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i cant realy say alot about myself accept im an honest caring person and i love helping people out. (that does include you lol) im a lil bit nutty when i want to be but hey thats got nothing to do with this or has it? hey i look forward to helping you and i hope i have done look at some of the answers ive given to others in need have fun.

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My bf says his ex is the sexiest girl alive and talks about her w/ his friends! Is he trustworthy?

Q.   Hi, I recently discovered that my boyfriend chats with his friends about his ex girlfriend. He told me once that I turn him off in bed. And that his ex girlfriend was the prettiest and sexiest girl that he has ever met. He swears that he is not i...

A.   26 April 2007: i agree, for him to say that to you is absolutly descusting. i know its most probably not what you want to hear and that you probably would like to be reasured. but he must have issues. 1) he could be seeing his ex. 2) if not hes obsessed wit... (read in full...)

Can you be overfat, even if your not over weight ?

Q.   I was just wondering, can a person be over fat even though they may not be overweight on the scales? I say this because i am 5ft 4.5 and 8st (112 pounds?) but feel really fat. I cant face mirrors and have started buying bigger clothes to hide my ...

A.   26 April 2007: heya hunny, by the sounds of it theres absolutly nothing wrong with you. maybe the fact that hes critical of himself is rubbing off on you. im 5 ft and im 7 12 and i have a little bit of a belly on me. i find the way to make myself feel better i... (read in full...)

Would hynotism help my gf get over her aversion to giving me oral sex?

Q.   My girl friend wont give oral sex says it makes her feel sick any advice please. would hypno help....

A.   15 August 2006: hunni if the woman doesnt want to shes not going to if she does shell feel degraded and not respected. theres most probable something in that area of life that you wouldnt do or that you dislike. i know a fair few women that dislike giving oral sex ... (read in full...)

I just can't seem to trust guys!

Q.   heya, I can't help it, I find it really hard to put my trust into guys, like the guy I'm currently dating. I get extreamly worried and jealous that he is going off me because of his msn screen name one part said "lv u 2 princess" I thought hang on ...

A.   13 June 2006: infact soz dnt worry i found out this moarnin that i was right not to trust him all of a sudden hes not intrested now :S thanks for the advice on trusting my instincs you were right. xXx... (read in full...)

I just can't seem to trust guys!

Q.   heya, I can't help it, I find it really hard to put my trust into guys, like the guy I'm currently dating. I get extreamly worried and jealous that he is going off me because of his msn screen name one part said "lv u 2 princess" I thought hang on ...

A.   13 June 2006: jsut to add to it weve talked about cheating before and how its wrong and that so its confused me even more how should i confront him about it?... (read in full...)

I felt like she did trust me by what she told me....what's going on?

Q.   Please can people help me because im kind of confused. I was talking to this girl online and she was telling me about how she got depressed and that she was once in love and told me about it and how it ended in heartbreak. The next week i asked her ...

A.   8 June 2006: heya, she told you that stuff because you were talking about it and she didnt want to lie to you and tell you everything in her life has been perfect and she can hardly trust you if youve only been chatting online. plus the fact that its hard for ... (read in full...)

I thought I was over him but now another girl has moved in and now i feel so jealous!!!

Q.   I split from my ex about 9 months bk, it was my first proper relationship which lasted 3 1/2 years. I thought i was over him but now this girls moved in to his place and im so jealous. I think its the thought of him movin on first. I dont kno wat to ...

A.   25 April 2006: heya hunni, i totally know where your comming from on this its hard to see your ex with someone else and the fact that hes got there first isnt exactly making things easier for you. but every one does eventually move on no matter what the problem ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend still chats with his exes

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, I've been friends with him for 4 years, but i am a little worried. He has a lot of friends who are girls and most of them are his ex girlfriends they still come round and chat on the phone even flirt ...

A.   2 January 2006: heya, of coarse your not being silly you have a perfectly valid reason for feeling like this. i was not long ago in the same situation, so i know exactly what you are going through. it hurts i know when you see the one you love with ot... (read in full...)

Too scared to meet my online girl...

Q.   Right, so.. I'm a guy, and I'm 18. I've had some pretty bad relationships in the past, and I probably will do in the future as well.. But that's not even the point. I guess it's a part of it, cos I'm afraid of being hurt (that's right, I'm a GUY ...

