He's called me his ex's name twice, is he really over her?
Q. Hello, I would like it if someone could help me out here. Okay, In 2 weeks, I would have been going out with my bf for a year:) We are both each others 2nd serious relationship. his ex, made him miserable - always cheated on him and broke ...
A. 29 August 2011: Im not a huge expert on stuff like this but i have done the same thing your boyfriend has in the past. since his ex left such a negative impression on him she MIGHT be somewhat on his mind alot (which would explane the mix up with your name). That ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem interested in talking to me. Am I wasting my time with him?
Q. So I've been talking to this boy on and off for three years now. I like him now more than I have before, but I feel like the roles have changed. Before, he did anything he could to try and be with me. I sort of pushed it off, and now, he's doing the ...
A. 29 August 2011: From the sounds of things i would say that he might have been upset that you never showed alot of interest in him before. During one of the periods where you guys werent talking alot he might have told himself (knowingly or not) to forget about you ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?
Q. Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....
A. 29 August 2011: The only thing with your parents i can think of is to sit with them and tell them how much the arguing is bothering you, because if its to the point where it affects your sleeping habbits and your school then it is a very big deal. As for the girl... (read in full...)
Is it normal for best friends to fight constantly?
Q. I have this friend .. actually she is like my best friend .. we do everything together .. she is really the only person i hang out with .. every weekend we have sleepovers, and everyday we hang out, but when it comes to school, we don't say a word ...
A. 29 August 2011: For girls i would THINK yes it is normal for you to fight but im just going off what has happend to my sister and my friends. Also I too fight with my best friend very often but we always end up forgetting about it. I would stay her friend because ... (read in full...)
Guys: Are you more or less attracted to a girl when you've seen her without makeup?
Q. guys, are you more attracted to a girl after seeing her without makeup? perhaps less? I'm just curious to know what guys think on this topic. ...
A. 17 August 2011: Every single Girlfriend that Ive had, and have seen without make up looks more beautiful than any time I have seen them WITH make up on. Its like seeing the real them. I dont know if its just me but I DO love seeing my Girlfriends with out make up.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to make a move?
Q. How can i get him to make a move? I'm a 15 year old girl.I know this guy (he's 16) who my friends introduced me to and they think we're perfect for eachother, he's told his friends he likes me and he wants to ask me to his prom. Ive hung out with...
A. 17 August 2011: Minus a few details, the same exact situation happend to me in one of my classes last year. All the girls in the class would always ask me when i was going to ask her out, i mainly held off because i was nervious and wanted to get to know her better ... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out if I'm shy?
Q. ok so I have never asked a girl out before and I have dated around 10 girls since i was in middle school and until now that i recently graduated high school.. some relationships were not serious and we were just fooling around i have not dated a ...
A. 17 August 2011: Its super easy dude! The main thing you have to do is forget about being nervious and unsure, just be confident.
People go on dates all the time its really more of a casual thing now. As for actually doing the asking out part, just again, be conf... (read in full...)
Her mom found me hiding in her closet and now the family doesn't like me! Help me make it right!
Q. my girlfriends parents, i WAS on good terms with her but with the past events with my gf, i think she really dislikes me. the reason: i went to my girlfriends house without her parents knowing,and i swear all we did was kiss on the lips and tal...
A. 17 August 2011: This is the thing about teen dating that sucks the most,I know exactly how you feel. My past two relationships have been like this and it SUCKS, all i can think of is to talk her parents and gradually get their trust by doing so repeatedly. It may ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to tell white lies?
Q. Hi! Any help would be greatly appreciated! Is it normal for guys to tell white lies? I keep catching my bf telling me little white lies. It actually bothers me, but I can learn to accept it if all/most guys tend to be like this. Examp...
A. 15 August 2011: I wouldnt worry about it becasue the average person tells 3 lies per 10 minutes of conversation, could be small down saying something was a different color or it could be big like saying something didnt even happen. Either way ppl do lie ALOT. He ... (read in full...)
Younger sister can get guys my age but I'm too shy.
Q. This is going to sound really selfish but I get really annoyed by it. I have a younger sister who is forever flirting with all of the lads in my year including my friends who are boys and my crush which really gets to me. She is 3 years younger than ...
