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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey, I'm 15 and I always seem to like the type of guys who would never like me.Grrr.See, I'm the shy girl. Artsy, dreamy and quiet {until I know you]He's an athletic, 17, and uhm...hot.He's in my gym class and I just take a look at him and like..die! HahaI want him soo bad, what should I do?Also...I feel like his friends are the "player" type, even though I'm sure he's not. So, I guess I'm also afraid that his friends won't like me? I dont know.I'm sorry to be all whiny, other people have bigger problems. But like, I'd do anything to have him.! He's perfect in everyway..except that I bet he doesn't even kno who I am. :[[I don't know, sometimes I wish I was like the other BITCHY girls in my grade, cause at least i'd get em.Ha.Help me?? Much appreciated.
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reader, AylaJ +, writes (5 September 2007):
When I was your age (I'm now 22) I had so many crushes where I imagined the guy to be "just so perfect!!". haha well its alright to have those just realize you're idealizing. You're so young that I say GO FOR IT! Even if he is a player its a lesson learned, even if he rejects you I PROMISE you you'll laugh about it later in life.You have NOTHING TO LOSE! How fun is that!? I got the hottest guy in my high school even though my friends thought he might be out of my league. We went out he cheated on me and I laugh about it. I actually still bump into him and give him a hug. WHO CARES! HAVE FUN ;)
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