I'm nearly 16 will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. i no this will sound silly. but im 15 and i do ave a fair amount of friends at school. theres about 15 of us that hang around on a break and lunch and i sit will different people in all my lessons. i always have someone to be with and have many many ...
A. 2 April 2008: Listen to what everyone said because its true! I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17. I felt the same way you do... The ones I liked never liked me back, and the ones that did like me I didn't like! But it happened, and he was a great guy. So ... (read in full...)
Should I keep talking to her or not?
Q. Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...
A. 25 February 2008: I agree with Dearkelja, it unfortunately seems that you should not speak to or see her for a while, at least until you find yourself thinking of her much less (which will mean you are over her). It kills me to tell you this because I am going ... (read in full...)
He said he got bored during sex.
Q. Me and my boyfriend had just gotten finished having sex. We were laying there together . He asked me " Do you ever get bored when we have sex " I said " No. why , do you ? " He said " A little bit. " Should I be affened by that? How can I ma...
A. 16 February 2008: I wouldn't be offended by him saying that. I don't know but perhaps the sex always consists of the same position or two? He obviously just wants to experiment with new things (new positions, cute lingerie, etc.). But rather than waiting to see what ... (read in full...)
I think I might be worrying too much
Q. I had sex for the first time. Me and my boyfriend used a condom but I am still extremely scared that I could be pregnant. I told my boyfriend, but he just laughed and said I worry too much. He is a very experienced guy, and has had many long term ...
A. 31 January 2008: Of course there's always the slight chance that you could be pregnant, so you should get tested just to put your mind at ease! You are most likely not though since you've had a period even though it was irregular. Also your irregular period could ... (read in full...)
He hurt me so badly and he's still being really cruel, what do I do?
Q. My ex and I had been together for three years. We were a perfect fit. For years we were inseperable and I felt like no one in the world understood me like he did. It even went as far as us having our own language. I trusted him, and I have to say I ...
A. 24 January 2008: Yes you need to totally move on from this jerk, and I know that this is soo much easier said than done but you do need to. There's no doubt that you love him very much, and maybe he loved you too at some point. But he does not anymore, no one that ... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me! What should I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and i been together for a year and a half he cheated on me a couple of times when i was pregnant with his child and he lied we broke up then we got back together 3 months ago i told him i was gonna go somewhere but i didn't i came to my ...
A. 16 January 2008: This relationship is so wrapped up in lies and cheating, its going to be very difficult if even possible to get both him and yourself past any paranoia. Can you fully trust him? If anything you're the one who should be having problems trusting him ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being a control freak? Help!
Q. I would like help from anyone who can let me know how to stop being a control freak. I've gone for, Ask no questions from loved ones. Give private space. Control green eyed monster. All the time. Has anyone else got any idea's??...
A. 16 January 2008: Being a control freak makes the other person feel weak and terrible, even if they don't voice it to you. And the thing about being a control freak is we know that we're doing it, right? Its not like were completely innocent and have no clue that its ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 6 years has stopped taking my calls
Q. Hi can someone help me, i am in desperate need of an answer. My boyfriend of nearly six years has for the past week stopped answering my calls and wont give me a reason why! ive text him, phoned him and left voice messages but no reply. I know not...
A. 16 January 2008: Yes I agree with Baby Duck, he's probably confused about his feelings at the moment and is attempting to sort them out. And he could at least make this known to you! But I would stop trying to contact him because he will eventually call you. For ... (read in full...)
Am I being foolish to toss away a good 5 year relationship for another guy?
Q. I have been in a 5 year relationship with a very kind loving man. im 23, hes 25. iv started having feelings for a friend, hes 30. i know he feels the same 4 me, but am i being foolish throwing away 5 years.. im jus not sure about my feelings f...
A. 15 January 2008: Just make sure that these feelings you are having for the other man are not just an intense crush. Think about whether you really love your guy because only you can answer that. Also remember that if you decide to remain with him, crushes do fade. ... (read in full...)
He thinks I cheated but I didn't! What can I do to get him back?
Q. I need advice... Me and my boyfriend of 3 years (as of January 12,2007) broke up this past Sunday night. Okay the story... my cousins ex-boyfriend goes to the same college I do. On the first week of school (January 7) he's been trying to talk to me. ...
A. 15 January 2008: Wow after three years together I'm sure you thought little things like this wouldn't be enough to cause a breakup! Obviously he has trust issues otherwise he would not have let it become such a huge problem. I don't know all the details but perhaps ... (read in full...)
Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?
Q. why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...
A. 11 January 2008: yes its just more common for boys to be open about the fact that they masturbate. Both sexes do it but girls just haven't caught up with the boys as far as being so open about it (in general). I know there are girls out there who realize that its ... (read in full...)
I started my period in August but since I haven't come on, what is going on? Should I be worried?
Q. hii ok well august 06 started my period and now it is january 08 and i havent come on since! i dont know if its anything to be worried about but what do i do...
