What to write?
Q. Im getting my man one of they giant cookies the heart shaped one What the heck can I get written on it lol He knows I love him I tell him all the time lol Looking for something funny but sexy or aw a dunno lol Sounds really daft I know but a d...
A. 25 June 2011: Do what RedAthena said, but instead leave slips of paper to the cookie, and the cookie can say "Meet me in the bedroom" ;)... (read in full...)
Any name ideas for a little boy?
Q. Hey! I am pregnant and we've recently found out it's a little boy... We're running out of ideas for baby names so... Could anyone help us coming up with some ideas? Thanks everyone!...
A. 19 June 2011: Jakob or Jaikob or just regular Jacob. I like adding weird variations to names :P Dominic Damian Adrien Allen Phillip Timothy Robert Peter Sean/Shawn/Shaun Alex Casey/Kasey Joshua Jeordan/Jordan Hope that helps :D... (read in full...)
How does ballet "objectify" women?
Q. How does ballet objectify women? I am a dancer, I've danced for 7 years, and i do ballet, jazz, tap, and pointe but have also done lyrical and jazz funk. I heard recently that ballet apperently "objectifies women". I have never felt this way, ever. ...
A. 17 June 2011: The outfits maybe? I'm not sure, I wouldn't let it bother you. Ballet and dancing is wonderful and good for the soul. Just enjoy your ballet and dancing, and ignore anything negative people say.
But like I said, in modern times outfits for wome... (read in full...)
My crush asked me out but the date was boring!
Q. So this guy i liked finally asked me out, i went and had an okay time, the thing is i was bored through most of it and i dont like him as much any more. i dont want to hurt the guy's feelings but i dont want to lead him on either. ...
A. 17 June 2011: It's better to break it off now and leave him with a little heartbreak then lead him on and then leave him with a lot of heartbreak and even anger or regret. Just tell him you think he's a good person, but you don't think he's the one for you, or ... (read in full...)
Can my therapy work if I'm in love with my therapist??
Q. Hey I was referred to a CBT therapist over a few months ago and I have developed a crush on him. It's really awkward cause I find myself worrying about the stuff I am saying to him - incase he doesn't like me as a person, even though I know re...
A. 12 June 2011: Well you might not want to but the best thing to do is switch therapists. Yes, you will have to get used to them, but it's better then putting your current therapist in a tight spot, because you are right, it is unprofessional. It could even get him ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss her but I'm too nervous
Q. Hi everyone I need some advice on a big problem for me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we've took our relationship to the next level. I've been wanting to kiss her for a while now and every time I go to do it I get super ...
A. 12 June 2011: When my boyfriend and I were first dating I was shy in the kissing department, and my BF respected that. Instead he would ask to kiss my cheek or hand, and eventually I gained up the courage to let him kiss me. So maybe just start somewhere not her ... (read in full...)
I love both girls more than my own life but I cant choose which one!
Q. Ive got a problem. im in love with 2 girls but cant choose between the two. the first girl is a friend of mine she has blond hair and blue eyes. shes so beautiful she radiates golden light like the sun and shes very nice. altho she isnt a virgin and ...
A. 12 June 2011: First cousins it is illegal in almost all the states of the USA. I do not know which state you are from so I did not know, but I DO know it is illegal here(Nevada)
Secondly I said nothing about the bible or god or religion, so don't accuse m... (read in full...)
What do you think of teachers dating former students?
Q. Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...
A. 11 June 2011: As long as you do not try to start one before she is 18 and before she graduates then it is fine. It is not illegal. Some people might see it as wrong, but I don't. I have a very attractive female teacher that might someday marry one of her students ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I don't want to be around anyone but my boyfriend?
Q. Hello Agony aunts and uncles! I have a quick question for you all. I have noticed lately that I don't have any real friends outside of school. The only person I do hang out with is my Boyfriend, and I'm fine with that because he's the only person ...
A. 11 June 2011: Thank you everyone but I don't think you are understanding me in all aspects. Before my boyfriend I DID NOT hang out with my friends except for school. Before my boyfriend I DID NOT go to movies, sleep over, grab a bite to eat or anything. Everyt... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I don't want to be around anyone but my boyfriend?
Q. Hello Agony aunts and uncles! I have a quick question for you all. I have noticed lately that I don't have any real friends outside of school. The only person I do hang out with is my Boyfriend, and I'm fine with that because he's the only person ...
