Overly critical spouse
Q. I think my husband is overly critical and he thinks that i m overly sensitive. I feel he lives in a dreamworld where he feels the need to have a perfect wife with a perfect figure who is also a great cook etc etc. I feel he is always criticising me ...
A. 25 September 2009: put your foot down now ; is he so perfect how dare he... (read in full...)
How can I ever get rid of these thoughts as they are driving me crazy and are stopping me fully enjoy loving my wife once again.
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair from her emails, trouble is the numerous emails (i read them all) were so graphic about what they would be doing and what they did do together and how great it was that I was left totally devastated, hurt, ...
A. 23 September 2009: I feel your pain my friend and i know how bad it hurts. Every second of the day the exact same thoughts are going through my head. When someone that we love and adore can cause us so much pain it just breaks your heart. In my case i had to end my ... (read in full...)
Do I tell his fiancee about his flirting with me?
Q. I have a bit of a problem at work. It started out with my boss flirting and making suggestive comments. He does this with several people at work. He does it in a playful way, and we have a good relationship, so I didn't mind. As inappropriate ...
A. 23 September 2009: This guy is a slimy RAT and you would be doing his girlfriend a big favour to let her know. Never mind those people that say it is none of your business you know what he is really like so do the decent thing and tell his innocent girlfriend she ... (read in full...)
How do I build a wall between me and this colleague...?
Q. I had sex with my colleague, whom I have fancied for a long time, (I never hinted that I liked him though), he has been having fantasies about me as well. So, we did it but spoke first that there won't be feelings involved, as he has a girlfriend ...
A. 22 September 2009: Will people ever learn ? You yourself had your heart broken by an ex and what do you do ? you cheat on your boyfriend that was very nice of you. This RAT that you had sex with only used you. So now you must do the decent thing and confess to your ... (read in full...)
How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the intent of a relationship?
Q. I am a reasonably good looking guy, not being arrogant. I am clever, funny, Polite and have had a few girlfriends in the past. This girl is absolutely stunning. And everything that I would like in a woman.How do I initiate a conversation with som...
A. 15 September 2009: Just open your mouth and talk simple as that... (read in full...)
How do I cope with being back in the dating game? I feel like a teenager again!
Q. Hi I am seperated 3 yrs and have meet a few men on and off, nothing serious, but now I have a longing to share my life with someone. I was on internet sites and made a decision recently to go off all the sites It didn't feel right and decided to ...
A. 15 September 2009: Contact him for goodness sake he could be the one GOOD LUCK... (read in full...)
I left my shy, dull wife for a wildcat. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster!
Q. Left my wife of 15 years because we grew apart and it seemed like we just wanted different things in life. The thing is, my wife has always been painfully shy. Always hates crowds, or parties or bars. I live for the crowds and the parties and the ...
A. 14 September 2009: Your wife sounds like a dream to me. You had the best of both worlds . Sweethearts are very rare they maybe a little boring at times but they make great soulmates. If i was you my friend i would beg my wifes forgiveness and then treat her like a ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for being happy that my daughter has a good relationship with her father?
Q. I have been with the man I'm with now for 2 years and our relationship is ready to crumble. I have a daughter with my ex that I was with for 12 years and my current man can not handle our friend relationship. It hurts me deeply that he can't see ...
A. 8 September 2009: Ofcourse you are not wrong. Your first priority must be to your daughter. It is very important that your daughter continues to have a happy relationship with her father. Your partner sounds very immature and VERY SELFISH.... (read in full...)
I can't tell is it's just flirting?
Q. Lately, I've been confused by the attention of a personal trainer at my gym. I signed up for him, and we got along great, and he even came to one of my family's get togethers. There's always been a bit of flirting, from him. I play stupid because I ...
A. 8 September 2009: This man is a dirty RAT stay away from him. There is no doubt that this man wants to have sex with you. Any man that is willing to cheat on his wife is no good. He will use you and dump you like a hot cake so please dont be selfish and think of his ... (read in full...)
I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her
Q. Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...
A. 30 August 2009: I think when you have been cheated on it is very hard to continue the relationship as if nothing has happened. If you had a good friend that betrayed you would you want to be friends with that person any longer ? So when your partner betrays you ... (read in full...)
Married & upset that younger lover has someone else
Q. I met my husband Jack about 15 years ago, he was my first love and first relationship, I loved him for years, but he could not take a decision about us, being afraid of comitment and financial pressure. we were young by then, early or mid 20s...
