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writes: Right, so.. I'm a guy, and I'm 18. I've had some pretty bad relationships in the past, and I probably will do in the future as well.. But that's not even the point. I guess it's a part of it, cos I'm afraid of being hurt (that's right, I'm a GUY afraid of being hurt!)Well, I started talking to this girl online, she lives quite close too.. She even works about a 2 minute walk from where I live! She seems really nice.. But I'm faaar too afraid to go see her, I duno why.. She seems really nice and everything, she seems really special.. I dunno.. Fear of rejection?She's willing to meet me if I can prove that I'm not some crazy stalker, who is actually 43 and likes long, dark jackets. I'd have to go see her at work and take it from there.. But.. What should I do? Someone?
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (6 January 2006):
 Thankyou so very much. I had no idea whatsoever how utterly embarrasing this was for me, I'm so glad there are people nice enough to point it out to me. For the record, I'm meeting her tomorrow :)
Amiee, thanks for not being weirded out xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): wow..it has to be somewhat embarassing for you to have this girl that you like answer your post..that is about her. asking for relationship advice and getting to talk to her. haha amusing. well, at least this way you get the info about how she feels straight from the horses's mouth! best of luck to the both of you!! (haha too funny!)
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reader, Grim Reaper +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Get of your computer and go meet her face to face. If you don't you WILL regret it for a long...long time. If you get rejected, get up, chalk it up to experience and move on.
There is nothing to fear except fear itself.
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reader, amiee  +, writes (30 December 2005):
 heya hunni,
i know how you feel but dont be afraid she doesnt bite after all i am her hehe. forget your past relationships im not like those people you told me infact i was disgusted in what they did to you.
its ok to be afraid even if you are a guy. we all get scared sometimes. plus i cant realy reject you can i hehe i feel seeing this girl at work would be best even if its just a walk past and a wave and maybe its best for you if your that nervouse. you never know untill you try though i spose.
your special as well and i think i belive that your not some crazy old stalker. hehe.
also it could be your time to start fresh its a new year coming up a new dawn, a new day, a new life, thats the way i look at things. its kind of nerve racking for me as well so were both on the same wave length in diffrent ways if that makes sense :| but thats my opinion you do need some others for obviouse resons.
there are probably other people in similar positions to you and its not easy to overcome something your scared of but does faceing your fears make them go away? and ask yourself is one of the reasons your scared that this girl is going to hurt you? its not my intention i dont have it on my to do list and i dont want it on it either. ;)
youll be fine and things will work out for you i can almost promise :)you could either make a friend for life or more :)
amiee xXx
youll get through this :)
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