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writes:Hey all - At school there is guy I really like and he sent me messages that he liked me. All my mates said he liked me too - and I really liked him. Then he posted poems and stuff on his profile on Bebo and I was so hopeful it was for me. But then I realized it could be for anybody and it's depressing knowing the guy I've liked for ages could fancy somebody else.I would really like to let him know I like him without actually telling him - so what subliminal messages could I send him?And also, he's part of the popular gang in school and I'm part of the geeky group and I know he wouldn't want me to cramp his style so I don't think I have much chance of ever going out with him. Please give me some advice. It's so horrible fancying him for so long with no hope of ever going out with him.Thanks. =]
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reader, AylaJ  +, writes (6 September 2007):
No one thought I was cute enough to date "the hottest guy in school". Well I walked straight to him and talked to him. I got to know him and he got to know me. We were close friends for six months when I flat out said "I like you I have a crush". The next day we never mentioned it to eachother and I thought it meant he wasn't interested so I just continued to be his friend. Well 6 months after that he asked me out. Going out with the guy everyone wants brings out nastiness in people so watch yourself with that.Its definitly possible. I mean get to know him first let him see you're awsome personality then go for it. Thats the only real way to have a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): If u want to get him to notice that u like him then when u pass him in the hall way glance over at him, but don't stare and if u'd like u can even give a little smile! hope this helps a little. ^..^
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): I don'think you should see his poems and such as a joke. I got one suggestion for you: Get some confidence. Geeky group? So what! If he likes you it should'nt matter to him. Why don't you just start to make yourself noticed? It's a good old movie drama you got going on here. Make it have a happy ending.^^ ( There may be a huge chance that you can't get to date him. But be aware that even if there's only 0.00000001% chance that he likes you, there's 100% chance that you won't get him if you don't get the courage to tell him how you feel. Let there be love XD)From: The li'l helper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): I hate to say this but I was a geek in school, and a guy I liked in the very poopular group acted like he liked me, and all of my friends believed that but I knew it was a joke & the popular kids were just trying to get a good laugh at my expense. So you might be weary that this is what is happeneing.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (5 September 2007):
 Oh hunni, don't be so hard on yourself! Go for it, if he likes you, he will not reject you! And nonsense about the so-called 'geeky group' i'm assuming this term means unpopular - don't worry about it! Your probably an attractive young girl with a nice personality - there is no reason for this boy not to like you. It's what you are inside that counts! Just get him alone and ask him out...you got nothing to lose!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Hi There,
I know what you mean i have been through the same thing. What i would do is i would is just start to talk to him i would do it when hes not with his friends as he will feel pressered by them and will probably make you feel awful. When you see him alone just start to talk to him get to know him abit more and then eventually ask him out to the cinema or something or he might even ask you. Be confident around him but not to confident. Guys like that. I hope everything goes well for you. But if you just start to talk to him then he will realize that you are interested and then if hes interested he will then make the first move. Hope everything works out.
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