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36-40,
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writes:My ex broke up with me for her old ex. She says she loves both of us and is basically torn between the two of us.She says she needs to be with him because she feels like it, and she wants to understand why she feels that she needs to be with him. She has told me that when she is with him its like walking on eggshells because he gets irritated when he cant see her sometimes. I never got like that when we were together, and she said she felt we had a really solid and loving relationship.We decided it was best not to have any contact, unless she gets closure with him and wants to be with me again.Any thoughts on this? Do you think its possible that she will realize her mistake and come back to me? Or that she will get tired of their bickering over time?I don't really mind, it's actually kind of nice being alone again, but I do still care about her.
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reader, angelica111  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 Hi!
Dear...
First of all enjoy the time-out between you and your girlfriend. You're young and it's not a good idea to get fully hooked and tied up into a relationship this way. Apparently she needs to sort things out in her mind and feelings, so give her the space and time to do so. it's best not to see each other at all or at best as little as possible. Set yourself a goal time (ex. a month or so) and see how things have developped between you and her. Than talk things over again, at that point your relationship w/ her will be clearer, you'll see that time will have done it's work all alone (if you get what i mean)! Good luck, hug, Angelica
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