I am not sure whether my friend likes me
Q. I have a friend who I am crushing on and I have a feeling she might like me. She always calls me cute and laughs at my jokes, and every time she comes over to look at my work [at uni], she'll either put her hands on my shoulders, play with my hair, ...
A. 31 May 2013: She only seems to do it to me as if I'm 'special' or something. All I can say is that I wouldn't expect a girl to do those things to her brother.... (read in full...)
Are most young guys in relationships really committed to their girlfriends nowadays?
Q. Quite a few close male friends I know in relationships don't actually seem to care about their girlfriends all that much. Or they do, but they see her as a temporary thing, and merely a girl of convenience for sex and companionship rather than ...
A. 30 May 2013: I am a 20 year old guy at uni and would never cheat on a girlfriend or mess her around. Trust me, we are out there :). Having said that, my best friend went to uni with his girlfriend and even shared a house with her; to me, that's too much, and ... (read in full...)
My crush just split with her cheating boyfriend. Should I make my move?
Q. I am a 19 year old guy with a crush on my female friend. We have always jokingly flirted but I've started to really like her. She missed a week of uni and when she came back she told me that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for four months and ...
A. 16 April 2013: It isn't my plan to 'get in there' while I can, I just genuinely like her and am scared of losing her to someone else. ... (read in full...)
Were her remarks a harmless joke? Or a hint that she likes me? Because I really like her.
Q. A harmless joke or a hint that she likes me? Was a bit shocked when I bought my new friends [two girls] at uni, a cute little dessert back from the canteen, for one of them to say 'aw, you're so sweet' and then 'I think I love you, I'm not even jok...
A. 14 April 2013: I get the impression she finds me sweet and cheesy, so makes these constant jokes. I guess I just need to make a gesture rather than think about it too much... (read in full...)
Is my uni mate interested in me or just joking around?
Q. I am getting mixed signals from a uni mate. We are both 19 and she is in an on and off relationship with a lad I have never met. She always says 'I wish you were my boyfriend' and 'aww, you're so cute', mainly because I can be a bit shy and ...
A. 23 March 2013: It's just difficult with a classmate as it's difficult to suddenly ask them out, and doing it bluntly would make things awkward if she wasn't interested. I'll continue to jokily flirt back but then I feel I won't get any clearer signals. She's just ... (read in full...)
I left a letter for a rep confessing my feelings, but the wrong rep responded!
Q. I am 19 and male, and recently had a family holiday to Spain. As everyone does, I felt very romantic and fuzzy on holiday, and fell for our holiday rep, who was a cute, adorable blonde girl a couple of years older. I'll codename her Katie. I was ...
A. 7 August 2012: My guess was that Katie got a little shy and freaked out, so asked her friend to look me up. Either that or Katie did not have a Facebook account so suggested her friend look me up. Will keep rep number two as a friend and see if a reply comes ... (read in full...)
Can you be a FWB with an Ex?
Q. I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ...
A. 2 July 2011: We split 4 months ago and are now very open friends. We're also both bisexual and know we want to experiment with people. Dunno, just feel it would work :)... (read in full...)
Could he be bisexual?
Q. I'm 18, male and bisexual and really into a guy at school. I don't see it as being judgmental but I just get the impression he's bi too. He's really metro, into fashion and everything, dresses quite smartly and coolly, with the fringe swept to one ...
A. 1 July 2011: At our school prom yesterday, this guy patted me on the shoulder a few times and during the black eyed peas song, grabbed my waist from behind and danced with me for a while and then pointed at me during the line 'I owe it all to you'. It wasn't ... (read in full...)
Can you be a FWB with an Ex?
Q. I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ...
A. 28 June 2011: It was a mutual breakup, realizing we were both just friends really. The thing is, I'm fed up of all the serious and deep thinking. Yes, it might bring back a few thoughts, but we get on like we used to, just mates who are very open with each other. ... (read in full...)
Girl I am dating drives me crazy by calling everyone "honey", "darling" and "baby"!!
Q. this may sound stupid but i cant help it that it is driving me crazy. this girl i am dating for 5 months is really getting to me because she calls people she knows casually things like "baby", "honey", "sweetheart", "love" and "darling"!! i'm ...
A. 22 June 2011: I can see why you don't like it. But the fact that she calls everyone these names is better than her saying it to one particular guy; you know it means nothing. I think you're worried about the guys feeling lucky when she uses these names. Just tell ... (read in full...)
Why do I crave attention?
Q. I crave attention. Not in a relationship way, just generally in life and it gets in the way of doing normal things sometimes... Generally when I think people that crave attention, I think someone who hasn't been loved or a loner, I am neither,...
A. 9 June 2011: I don't think being an attention seeker is all that bad a thing. You are just desperate to be loved and appreciated, which is great, it's better than hiding yourself away. You're like me, I'm quiet and depressed one minute, which I quite like, and ... (read in full...)
I gave her my all, but was it enough?
