Was my wife the victim of sexual assualt?
Q. Was my wife a likely victim of sexual assault or rape? Before we got together when she was 18 years old she attended a 4th of July party at which she played a drinking game with somef other college students and got so drunk she blacked out. She ...
A. 18 September 2007: It sounds similar to what happened to me. I have to say that its great she feels she can trust enough to tell you. Be supportive and loving. But pushing the idea she was assulted might not be a good idea. It was hard for me to come terms with it but ... (read in full...)
I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!
Q. i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...
A. 10 September 2007: A relationship with her is inapropraite, to put it bluntly. But now that you've recognize these feelings you need to watch yourself... don't be like Michael Jackson (allegedly). You can't get your childhood back by taking away theres. Don't be ... (read in full...)
We were together 2 years and he decided he didnt want us anymore.
Q. My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect ...
A. 9 September 2007: This is one thing I haven't been through because I've never made it that deep into a relationshp. But thus far, you not calling him and letting things settle is a great choice. This is the best decision anyone can make so be happy that you're making ... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend's "Ohhhhhh" face and it was really gross...
Q. I saw my boyfriend's O face and it was really gross.. I was on top and I had the blanket over me cuz it was really cold and I took it off just in time when my boyfriend was getting off, cuz he was making this awful face, I have never seen before. ...
A. 9 September 2007: All my boyfriend's Ooohhh faces are terrible. Actually, I have to try not to laugh sometimes. They suck don't they, some old boyfriend's oh faces totally make me sick and are burned into my memory. I resorted to not looking at them when they came ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity before university with a good friend or should I wait and try to find someone there?
Q. hiya. I am going to university in a couple of weeks time and dont know what i should do. Should i lose my virginity before university with a good friend or someone i like, or should i wait and try to find someone at university? Any advice would be ...
A. 9 September 2007: And also, don't listen to people that say you'll regret not being able to give it to someone you love. I fell in love a couple years later and we had both lost our virginities already. We don't live in the 1800's anymore, we have birth control. Its ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity before university with a good friend or should I wait and try to find someone there?
Q. hiya. I am going to university in a couple of weeks time and dont know what i should do. Should i lose my virginity before university with a good friend or someone i like, or should i wait and try to find someone at university? Any advice would be ...
A. 9 September 2007: I lost my virginity to a friend. It was in school though he was visiting me. It was great! I never wanted to date him and he was very nice before during and after the whole situatin. We're still friends. Anyway, I've heard so many girls were it was ... (read in full...)
I've been chatting with a much older woman via a dating site. Should we meet?
Q. Hello, I'm a 17 year old guy and have been chatting with a 41 year old woman via a dating site for a month or 2... We have recently swapped mobile numbers and we have started chatting regularly on MSN about causal day to day things... I reall...
A. 9 September 2007: The age difference is HUGE. You're still really young, do you still live with your family? If so, they might not approve and you can get yourself in serious trouble with them. Plus, why would someone that old have romantic interests for someone so ... (read in full...)
Is my friend to blame for my relationship ending?
Q. hiya!!! my question isnt relli tht big its just sum advice i need!!!! i av bin goin owt wiv this boy for like 5 weeks nd he always makes a joke of finishin me then afta a couple of mins or secs he cums up 2 me gives me a love nd says he was only...
A. 9 September 2007: Don't blame your friend. I'm sure you're very pretty thats why everyone keeps teasing you about who you like. Its sad that when these break-ups happen even if you're 12 or whatever age. But the truth is you are young so you have plenty of time to ... (read in full...)
My 13 yr old son is looking at porn. He doesn't know I know, but should I talk to him?
Q. My 13 year old son is looking at porn, he doesn't know I know but should I talk to him? What should I do?...
A. 8 September 2007: No and leave him alone. You'll embarass the shit out of him. The only time you talk to him is if he gets a virus on the computer from it. Other than that let him explore his sexuality in peace.... (read in full...)
26 year old virgin... Please help me!
Q. hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to ...
A. 8 September 2007: will dildos aren't the answer to pleasuring yourself. More like a vibrator because you can only feel 3 in. into your vagina and only 10-20% of women have vaginal orgasms. So first of all learn how to orgams on your own with your hands watch a video ... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in him and he keeps harassing me! What can I do?
Q. He won't take no for an answer. I met a new man about 3 weeks ago. He seemed quite keen and interested in me so I gave him my number as I thought we could talk and get to know each other better. I told him I wanted to take things slowly and ...
