feelings into account. It's his child too.
I understand the patriotism, we Canadians are some of the best eh! But if its feasible to have the baby in the States, then you owe it to him to consider it.
You should very ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her about my feelings?
Q. i love one girl since 7 years .i didn't tell her about it,i am afraid to tell her,i can't even face her,how can i tell her about my feeling?...
A. 22 February 2011: Do you have an active friendship with this girl? Do you know if she feels the same way?
You don't want to come on too strong. Might I suggest just asking her out on a date and seeing how it goes first?... (read in full...)
Everyone is trying to break us up!
Q. hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. ...
A. 22 February 2011: Agree with Annalisa. His ex is a problem that he has to deal with.
As for you, focus on the relationship, don't worry about other peoples opinions. Do what makes you happy!... (read in full...)
I want children, he already has 2. Do I believe him when he says we could have more?
Q. My boyfriend has 2 kids from his previous marriage, I don't have children but would like to. He doesn't want any more children, but he says he will consider it if we get married. Do I take him at his word and hope he changes his mind if we marry ...
A. 22 February 2011: You're entitled to have children of your own. I think you should take a stand here and let him know that you're not comfortable not having kids of your own. He must have expected a single girl with no children to want kids of her own at some point. ... (read in full...)
I want to know how to be a better kisser, not what not to do!
Q. Could someone please help me with this? All I keep reading is what NOT to do, but rarely do I find suggestions on what TO DO. I've had no shortage of practice but my kisses are still just so so. I had one girlfriend who was a phenomenal kisse...
A. 22 February 2011: I dunno dude. I usually just let them lead, and respond accordingly until I've made out with her enough to know what she likes. I've been told my method works well lol.... (read in full...)
3 times we've had oral sex but he's only cum once. Is that normal?
Q. me and this guy have been dating 3 times we both are virgins.but we did oral sex....what matters me is that when we do this he masturbates only once. is it normal that he did ejaculate once out of 3 times having oral sex and holding each other ...
A. 22 February 2011: We'll, if you we're doing it long enough to make him get off, then he should have gotten off all 3 times.
Make sure you're not hurting him! No teeth, don't suck to hard, don't twist his balls into weird positions.
Theres a possibility that... (read in full...)
Did I mess this up? Or is he afraid of being hurt?
Q. Here is the background: I met this guy who's different than anyone I've ever known. I feel lucky to have met him. We both really like each other. We appreciate each other's humor, interests, differences, etc. We also have amazing chemistry. We ...
A. 22 February 2011: He's holding back because hes afraid of being hurt. He's building his walls up now to prepare for the worst. He wasn't thinking about the worst because your incident happened. I've done the same thing hes doing now.
You need to reassure him of y... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't show affection and only lets me contact people he chooses
Q. i have known my husband for three years and married just one year. i am entrily fed up of my situation. he used to be romantic and take the time to please me. but now he nearly speaks to me. i am a stay at home housewife. i do everything for h...
A. 22 February 2011: You have to communicate this. Sit down and tell him what you're feeling, find out whats going on with him, then figure out a way to deal with it.
You've got to get the flair back. Go out to dinner, cook him a steak naked lol. Do you see each oth... (read in full...)
How do I get over him if I don't want to get over him?
Q. So im still having the same guy problems as ive had for like a year now. I havent spoken to him in like 2months because he hasnt been answering me. I finally got hold off him the other night when i was drunk, i pretnended i was ringing for someone ...
A. 22 February 2011: It takes time to get over someone. You have to give it all the time that it takes.
Delete his number from your contact list. Keep busy. Take up new hobbies. Go out with friends a lot. Go shopping, go out to dinner. Just give it time, and keep... (read in full...)
Am I separating love and sex? Or just being slutty?
Q. Hi there! Been with my boy for a long time: he'll soon move in with me and we'll get married in a few years. Love him with all my heart and I feel my future is with him. Still, I've recently started an affair with a super seductive and sexy man...
A. 22 February 2011: Poster says "Thank you for your replies. I see your point, but I honestly don't see anything wrong in some safe no-strings-attached fun: it doesn't have to affect my relationship, it's in a completely different area."
It doesnt matter what are... (read in full...)
My life turned upside-down as people consider me as an attractive girl and I was rejected by a not so good-looking person.
Q. I have met this person in my university. He's not in my institute but still we met in the university canteen where he was campaigning about some event. We met twice or thrice. At first, there wasn't anything but after some time I felt something for ...
A. 22 February 2011: Just because you're pretty, doesn't mean everyone will want you. Theres more depth to a person than that.