A.   30 December 2005: heya hunni, i know how you feel but dont be afraid she doesnt bite after all i am her hehe. forget your past relationships im not like those people you told me infact i was disgusted in what they did to you. its ok to be afraid even if you are ... (read in full...)

We've talked about marriage but he's so lazy and unmotivated.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's 25, just graduated from college, and I'm 22, still in college. Most of our relationship he hasn't had a job. He lives off of his savings. He just lays around and goes fishing all ...

A.   5 December 2005: hey, it seems to me you yourself are doubting your relationship. you need to ask yourself is this how i want it to be dont just think about him and his needs think of your own. i know its hard but also maybe you should consider sitting down wit... (read in full...)

How do I approach my kids on the issue of my new "friend" sleeping over?

Q.   When is it appropriate for the person I've been seeing to spend the night? We've been seeing each other for 2 months. But here's the catch, I have two children, my son is 15 and my daughter is 9. My "friend" has spent lots of time with them and ...

A.   25 August 2005: heya hunny, right this situation is so common with perants honestly its not unusual. so what you need to do is start thinking positivly and get yourself into the right frame of mind before you aproch this matter with your "friend" and chil... (read in full...)

She's really popular and I think I'm ugly...

Q.   I have known this gorgous girl for many years and I think the next step is the great idea, but she is really popular at school and I think of myself as ugly. I don't think this is just a crush, I really really like her and I feel she might want the...

A.   22 August 2005: heya hunni, firstly you need to stop thinking that your ugly the more confident you are the better youy feel and the better you feel the more people respect you. i know what your thinking ... respect???.... yes respect because someone that res... (read in full...)

Should I tell my friend how I feel? He probably already knows...

Q.   Hi Here goes..I recently started having feelings for a male friend who I have known for 16 years. Neither of us are currently in a relationship (both suffering the after effects of some horrendous break ups) and we get on really well. I have no...

A.   21 August 2005: heya hunni, i know exactly how you feel as i am in a simlar situation, however you need to start thinking that if he is such a good friend that you say he is then he will listen to what you have to say and understand your feelings and together you ... (read in full...)

Never been so mad in my life. Should I tell him off?

Q.   My life has been a living nightmare ever since my boyfriend of 3 years and i broke up 2 months ago. I've been hearing so much about him, and all my friends knew for over a year and just tell me now. We had a long distance relationship for 2 years ...

A.   20 August 2005: heya, your other half does not deserve such a forgiving and careing woman. hes a lier and cheat and you know that. the question is does he know that you know? probably not. i know what your going through and its hard but you need to hang on ... (read in full...)

We're great friends and I don't want to give that up, so I'm afraid to risk anything more!

Q.   I'm a 16 year old male, and me and my best friend (15 girl) have started getting closer, and she has been hinting at a relationship. First, you have to understand that we were "talking" once before, but it didn't go anywhere, and it was kind of a...

A.   19 August 2005: heya hunni, i know exactly how you feel, im in your exact position. thing is if she is as much as a friend as you say she is then if you do split up you should still remain friends in some cases it could make you tighter. to be honest why dont... (read in full...)

He wants me back! Should we get back together?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend loved each other and were so happy in our relationship for 5 months. He had planned proposing! We haven't seen each other too much over the summer, though; then he said he lost feelings for me and wanted to break up. Now he...

A.   18 August 2005: heya hunni, honestly without knowing more details of the reason he lost feelings for you i cant give you a full and accurate advice reading but i can still help you. i feel you need to ask yourself am i ready to get back into a relation... (read in full...)

I thought we'd get back together eventually. Now my ex has a new girlfriend and I'm gutted...

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years in February, we had a silly row and let it go on too long. We have tried to stay friends since and meet for drinks now and again and talk on the phone weekly. I always hoped we could get back together. I was ...

A.   17 August 2005: heya hunni , i know exactly what your going through, when you feel that burning passion for some one but you know you cant have them its so hard to keep yourself contained. but the first step is admitting to yourself that he has quite obviosly move... (read in full...)

Younger Brother thinks I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him...

Q.   Hi, I'm 18 years old and my b/f's 14 yr old brother keeps coming on to me! He's a nice kid but he is so so annoying. For example we were alone in my b/f's house the other day (just the 3 of us) and my b/f went into the kitchen. Whenever my b/f isn't ...