Q. I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't p...
A. 9 June 2011: You're both young and it's rare for teenage relationships to last all that long, but don't let that put you off. You did nothing wrong, maybe it was just a bit too much for her, a little bit too serious. Don't let it get you down though, because ... (read in full...)
What does this dream mean please?
Q. What do you think this means? i was so in love:)? All my life every guy that I get involve with breaks my heart and leaves me. But am a nice girl with a good heart. Loyal, honest, caring, loving. Friendly, cheerful. My recent ex bf ch...
A. 9 June 2011: You just wanted to prove to everyone, including your ex, that you don't need him and have the capability to be happy. This dream proves that you care, and are hurt by him. Life doesn't have to be about tit for tat, though. No point in having the ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel as though I have to force myself into liking someone? I feel like I get bored very quickly!
Q. hi guys im 18 and started my first year of college after a year out of education in september. i met a girl but she had a bouyfriend and i really liked her she was all i could think about but then those feelings went away after about 3/4 months...
A. 9 June 2011: Would you rather be tied down to one single girl for all eternity? Like me, you're young and you've got all the time in the world to play around. You don't need to fall in love yet, just enjoy the freedom and the excitement of not knowing what's ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, am I bisexual?
Q. I'm 18, and find myself attracted to both boys and girls my own age. I have been in a serious relationship with a girl in my year at college, and now have my eyes set on another girl. But I check out guys as well. I masturbate over them and ...
A. 9 June 2011: Yeah, I'm coming to the decision that I am probably bisexual. I am not ashamed of it but do not plan to show off about it either. I don't want to make friendships with males uncomfortable but will definitely come clean if ever I have to. I'm a bit ... (read in full...)
I'm really fond of her. How do I go about this without losing our friendship?
Q. I am 18 and interested in a girl who has joined our friendship group [the same age]. She is quite flirty, especially the second time we all went out together, where she was keen to dance get quite close. Nothing has happened, although I pecked her ...
A. 4 June 2011: This is good advice. I fear the longer I leave it I will just read into it and into it and kinda spoil it, I might just casually make a move next week at the club. That way, if she says no, we can carry on as friends more easily. Leaving it too long ... (read in full...)
Pros and cons of being friends with an ex?
Q. What are the pros and cons of being friends with an ex? Im trying to decide what i should do with my first love now that she is my ex. It is hard to decide because the reason we broke up is because she started liking someone else and decided to date ...
A. 2 June 2011: I tried it, boy it was hard. You will always have some feelings left for her, no matter how much you kid yourself. It'll be fine at first, but when she starts kissing and sleeping with other guys, it'll be painful. The best thing to do is have a big ... (read in full...)
Is revenge worthwhile or just a waste of time?
Q. I would like to know what you think about this question.. Is revenge really worth anything, or it is just a waste of time? ...
A. 18 May 2011: The more you plan and scheme, the more pathetic it makes you. If someone has hurt you, you need to prove you can move on easily, even if you feel worthless at first. If you try to get back at them, they'll love he fact that you're wasting your time ... (read in full...)
What type of girl appeals more to men?
Q. This a question I have wondered for a while, and men would probably find answering this one easier, but what type of girl do guys usually go for? I know it's personality that counts and I would never change how I looked to please someone else, bu...
A. 18 May 2011: I find modesty and shyness quite attractive. And no, the women in the adverts are totally not our ideogical woman, its a total myth! I like curves and softness, a nice smile, but not the heavy make up and fake hair. I don't have a specific type, I ... (read in full...)
She lied about what happened at a party when she was drunk
Q. I'm nearly 18. Months ago, my girlfriend [just turned 18] went to a house party with some friends, and I couldnt go because I had work the next day. I got a number of drunken texts from her the next day which were sent during the night, one telling ...
A. 17 May 2011: Happy to say I am over this girl. Still hate what happened but no point in bringing it up ever again. Time to move on :D Thanks everyone ... (read in full...)
I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you...
Q. I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or ...
A. 15 April 2011: So are you friends right now? All guys are different. With my first girlfriend I was very very shy and daren't even look her in the eye. I was more flirty and bubbly with girls I was completely platonic with. But other guys are different. It s... (read in full...)
Do guys respect virgins or non experienced girls?
Q. Is it true that guys actually respect girls who have never had sex or if they haven't done much with a guy? I don't want to sound rude, but i don't believe this. I hear guys talk and surely if some girls are rude about the girls who are virgins, ...
A. 15 April 2011: Not all guys want a slutty girl with loads of experience. I find shy, private and modest girls cute and very attractive. ... (read in full...)
She lied about what happened at a party when she was drunk
Q. I'm nearly 18. Months ago, my girlfriend [just turned 18] went to a house party with some friends, and I couldnt go because I had work the next day. I got a number of drunken texts from her the next day which were sent during the night, one telling ...
A. 15 April 2011: I do still like her. In fact, I love her. The second shot at the relationship lasted months, but yeah, I could have made more effort. I put up a shield not wanting to weaken to her, feeling as if she would be laughing at me inside for letting her ... (read in full...)
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