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anonymous
writes: Right - I'm 18 and I have such small boobs - a 34A - but even some bras seem loose.It always really upsets me! I would just like to go up a size, but I could never consider a boob job!Is there anything I can do? pills?, exercises etc....
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reader, Cake1011 +, writes (23 January 2008):
Boob size does not matter. There is nothing wrong with small breasts. Love yourself. You don't need to spend your hard-earned money on surgery or pills or any of that stuff. Women come in all shapes and sizes. Embrace your uniqueness. You are beautiful. Ignore our society. Did you know in some societies, small breasts are valued? In some, long breasts are attractive. The definition of beauty is always changing. No matter what the definition is, love yourself. That's all you can do. Different breast sizes means more diversity. ^_^
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reader, Pork Hock +, writes (6 June 2007):
I am five foot 1 with a 34 DD chest and it is hell. You can't wear dresses as the length is too long because the chest size doesn't fit, you can't wear buttons down the front because it gapes and zips it is incredibly hard to find clothes to fit.
Don't do this. Some men love small tits...look at Johnny Depp always gone for small and nice sized breasts not bazookas!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): mine are very small too and i hate it (what sucks is i'm not even skinny) but i would not like it if guys liked me for my boobs, so at least if you have small boobs that won't happen? though when i'm in a relationship i feel a little bad for the guy.... but i would never have surgery. i find it sad, making boobs bigger, its like you're desperate to get guys, don't ya think?!
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reader, myp +, writes (6 June 2007):
The truth is that the pills and the excersises dont actually work and the ones that work even a little bit have a tendency to make your breasts look misshapen (usually one becomes bigger than the other). As a girl who has natural Double-D's i can expertly tell you that having bigger breasts is not all its cracked up to be, However one of my good friends has very small breasts and makes herself feel a bit sexier by wearing lacy lingerie and push-up bras. You mentioned that sometimes bras dont fit you properly, but theres an online site called www.LulaLu.com that sells lingerie for women with smaller bust sizes (AA, A, and B cup sizes)good luckhope you find what your looking for, including the beauty in yourself-Myesha
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reader, angelica111 +, writes (5 June 2007):
A good friend of mine used to have really tiny, cute round breasts(not flat or sagging),at your age. At the time she could never find a bra to fit but was quite ok with that. She used to be a lovely ballet dancer, so normal or bigger breasts wouldn't have been ok for this absolute passion of hers. It's not practical at all having bigger boops in this case and doesn't look right.
What I wanted to say is, about after 5 years having stopped her dancing career and was more involved w/ reality and common people, she asked herself if it was right her body been so androgynous. She had the perfect body as a ballet dancer but now things seemed different. Although she had a partner who adored her the way she was, and even had a great preference for a body like hers in general, she unluckily was confronted w/ fashion victim talks. Because hun, this really is only all about fashion.
People around her and, ESPECIALLY ADS AND STUPID MAGAZINS made her feel bad at times and she started to hesitate. She would fill up the tiniest bra's for teens she could find, w/ cotton or s/kind of unconfortable padding. She would have to reajust it to make it fit. (Padded bra's; the way they are nowadays; didn't used to exist till about 7 years ago. And absolutly not in small sizes, which i found illogical. They're getting better and more natural by the years.) After a while she dropped all this fuss and used her good scence to appreciate herself the way she used to do before. Every woman on earth was jealous of her eating as much as she could w/out getting fat!
But in gaining age she also gained weight, and so gained a little more breast size! DO NOT FORGET THIS IMPORTANT FACTOR THAT BODDIES DO CHANGE!
So then she was able to fit in a cup B bra, and even if they are a bit small than the AVERAGE girls or women aroud, she considers it fine. You see we seem to always have to COMPARE ourselves w/ others. But we are unique beings, and being a bit different than others that walk w/ fashion or so, makes us ever so more charming and exiting, believe me. Men love any size breasts, as long as they're attracted to you!
Swimmimg helps a lot to increase up to one size bigger if you train regularly, about 3 to 4 hours a week, (which my friend and even I do) especially w/ breaststroke. (The word says it!) this is very cheap and good for your health too. And it really works after already a month of regular training. Protein foods can help a little on the way too. Please do not go out and do surgery, small breasts are so much more sensitive than big ones, which is great during sex!! :) Besides, surgery WAY TOO OFTEN goes wrong w/ all the horrible complications that follow. Every ten years on one has to reopen and do the surgery a new. BEUH! Be proud the way you are, and show off. Your type of body WILL come back in 'fashion' again too. It's always in waves you know. (take the example of twiggy or even the 1920ies...) Well, I do hope to have helped you as a mum would do w/ her daughter. Love xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): You are not done growing and developing at the age of 18, some of us are really late bloomers.....what is the big deal with big breasts, sometimes they can be a hinderance...plenty of men like small breasted women, especially if she is self confident and comfortable in her own skin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Breasts are 20% muscle and 80% fat, I'd suggest going to a gym speaking to a personal trainer and asking him what exorcises would increase the muscles in the breasts, then atleast you have the 20% full, but i wouldn't advise trying to put the weight on as you can't tell were it will go.
Hope I Helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): the only thing you can do is get fat..you'll get fat there as well. Or stuff your bra.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (5 June 2007):
Its true other than surgery there is nothing you can do to increase your bust.
The best thing to do here is to learn to with your own body and be happy with it.
Believe me men love boobs not matter the size big,small in between. Men just love breasts!
If men dont love you and your body than dont bother with them, if your confident about your self thats what they will see.
Like eyeswideopen said you can wear stuff too make you more confident but my advice is be confident in yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): gain weight and youl gain some in your breasts too!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): I totally understand where you are coming from. I am very small chested as well wearing the same size that you do. But, I promise when it comes down to it, I have never had any complaints. I have never not had a guy like me, because of my small chest. It is hard, but you will learn to love you the way God made you. Hang in there sweetie.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2007):
Other than surgery there is no cream or magic potion. There are products out there that claim they will enlarge your breasts but that's all snake oil and smoke screens so don't sucker for them. We get breast size question a lot and the guys almost always say that they love 'em all, small, large etc... so just try to happy in your own skin, honey. Buy a padded bra if that will help you feel more comfortable but you really have nothing to worry about.
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