A. 11 June 2011: That's not how it is, I was like this before my boyfriend. I never hung out with people before I had a boyfriend. Then I got a BF and he's the only person I hang out with. All my other friends I only hang out with at school, and it has always been ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to get erections for no reason?
Q. Is it normal for men (not teenage boys) to get and erection for no reason? My boyfriend gets them supposedly for no reason..he is in his late 20s. I am aware of morning wood and so on and so forth, but we will be doing something as simple as ...
A. 30 May 2011: I assume it's normal. A woman can't control when she gets wet sometimes, so a man can't always be able to control his erections. Now he could be watching TV but thinking about you, so don't be too worried ;)... (read in full...)
Are teachers prepared for their students to be attracted to them?
Q. Hi, Dear Cupid. Would like to know : Can teachers be JUST attracted by their students who are 16/17 or even 18 ? Are they trained to be prepared that some of their students can be attracted to them? Can teachers be attached to their s...
A. 22 May 2011: 1st question: Yes, they can, they can't help it, and they are not supposed to act on it. If they do that is a crime in most countries 2nd Question: Possibly. But if not Teachers are adults and should know to just ignore it and it is wrong to show... (read in full...)
Best friend going off into the military but wants me to have his baby. He already has a girlfriend!
Q. I am a senior in high and my best friend is going off to the military. He wants a baby... by me... However, he has a girlfriend. I don't know the girl and she doesn't know me. I do love this guy ever since I was a freshman though. I am also a virgin ...
A. 18 May 2011: Don't do it. Plain and simple. You are young, and I assume you have a career path you want to follow, which a baby will ruin. If the guy wants a baby so bad tell him to get his girlfriend pregnant, not you.... (read in full...)
My girl friend gave me a picture of her in her bra but I think its illegal because were minors
Q. i cant stress the fact that i didn't ask her to do this more. just randomly one day my girl friend send me via e-mail a picture of her from the waist up but no shirt and just a bra, i deleted it a day later because when i first got it i wasn't ...
A. 18 May 2011: In the state I live in if you are 16 and 17 it is legal to have sex with someone who is between the ages 16 and 19, and any sexual contact with someone under fourteen is considered statutory rape, consensual or not. Now as long as you are not d... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife wear makeup?
Q. Hello there, Can you please advise me on what to do with my wife who doesn't like make up at all. We have been married and everything is great except that I would love my wife to put on a bit of make up. She tried it one time and she looked g...
A. 16 May 2011: I think this is bad to influence your wife to wear makeup. That's like telling her you don't like how she looks and want her to wear a different, prettier face.
I suggest you let your wife do as she wants and not force her to wear makeup. ... (read in full...)
How can I feel better about my appearance?
Q. So I was recently talking to my boyfriend and I mentioned that I don't like myself and feel fat. He then gave me a big speech about how much he loves me and that I look beautiful and attractive, even though I am overweight(though not obese, I'm 5'2" ...
A. 13 May 2011: Thank you for all the advice and help! I do not want to be model like, I was just comparing to that. That's the last thing I want to be. I love having curves, and my bf likes them too haha. But I would just appreciate loosing a few pounds.
I do ... (read in full...)
I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?
Q. I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...
A. 13 May 2011: It's OK to find anyone of any age above 17 attractive/have crushes on them. It is not OK to try and date them/flirt with them/have any sort of relationship with them, except for friendship. But even then you should not be alone with anyone 18+ years ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend calling other girls perfect?
Q. I really don't know what to do :'( my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and pe...
A. 8 May 2011: If he is acting like this I would dump him. Does he think the relationship is open or casual? Do you talk out of school? Does he at all pay attention to you? You make it sound like he doesn't, which means he doesn't love you. I would break it off. ... (read in full...)
How can I fake being a virgin?
Q. hi there, my name is nancy and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can fake being a virgin. because i'm gettin married soon and it's a crime in my culture to have sex before marrige....
A. 8 May 2011: You shouldn't of had sex then, but otherwise just don't tell him. It's dishonest, but if you don't want to be caught then don't say you had sex. If your future/current husband notices your hymen is not intact tell him you might have broken it w... (read in full...)
How do I help my wife get over some bodily fluid aversions?
