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Why did he say that to me?

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Question - (20 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ourdesire26 writes:

Hi I am 16 and just need some help understanding this. Me and my best friend who is a guy and we have known each other for 12 years is opening up to me i guess you could say. He is very open about his private areas with me. He always says thing like oh my d*** is nice. But last night we were on the phone and he goes my d*** is this many inches long... and this many inches thick and he started describing it and he goews how big are you breasts? i thought it was kind of wierd cuz we hang out all the time and now just knowing that freaks me oput a little cuz hes my best friend. I dont have any other feelings for him but i think he likes me. but why did he say all that?

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A female reader, blonde.cutie United States +, writes (20 August 2008):

He thinks that getting u all fired over the phone will conect u two on a sexual level instead of friends tell him its werid and hes freaking u out to be around hell give it up fast if he wants to keep the friend ship

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A female reader, heretohelp-kirsty United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

heretohelp-kirsty agony aunthe obviously thought you had feelings for her aswell as him . Or he might just be having a laugh with you but secretly likes you too . But if he does say things like that again just say that you dont want to know and just laugh so he doesnt take it seriously . Because he shouldnt want to make you feel awkward . thanks . good luck . kirsty x

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A female reader, angelica111 United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2008):

angelica111 agony aunt Dear yourdesire,

By reading you i have the feeling you have become kind of a sex goal for your friend, helas. Between the age of 5 and 17 A LOT of things change in a human being!!!

if he's about the same age as you are he is in full sexual discovery and exitment. he wants to go out there experiencing (some people have this urge more or less or not at all) , it all depends on hormonal changes and the social environement the persoon in question lives in..

You are maybe the most familiar person he yet knows and he does wish to experiment w/ you.

If you do not have the same desires, DO NOT go his way. Try and tell him firmly that it annoys you or hurts you or so, and that you do not wish to answer his desires, or answer his horny quetions.

I think then, that you might have to consider taking a break in seeing him, as he needs to discover other things than you do.

Give time to both of you, and try and evaluate things between you about a year later.

Hope i have helped you a little, good luck, Angelica

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008):

He is watching too much porn, and he thinks a big d*** will turn you on, so you'll want to be with him.

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