A. 7 September 2007: He sees a meal ticket!! I've had two stalkers and one guy that was so pushy I had to threaten him with a restraining order and another where I had to get a restraining order. See a pattern? If your 40 now look back on your life and see if you a ... (read in full...)
He's never cheated on me but when he left his phone at my house there were texts on it from another girl!!!
Q. hi... I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. He tells me he has never cheated on any of his ex's, and I believe him. Recently I've been on holiday for 3 weeks, when I got back he told me he'd really missed me and been so bored while I was ...
A. 6 September 2007: I honestly can't tell you how to handle this. I'm a hot head so what I would do which would be really WRONG is text back to meet her somewhere and wear a certain color then I'd go there and confront her with my boyfriend in tow. But this is terrible ... (read in full...)
My wife is masturbating more these days. Why?
Q. I noticed that my wife is masturbating a lot as of late. She does it in the shower and puts the shower head on high and holds it near herself. I walked in on her once and we talked about what I saw. At that time we were not having sex much. 2 ...
A. 6 September 2007: I've done the sleep masturbating thing by accident as well as my boyfriend. Actually, haha he woke me up during this sleep masturbating because the bed was shaking. This stuff is hilarious. But I understand you want to be a part of her sexual ... (read in full...)
My wife is masturbating more these days. Why?
Q. I noticed that my wife is masturbating a lot as of late. She does it in the shower and puts the shower head on high and holds it near herself. I walked in on her once and we talked about what I saw. At that time we were not having sex much. 2 ...
A. 6 September 2007: I've done the sleep masturbating thing by accident as well as my boyfriend. Actually, haha he woke me up during this sleep masturbating because the bed was shaking. This stuff is hilarious. But I understand you want to be a part of her sexual ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mother hates me!
Q. Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my act...
A. 6 September 2007: Luckily she lives in a sate that is very far... away for you guys in the uk she might as well be lving in paris, france and me in Liverpool. I don't go visit with him anymore and lately when he visits his family they still complain about total ... (read in full...)
It's like pulling teeth just to get my boyfriend to put his arm around me. What is going on?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I am a year older than him, but we are both teenagers, and are seniors in high school. The first year of our relationship was wonderful, and then, for some reason, after we hit our ...
A. 6 September 2007: This happened to me in my last realtionship. Exactly the same thing. Treating me like dirt in front of his friends never touching me in public. He even had the nerve to make me feel guilty for putting my hand on his leg in front of other people when ... (read in full...)
He's part of the popular group at school and i'm part of the geeky group. How can I let him know I like him?
Q. Hey all - At school there is guy I really like and he sent me messages that he liked me. All my mates said he liked me too - and I really liked him. Then he posted poems and stuff on his profile on Bebo and I was so hopeful it was for me. But ...
A. 6 September 2007: No one thought I was cute enough to date "the hottest guy in school". Well I walked straight to him and talked to him. I got to know him and he got to know me. We were close friends for six months when I flat out said "I like you I have a crush". ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mother hates me!
Q. Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my act...
A. 6 September 2007: Thank you so much for that. Its taken a lot of time but I have bit the bullet. At first, I didn't approach it properly and made my boyfriend talk to them for me. I wanted an apology for all the really nasty things said to me and they refused. At ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to treat our kids with respect?
Q. I am a mother of 3 children ages(2,4 and 7) and am going on our 4th one. My common-law and I's reltionship has been for 11 years but we have been staying with eachother for 8 years now. I am settled with what I have. He has been a great husband to ...
A. 6 September 2007: Taylor Chu recognizes the severity of the situation but is being unrealistic!
You're partner is abusive and dysfunctional, he can only change when he is away from you. Your childrens safety is in danger with this man. Don't rely on prayers ... (read in full...)
What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back?
Q. What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back. She tells me she loves me, but is seemingly incapable of the thoughtful intimacy that lets someone know you love them. She has her issues as I have mine. But ...
A. 6 September 2007: Well there is only so much you can do as a human being. You aren't a magician you can't make something out of nothing. If it isn't there and you're on the brink then take that last step. I had a boyfriend that said "I love you" and took it back. I ... (read in full...)
It is now week 3 and he has yet again began ignoring me and I really do not understand why or what his reasons are...
Q. Hi can anybody help? my ex and I broke up just over 2 weeks ago, I love him very much and am hurting greatly, all my attempts at making contact were ignored - the first week after we parted and I knew I had to let go, we began chatting online last ...
A. 6 September 2007: Its over. You don't owe him anything and you have no ties to him any more. He doesn't owe you anything and he has no ties with you anymore.
When someone initiates "I'm breaking up with you", that means "I am making the choice to move on without ... (read in full...)
