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writes: I'm only 13 years old(girl) and I wanna run away because I can't take my life anymore. I'm really young and I feel like I have no friends. I'm sometimes alone at school. What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (7 January 2008):
First of all *cuddles* im so sorry your feeling so low especially as your still so young have you tried after school activites or joining a club or a class where you can interact with other people? Please dont give up you will find people who you will click with and become good freinds with i didnt meet my good friends till college but it will happen for you dont shut yourself off from people just try and join in.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 January 2008):
Im so sorry to hear that you feel like you have no friends, but running away will not be the awswer. Have you tried making friends with people?. As you mature and get older things will become more easier and clearer. Over time you will make many different friends, like when you leave school and go to college/work will find you have a wide variety of friends and a good social life. But for now hang in there, please don't consider running away. Why don't you start up a hobbie, or do a class in something that interests you. This is a brilliant way of making friends as the people you meet have something in common with you. Im sure there are classes after shool that they do. Do you like to read, maybe a book club might be an idea. Or if you are into sports, maybe a class in this. A self defence class like karate for your age group is always fun, and your bound to make new mates there.
I wish you all the best, and good luck x
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reader, CaliGurl +, writes (7 January 2008):
You're still young, much too young to run away and be on your own. Things will get better but you have to be patient. For me also, the ages of 13 and 14 we're the absolute worst!I hated everything about my life, I just wanted to be dead! Some people just deal with a tougher adolescence than others unfortunately. But hang in there! In the meantime maybe you could join a club or a sport if you are lucky enough to have the athletic skills (I didn't!). But the point is that you will not feel like this forever, and you will make friends. Just remember to be nice and friendly and people won't have any reason not to be nice back! If they do then they're jerks and not worth your time anyway!
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (7 January 2008):
hun
please mail me
or mail me and ask for my msn
ive been through what your going through
i no how u feel
xxxx
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