A. 10 January 2008: It's probably nothing to worry about because as the others stated, you're still very young! But you should probably see a doctor or someone just to be safe and to give yourself peace of mind that there aren't any other underlying reasons.... (read in full...)
21 with a little girl and pregnant with twins. Help!!!
Q. hi its me again im the 21 year old with a little girl who has just found out im pregnant and was not sure what to do keep it or get rid of it well i went for my scan yesterday and found out its twins im having so im not going to be a 21 year old ...
A. 10 January 2008: Yes, I agree with the others, if you don't believe in abortion then don't do it. If you are absolutely positive that you cannot handle keeping the twins for whatever reasons, then perhaps speaking with an adoption agency would be a very good idea. ... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 10 January 2008: I agree with everyone. Its not the size that counts its how you use it! Its extremely cruel of her to be sharing this sort of initmate information with you especially if she knows how hurt you are from this whole experience! I wish you the best ... (read in full...)
She doesn't mind me smoking during sex but insists I wear a condom. Why?
Q. my girlfriend doesn't mind that I smoke but always insists that I wear a condom during sex-even though she's on the pill.Any blokes with a similar situation as to why?...
A. 8 January 2008: Yes I agree with everyone! She can still get pregnant on the pill. I am on the pill and my ex boyfriend was more than willing to wear a condom just to reassure us both. ... (read in full...)
Is he really focused on getting back with me in the future or is he just using me??
Q. Ive been with my boyfiend for over 3 years.. i love him to bits. Only for the past 3 months we have been arguing so so much! He says im controlling and wont let him have a social life, and although i tell him ill do my best to stop and let him grow...
A. 8 January 2008: Perhaps he is afraid of not contacting you throughout this time apart since you are the one who initiated the breakup. He may feel that if he does not keep in touch then you may find life easier without him, which he is probably fearing. Perhaps he ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?
Q. ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really rea...
A. 8 January 2008: No you should not go for him, he's your best friend's boyfriend! Regardless of whether you two like each other it will put a huge strain on the friendship with the girl. After all, how would you feel if the situation were the other way around and ... (read in full...)
We have a kid, money problems, and always argue, is there a future for us?
Q. I need someones advice. I am 24yrs old and have been with the father of my child for 5 yrs. It has been a very long 5 yrs. At first it was all good then once i had my daughter it went down hill from there. We always have had major problems such as ...
A. 8 January 2008: Yes you are going to need counseling especially because of the trust issues that will likely always be there otherwise. He needs the counseling also if he wants to stay with you. Of course this is all assuming that you still love him and even want ... (read in full...)
I have no friends, I'm so unhappy
Q. I'm only 13 years old(girl) and I wanna run away because I can't take my life anymore. I'm really young and I feel like I have no friends. I'm sometimes alone at school. What do I do?...
A. 7 January 2008: You're still young, much too young to run away and be on your own. Things will get better but you have to be patient. For me also, the ages of 13 and 14 we're the absolute worst!I hated everything about my life, I just wanted to be dead! Some people ... (read in full...)
My best friend is his ex, I feel very insecure about this situation. Is it normal to feel betrayed before it has even happened, when my bf reassures me of his intentions?
Q. hi,i need help with my relationship i have a lovely boyfriend i have been with him for around a month (according to him) he counts for us both. before i was going out with him we were very good friends i have always been there for him as a close ...
A. 5 January 2008: Wow what a situation. But I don't think you should have begun dating the guy because of the fact that he dated your good friend, regardless of how bad of a relationship they had. Your friend is always going to be apart of the picture if you are as ... (read in full...)
An ex has shown interest again and I don't know if I want to be with my fiance anymore. What should I do?
Q. Well I have an awkward situation on my hands. My first boyfriend whom I loved three years ago suddenly contacts me and tells me he misses me and he always has and that he made a mistake ending it with me and that he wants to make it up to me any way ...
A. 4 January 2008: I don't think you should return to your ex because its his loss! Now he realizes that the grass is greener, and as you said, you love your fiance so just because the ex has grown up is probably not a good reason to break the heart of the man who ... (read in full...)
Am I unique?
Q. My boyfriend keeps telling me i am unique because i can not seem to "cum" for a man. He says every other woman can except me, and it's starting to get irritating! can anyone recommend any way i can try to do this without feeling or looking like an ...
A. 3 January 2008: NO you are not "unique" because you haven't had an orgasm with a man. It's difficult for a lot of women to orgasm during sex. Personally I've never had one during intercourse itself, but I have them during oral as well as with fingers since most ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my sister-in-law and I don't know what to do?
Q. This is going to sound really bad…but I have been in love with my wife’s sister for the past six years. I have only been married for five years and I got married for the wrong reasons. I am completely miserable. My sister in-law and I are very close ...
A. 3 January 2008: You say you got married to your wife for the wrong reasons, but you must love her somewhat, correct? You are still young and perhaps are going through a life change that I think perhaps we all endure, but you shouldn't stray towards your wife's ... (read in full...)
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