Q. I know this is a common problem for men and a lot of the advice / replies posted to this are, well, less than helpful - so let me start by saying something REALLY important: I love my wife. We’ve been together for over 12 years, have a fantastic ...
A. 7 May 2011: I think you have tried a great deal of things, and it is good you are so kind as to not want to force. And I feel a little bad for you, having to break the mood to clean up in the middle of doing the deed, though I'm glad you say your patient and ... (read in full...)
Need to find a good workout routine..any tips?
Q. Does anyone know where i can find a good workout routine? i go lift weights but i never follow a routine so i was wondering where i can find one or if u know of one can u please tell me :)...
A. 7 May 2011: Go to a local gym and see if you can get a free consultation from a gym instructor. It's hard to give you a routine if I don't know your body type and can see you in action. So seeing an instructor would be your best bet! I hope I helped Cheers!... (read in full...)
I love both girls more than my own life but I cant choose which one!
Q. Ive got a problem. im in love with 2 girls but cant choose between the two. the first girl is a friend of mine she has blond hair and blue eyes. shes so beautiful she radiates golden light like the sun and shes very nice. altho she isnt a virgin and ...
A. 7 May 2011: You already said it about the first one, she's not really your type. But the other is your cousin and it is illegal to be with her. I would go with the Blond girl because if you try to love your cousin not only can you get in trouble, but you can ... (read in full...)
Sore throat from kissing!!
Q. Why whenever i kiss someone, a day or so later... I start getting a bad throat and it really hurts! I'm just wondering if this is related to kissing someone and how i am getting a sore throat from it and can stop it happening..... Or will i get this ...
A. 7 May 2011: Stop kissing sick people? Other then that if you don't kiss someone on a daily bases and it happens a few days later always, then it may be you getting a sore throat. Otherwise maybe you have allergies and they are just acting up randomly, and yo... (read in full...)
I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?
Q. I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...
A. 7 May 2011: It's completely normal to feel that way. Heck I did and still do! But there is a fine line between being attracted to these older guys and acting upon it. So while your feelings are normal it is not right to try and get with these people not only ... (read in full...)
I did a favor for a friend and now my daughter may be pregnant. How do I handle this and not have my husband blame me?
Q. 8 months ago one of my dear friends came to me upset. saying that her new husband and her 18 yr old son were not getting along. Her son (M) and her husband were always fighting so M moved out and was staying with friends. Since M moved in with his...
A. 5 May 2011: Don't just blame M, it was the daughters choice to have sex, unprotected or not, too. She is just as much to blame if she gets pregnant. The only reason she wouldn't be to blame is if she was forced into having sex. So yes her future will be ruined, ... (read in full...)
I did a favor for a friend and now my daughter may be pregnant. How do I handle this and not have my husband blame me?
Q. 8 months ago one of my dear friends came to me upset. saying that her new husband and her 18 yr old son were not getting along. Her son (M) and her husband were always fighting so M moved out and was staying with friends. Since M moved in with his...
A. 5 May 2011: This is something I as a teenager would want my parent to do if they found out I was having sex and could possibly be pregnant(neither of those are true for me though) One day pull your daughter aside and ask her if she is having sex. If she says... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend's large penis will hurt me when I have sex for the first time!
Q. I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in ...
A. 4 May 2011: I'm not an expert on lube but I know they all are slightly different, so I suggest reading the directions.
As for size problem go slow, make sure he is gentle, and if it hurts too much tell him to stop. More foreplay might help, and if possible... (read in full...)
Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance
Q. i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?...
A. 3 May 2011: I'm gonna be a little forward with my answer, and by all means I could be wrong about why he asked you, but maybe he didn't see any infection or redness and thought you might be giving too many blow jobs to a significant other. But like I said, I ... (read in full...)
My son's friend stares at my breasts. Should I say something?
Q. I'm a 46 year old woman with a 17 year old son. Whenever his friend comes over he always stares at my boobs. No matter what i'm wearing or if im showing cleavage or not he still stares at them. Should I say something to him when he does this or ...
A. 2 May 2011: If I were you I would tell my son about it and ask him to tell him. If he says no and you're still uncomfortable I would call your sons parents(assuming they are respectable or he has parents) and ask them. If all else fails I wouldn't ignore it and ... (read in full...)
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