A. 15 August 2011: I have realized that confidence is pritty much the key to just about everything in life. So thats it just be confident and dont think that you HAVE to get a boyfriend or even go out on a date. Go with what feels right. Also just try casual flirting ... (read in full...)
How can I fit in ? will things be different this time ? Am I going to be able to catch up
Q. Hey. Well basically I'll try and keep this short, after the summer holidays it has been decided that i am now going to go to a new high school. I've missed about 6 months of my education and am extremely behind and I've been being home tutored ...
A. 15 August 2011: Confidence is the key... and i wouldnt throw friends out the window because they are an important part of life and can help you feel good about yourself. All you have to do is be cofident and dont give a crap what ppl think of you, you live life for ... (read in full...)
What signals is this girl sending me?
Q. I am now seperated from my wife of 15 years and trying to learn how to date and read the signals again. I am in my mid forties. There is a girl i know at the gym (mid thirties) who I get on very well with. We have had kisses and cuddles in the p...
A. 15 August 2011: Well i dont have much experience with this kinda thing but i would say that she might feel bad for breaking up you and your wife (if thats what happend) and might not know what to think, do, or even how to feel and chances are she does want to date ... (read in full...)
Why do creeps ask girls if they are virgins?
Q. Why do creepy guys and perverts ask teenage girls "Are you a virgin"?...
A. 15 August 2011: I think guys and girls see this topic in a different light... i myself only ask girls im close to not just ones i talk to every now and then... also i think girls see sex as more emotional which makes it a more sensitive matter with them... guys on ... (read in full...)
How do guys fancy a girl who they don't know much about?
Q. I'm interested to know how guys can fancy a girl without knowing much about her or her interests. I know there's physical attraction, but i'm talking about them actually being attracted and fancying you as a person... Because a few of the guys ...
A. 6 June 2011: I think its how the male mind works really. Men as a whole consentrate on the more physical side anyway And you dont really even have to talk about yourself to get to know someone, just knowing their outlook on life or opinions on certian subjects ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't notice things about me anymore. Is this an issue?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and its turning into a serious relationship. We both love each others company and have great chemistry. But I've lately noticed that he no longer compliments me like he used to. I've bo...
A. 5 June 2011: It could be one of two things, or even both. He may feel that you know that he thinks your beatuiful and what not so he probably thinks he doesnt have to say it. He could also no want to feel like a broken record saying it over and over again. Thats ... (read in full...)
I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!
Q. I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). ...
A. 31 May 2011: He might think you just want to be friends instead and thats why he hasnt continued to communicate at the rate that he had before, Because like you said it was just normal conversations. So im with the others, go for it tell him you like him. But ... (read in full...)
23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...
Q. A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact w...
A. 31 May 2011: I would make it a point to go beond the friendly contact with the opposite sex,you might end up finding someone. Basicly do that chigirl said and you will do fine. I truely hope for the best and that you end up happy. Also if all else fails try ... (read in full...)
Should I meet him or shouldn’t I?
Q. I used to like to someone in the school and we used to look at each other very often, anyway the school was over we didn’t see each other since then. Anyway, I found him on facebook and I added him and he didnt recognize who I really was ! then I ...
A. 31 May 2011: well if its public messages or something he might be doing it to act funny for friends and or might not to know where to draw the line with joking. i would meet him and not worry about the things he said. if he turns out to be like that in person i ... (read in full...)
How can I learn how to kiss, especially how to neck?
Q. I am not a good kisser. I admit that. I don't really know what I am doing. Women I have been with have either told me that outright or in indirect fashion by saying things like "I felt you were pulling away" or "I felt you just gave me a half-kis...
A. 31 May 2011: well im only 16 but i would just forget that you "suck at kissing" and consentrate on the kiss itself. Your pritty much settng yourself up for failure when you tell yourself you suck at it. For example when im really nervious about something i tell ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend, but I think I love him. Should I tell him?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. I know he likes me back because we always hug and everything. I don't wanna tell him cause I think it will ruin our friendship and I don't wanna lose that but I can't stop thinking about him. Should I tell him I love ...
A. 31 May 2011: I would just let off hints like complimenting his apperance, for example saying he looks cute or good today. his reaction should tell you what hes thinking. He might feel the same way. You just have to put yourself on the spot and hope for the best ... (read in full...)
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