A. 29 August 2009: Grow up and dont be so SELFISH . If you dont love your husband then do the decent thing and leave him dont just USE him.... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is cheating with his employee
Q. I think that my boyfriend of nine years has been sleeping with one of his female employees. He has been driving her around to and from the workplace for over a year. I can see that they have become close. I have told him that i cannot cope with this ...
A. 29 August 2009: There is no doubt that this RAT is cheating on you. Do yourself a big favour and leave him. There are lots of good men out there who will not do the dirt on you. I believe the saying once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat... (read in full...)
Husband gave me an ultimatium to either move with him or get out
Q. my husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have no family of my own, but he comes from a large family. His family is now back east and my children are here in the pacific northwest. Hes always disliked my kids, so its hard when he says ...
A. 29 August 2009: You and your daughter must leave this man as soon as you can. This man sounds like a MONSTER and he will only destroy your lives. You owe it to yourself and your daughter to be happy and you never will with this man. Good luck for the future.... (read in full...)
How do I forgive myself and let go of the past?
Q. i am 4 months pregnant and my babys daddy and i decided to take a break. not because of the baby, but because of the last 4 months we were together. 5 months ago i had family problems and all those bottled up emotions i took out on him. after i ...
A. 29 August 2009: Forgiving takes time darling but your well on the way.Try not going back and just look forward to the future. Best of luck with the baby... (read in full...)
The lying has stopped... or has it?
Q. My husband and I have been married now for over 8 years and in that entire time, we have been fighting over the same thing: trust. He has broken that trust to the point that it can never be repaired. For the rest of my life, I will never trust him ...
A. 28 August 2009: I dont think you could ever be truly happy again with this man. Once that special trust that a loving couple have is gone then there is very little left. You owe it to yourself and the children to be happy. You are still a very young woman and life ... (read in full...)
Now he wants to go out with friends by himself, am I right to be suspicious?
Q. my husband and i have been together for 8 years now. we have always been the kind of couple that went out to social events together, whether it was with his friends/family or mine. in the last year he has not joined me to most social events that ...
A. 28 August 2009: I SMELL A RAT. I think your husband is up to no good. Believe me i know about this shit and all the signs are there. Trust your gut fellings on this it is seldom wrong.I hope i am wrong for your sake but it does not look good... (read in full...)
Do happily married people have affairs? is this possible?
Q. Do "happily married" people have affairs? I have a guy friend who has told me that he is in love with me and wants to have a relationship with me, but that he would never leave his wife. I've refused because I think having affairs is one of the ...
A. 28 August 2009: He is bullshiting you .This RAT wants to use you a few times and then dump you like a hot cake. Dont fall for his crap that he loves you .He just wants sex from you plain and simple... (read in full...)
Why would a woman who's recently changed her appearance start going out all the time with friends instead of being at home with family?
Q. Why would a married woman of 10 years loose alot of weight and start staying out with her friends rather than come home to her family. She says she hasn't done anything wrong, but in her words "she looks so good she just wants to go out with her ...
A. 27 August 2009: I smell a RAT your wife is having an AFAIR. Believe me i know the signs from personal experience.What you got to do is follow her the next time she goes out with the(girls).No married woman looses weight for her girlfriends its either for her ... (read in full...)
I found out she cheated on me a year ago!
Q. My partner and I have been together for four and a half years. Since the middle of our sophomore year of college. We started at the same graduate school last year and I'm planning on finishing with my Master's in Education while she wants to go on ...
A. 27 August 2009: Count yourself (LUCKY) that you are not married to this cheater.I have just discovered that my wife of over twenty years have recently had an affair and it has destroyed our family.The reason i say you are lucky is that you now have a chance to walk ... (read in full...)
Why does a wife need to know every detail of her husband's affair?
Q. Why does the wife need to hear every detail of the affair to be able to move on. Husband has said, yes he had an affair and it's over now, why isn't that enough for the wife. Your opinion please....
A. 24 August 2009: Your wife is heartbroken and she needs to know all the details to help her cope. If you continue to keep all the sleazy details a secreat between you and the orther woman she will find it much harder to try and forgive you.Some people need to know ... (read in full...)
Do I contact the married man I had an affair with or leave it?
Q. Ok here goes,im worried about asking this question to my friends as im frightened of there reaction. Three years ago i had an affair with a married man,i was married too and not long given birth,my husband was an alcoholic,i was suffering with pos...
A. 20 August 2009: Leave that man alone he was never yours in the first place. He is a married man with children so think of them and not just YOURSELF.... (read in full...)
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