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writes:I am a senior in high and my best friend is going off to the military. He wants a baby... by me... However, he has a girlfriend. I don't know the girl and she doesn't know me. I do love this guy ever since I was a freshman though. I am also a virgin that promised to stay pure till marriage. I don't know what to do please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Thank yu guyz so much. He ended up not going to the miltary, you guys convinced me. I am now happy with my boyfriend. He makes me happy, if I would have ever had the kid, me and him would never be together. You guys are my angels, thank yu for helping me. GOD BLESS YOU GUYS!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 May 2011):
 you marry himthen have a babysorry it's insanity DO NOT do it.... no babies with friends going off to do military service. NO goodbye sex..."women need a reason to have sex but men just need a place"
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reader, Smileypants +, writes (18 May 2011):
 No!! Don't do it!! Be young, go to school, have fun. There's plenty of time to meet The One and have *his* baby after he puts a ring on your finger. Have your own career and your own life first! Don't just be this guys baby momma. What an odd thing to ask a young friend...? Why not the GF??
Anyways....NO. :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): what exactly are you questioning here? should you do it?? really? so let me get this straight. there's this guy who is about to leave for god knows how long, yet wants YOU to have his baby? so what's in it for you? you get to raise a kid all alone with a man who's seeing someone else? you'd be crazy.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Well, when he marries you then you can stick to your promise. Sorry, your best friend is asking you a ridiculous "favor". I would say that it drops his 'honorable' and 'quality' status points down to 'selfish' and 'desperate.' It's sad, really. Poor guy. I hope his military experience is safe and that he comes home healthy. But getting pregnant by him, cheating on his girlfriend? That all sounds very sad and pathetic. I hope you have bigger things planned for your life?
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reader, ArtsyGirl +, writes (18 May 2011):
Don't do it. Plain and simple. You are young, and I assume you have a career path you want to follow, which a baby will ruin.If the guy wants a baby so bad tell him to get his girlfriend pregnant, not you.
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