You cant change him though, he knows what he wants. Leave it alone for a while, if you're still hung up on him after a couple months, ... (read in full...)
Have we broken up? Something is different this time.
Q. i been in a long distance relationship for about two and a half years. i text him eight weeks ago but didn't reply so i gave him space and couple of days ago i text him again but he hasn't replied.i dont know wether to give him space or should i ask ...
A. 22 February 2011: You haven't talked to him in 5 months? I think its safe to say that you should find someone else girl!... (read in full...)
I want to wait for the right one, afterwards, will there be any changes in my body?
Q. I am a 19 year virgin boy . I am University student .I believe that I should lose my virginity to the girl who I will LOVE . IS it right . I have not find my love girl yet . Also tell me if there are any body changes in boys after first time having ...
A. 22 February 2011:
You're in university. You should have learned by now that sex is sex, it involves no visable or lasting bodily changes, unless you call getting a hard on a "body change" for men or woman. Its not puberty man, and you're not going to get preg... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my birth mother?
Q. hello i am 15 and i have been adopted sence i was 2 becoz my mum could not look after me and she did not know my dad or my brothers dad and my brother so my nan and grandad decided to adopted us. my mum used to come a visit me and my brother every ...
A. 22 February 2011:
You should talk to your grandparents about it. You cant entirely be sure what kind of a person your mother is. She might be a wonderful person, but she might disappoint you as well.
I don't think you should let your grandparents prejudices a... (read in full...)
A not so jolly holiday. I don't think he is right. Any opinions?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 children from his previous marriage. I invited them to to our family Christmas dinner. He came along with his children, but didn't accept the invitation for certain until a few days before Christmas. He was very ups...
A. 22 February 2011: Sounds like a shitty time all around.
He cant expect your family to drown his children in lavish gifts when you guys have only been together a year. This was probably his first Christmas with you guys.
Its also ridiculous that he would ex... (read in full...)
He's quite shy and I prefer the man to make the first move?
Q. I've started seeing a boy, but we're not going out... yet. He's quite shy and I always prefer to let the man make the first move, which means that our relationship isn't really progressing. I do want to be with him but I'm not too sure what to do ...
A. 22 February 2011: If hes too shy, then you make the first move...
If you want to be with him, yet you wont make it happen because you "prefer to let the man make the first move", than you're just being foolish lol.
He might make the move eventually, but ... (read in full...)
Must I move on with my life rather than being with someone who doesn't tell me he loves me?
Q. me and my boyfriend are going out for 5 months he sometimes dont call me for 3 days and he does not tell me he loves me not even if i ask him,he only says im special to him last weekend he did not call should i call him? must i move on with my life ...
A. 22 February 2011: You've been together for 5 months. I think you should both sit down and see where you guys are. You're obviously wanting a serious relationship - and thats fine - but you're not sure what he wants. You don't need to think 2 years down the r... (read in full...)
Girlfriend says she can't perform oral sex because she has a sore throat! For 12 months???
Q. Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs. However, during foreplay (or anytime) she will not perform oral sex on me. She has done on a handful of occasions in the past, and I perform oral sex on her regularly because she enjoys it, just ...
A. 22 February 2011: Your problem is one of a lot of relationships, yet it truly is the backbone of any good, and lasting relationship. Honesty dude, honesty! Relationships require total honesty to function in the best way. Shes obviously not being honest with you ... (read in full...)
Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?
Q. I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a ...
A. 22 February 2011: A bad relationship is a bad relationship. You can fix it if you're both willing to take the time. However it doesn't sound like you're willing to take the time, like you've lost the will to try and fix it. You deserve to be happy, so you have to do ... (read in full...)
Am I separating love and sex? Or just being slutty?
Q. Hi there! Been with my boy for a long time: he'll soon move in with me and we'll get married in a few years. Love him with all my heart and I feel my future is with him. Still, I've recently started an affair with a super seductive and sexy man...
A. 22 February 2011: I would say that it depends. Does your boyfriend know about this? If he doesn't know, then perhaps you're not feeling guilty because you haven't actually broken his heart yet. My advice. Tell your boyfriend immediately. If you see him upset, t... (read in full...)
Can you believe an ex-cheater when he says he has changed?
Q. My girlfriend left me because i did not come home, and she thought i was cheating on her. I have cheated on her in the past and she found out but we worked through it. Is there the chance i can prove to her that i have changed , or have i caused too ...
A. 22 February 2011: Did you bother to call her when you knew you wouldn't be home? She obviously has an issue trusting you, and for good reason apparently. It's your responsibility to build that trust back up to a level where shes comfortable. If you want the gir... (read in full...)
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