A.   17 August 2005: heya hunni, right i recomend you set your boyfriends little brother straight. he has no right to harrass you like that. i also recomend you talk to your boyfriend about this simply because he will help with this situaltion. and if he is the trus... (read in full...)

I'm tired, I'm depressed and my grades are slipping because I just don't care any more...

Q.   Hi. I am a sixteen year old girl, and for as long as I can remember, I had always been the best student in class, teacher's pet, straight A's etc. However for the past two years or so, my grades have started slipping badly. I just feel like I c...

A.   17 August 2005: heya, hunny i recomend you go and see your gp because i have the feeling that you are suffering from clinical depression and if theese feelings and sleep and eating dissorders get worse it could be a life threatening situation take it from some... (read in full...)

How do I approach that sexy shop girl and start talking to her?

Q.   What can I do? I love this gal. I'm a boy aged 18. The thing with me is I'm so attracted to one gal I always meet in a shop. She is a shop assistant. I meet her every time I get into that shop to buy my phone voucher thing. The main problem ...

A.   17 August 2005: heya hunni, right what i think u need is a bit of confidence. when you walk into that shop smile at her when she looks at you, that will imediatly boost your confidence. also when you pay for your voucher, 1 make sure you say your hello and good... (read in full...)

My life has been horrible up to now, but I'm scared my great new boyfriend will find out about my past!

Q.   I am having a problem. All my life I'm faced with things that hurt me so much. For example my ex made me have an abortion as it wasn't his (we got together before I found out I was pregnant) now I regret it every day and miss my little boy. My bes...

A.   17 August 2005: heya, firstly i know what you have been through when it comes to abuse and your ex and the person who abused you as a child should not be roaming about free! they will not only stop at you but also do it to other people. i know it must be extr... (read in full...)

If I tell my family I'm in a gay relationship, it'll destroy them...

Q.   Hello. I'm a 21yr old male. I am in love with a 25yr old man. We love each other both very, very much. I even lied to my parents when I went to visit him overseas, saying that it was a group of friends, only to be alone with him. This is our firs...

A.   16 August 2005: heya, ok your situation is complicated but there are ways to work around this. firstly in the worse case sinario (if you family are as anti gay as you say) they may well consider telling you to move out. so before you tell them make sure you are in ... (read in full...)

I look OK and I'm a nice guy. Girls just won't talk to me!

Q.   I'm a 20 year old guy. I work out so I'm in great physical shape and have been told I'm an attractive guy, however, I am unable to start a relationship with anyone. Girls just don't talk to me, what is the problem? I'm a nice guy, I promise!...

A.   16 August 2005: heya, i have the exact same problem (well the female equivilent) thing is girls may not talk to you but have you tried talking to them? sometimes people need that little push to set off a spark. say hi to that women in the shop smile at her then ... (read in full...)

I keep catching my husband in lies...

Q.   First a little about my situation. I have been married for six years. I am a stay at home mother of three beautiful children. I feel my marriage from the beginning was just a mound of lies. He lies about work, his past and constantly does dishonest ...

A.   16 August 2005: Nichole, as you said your husband losses trust, security and respect every time he lies. so is he conciose of the fact that you are feeling these feelings and thinking these thoughts? well obviosly not. instead of takeing on the role of spy ... (read in full...)

Sex is boring and I mosly just do it so he'll get some enjoyment!

Q.   Ok, me and my fairly long term b/f have been having sex now for about 4 months(we were both virgins), and frankly I hate it. It's uncomfortable, it's boring and it's kinda painful! We always do foreplay beforehand but I don't like that any better to ...

A.   16 August 2005: dont feel embarrsed. its fine not to like it but consider talking to him about it. if he is as understanding as you and i think he is he will understand and you can both work through this. in a way this could be another way to make you closer. also ... (read in full...)

What can I do to stop my bad habit of ogling other women?

Q.   I've spent my entire life hoping to find my girlfriend and feel like the luckiest man on the planet having found my one true love. We were to be married last Saturday but she called it off a while back. We're still together and hoping that one day ...

A.   16 August 2005: heya, personaly i think you have completed the first step already which is well ... was admitting it to yourself that one you were doing it and two it was wrong. but what i feel you need to to do now is try your best to make it up to your other ... (read in full...)

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