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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Because they are hoping you will say yes and then decide how to change that. They are showing that they are not interested in YOU, but in your possible virginity.
Call creeps on their BS. One of my favorite "disarming" responses is "Why do you need to know?". I have had some hiliarious responses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): Because they are creeps? I don't think so. Many guys have never had a virgin and some of them would very much like to the first. Others don't want anything to do with a virgin, because of lack of experience or the possible clingyness. There is a guy here in my city (Washington. DC) who is looking for a virgin. He is spending almost 10 grand to find a virgin.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Because they are creeps and rude? Tell the girls not to answer and that it's none of their business to ask such questions.
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reader, BJacobs +, writes (15 August 2011):
 I think guys and girls see this topic in a different light... i myself only ask girls im close to not just ones i talk to every now and then... also i think girls see sex as more emotional which makes it a more sensitive matter with them... guys on the other hand see it as just a physical thing which makes it more of a casual matter either way as long as they are not trying to "claim" you as Odds said i believe that it would be fine to answer and i wouldn think they are creepy at all... it could also be to see what kind of a person you are because i know tons of girls that have sex with loads of guys and i know others that dont so dont automatically assume that they just want to get inside our pants it could be just to get to know you better
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (15 August 2011):
they ask because they want to have sex with a virgin as it is probably tighter or whatever reasons men think
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reader, Odds +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Some guys like the idea of claiming a virgin; others don't want that responsibility (or the clinging associated with it), and avoid it. Non-creepy guys ask it too (to girls close to their own age); if they don't ask older women, it's because they assume any girl above 20 is probably not a virgin.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Because they are creepy and perverted!
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reader, msnewbeginning +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Most men like to be a girl's first. The first time opening up someone is a pleasure for men.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (15 August 2011):
Whats creepy about it. The answer is clear-yes or no. When someone is interested in you then he wants to know you or about you. That is such a person question, unless your ashamed to answer. Ask him is he a virgin, but if youre in or planning on being in a relationship then your past is his busin. Everyone has the right to worry about there health..if you slept with 100 guy than he may want to seek out a new female to get to know.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 August 2011):
 Because they are creeps.
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