I thought having a baby would get me off the council estate. My married lover is married and has money. I wanted that lifestyle.
Q. I'm 18 and I have been lying about being on the contaceptive injection. I have had a hard childhood on a council estate and I thought if I got pregnant to my older boss I would get a better life. I'm pregnant and he's staying with his wife that he ...
A. 6 September 2007: This happened to someone I knew. A child should never be had in these circumstances. I agree with the adoption if not abortion. You're child will have to share with you the life you hate having. Don't force an innocent child to live what you hate. ... (read in full...)
My ex was very manipulative but I get jealous when I see him getting on with his life. What's wrong with me?
Q. Please help! I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago and I was very relieved as he was a manipulative person with my life and what he thought I had to do professionaly speaking. We live close and have since talked a little and on July saw each ...
A. 6 September 2007: I've had abusive realtionshipships as well. And I had one boyfriend that was so good at manipulating people he might has well have been playing a guitar. And I have done the "getting back together but not sure" thing. The truth is you feel like yo... (read in full...)
How can I get him to treat our kids with respect?
Q. I am a mother of 3 children ages(2,4 and 7) and am going on our 4th one. My common-law and I's reltionship has been for 11 years but we have been staying with eachother for 8 years now. I am settled with what I have. He has been a great husband to ...
A. 6 September 2007: You're partner is abusive. The truth is he should never be drunk around the children. If you don't protect your children from this man they will hold this against you for the rest of their lives. I know you have been together for 11 years but if ... (read in full...)
My children don't approve of me dating younger women!
Q. I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...
A. 6 September 2007: Just because you paid for that you think they owe you something?? Maybe they can repay you by letting you act like a foolish old man. When you have children you are responsible for paying for their things not a girl just above 18. She isn't your d... (read in full...)
I insulted my girlfriend while drunk! How do I redeem myself?
Q. I recently sent a text message to my girlfriend that was taken out of context. She replied and I was drunk and said some really really mean things I wish I didn't say. I hurt her very badly. Is there anyway I can try to redeem myself? I do not want ...
A. 5 September 2007: Depending on her personality... But the sounds of it you probably can't. If it were me I'd try to get over it but it was eat away at me. And also if these things you said were disrespectful then you might not deserve her. She deserves to be ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 yr old guy and I cant stop masterbating???
Q. how do i get myself to stop masterbating? im 15 years old and im a guy i have problem. ive been masterbating for a long time. i mean a real long time about 3 years and some months. i cant stop idk know y i jus cant help like when i try to control ...
A. 5 September 2007: Haha You'll get over it. I did it 5 times in one day before. SEX with real people and not your hand gets interesting you'll not want to masturbate so much.... (read in full...)
I hate my husband's best female friend!!
Q. Let me just start by saying this. I HATE HATE HATE hubby's best female friend! Yes, she is younger, thinner and female, but that is NOT the reason I hate her so much. She has been friends with my hubby for over 20 years and she is NEEDY! It ...
A. 5 September 2007: You're jealous. I'm that close with all my guy friends and I would NEVER EVER destroy their relationships. I have no romantic feelings for them. 2-3 Emails a day YEAH a bit needy but just ask her if she is lonely lately or depressed find out why she ... (read in full...)
I'd do anything to have him! Help me!
Q. Hey, I'm 15 and I always seem to like the type of guys who would never like me.Grrr. See, I'm the shy girl. Artsy, dreamy and quiet {until I know you] He's an athletic, 17, and uhm...hot. He's in my gym class and I just take a look at him and l...
A. 5 September 2007: When I was your age (I'm now 22) I had so many crushes where I imagined the guy to be "just so perfect!!". haha well its alright to have those just realize you're idealizing. You're so young that I say GO FOR IT! Even if he is a player its a lesson ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents that I'm bi?
Q. Hi im sixteen and im bi. Should I tell my parents? Or should I just keep it a secret for as long as i can? I really dont know what to do, my parents are very religious and would blame my friends (one of my friends is the reason why im bi ;) ) but ...
A. 5 September 2007: I am bi as well and realized it when I was 15. I am 22 now and my parents still do not know. It due to the fact I do not beleive my sexual encounters are my parents business. However, when I am in a long term relationship with a woman I will let ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mom accept the age difference between me and my girlfriend?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do ...
A. 5 September 2007: You can't do anything your mother is right. Trust me when you get older and if you have a 16 year old daughter the LAST thing you will want is a 25 year old man taking advantage of her. As grown as you feel you are being taken advantage of. Th... (read in full...)
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