No condom, feeling ill and now wonder if I'm pregnant?
Q. HELP!!..im fourteen years old, me and my 16 year old cousin (GIRL) got dropped off at a party; her boyfriend and my boyfriend are first cousins and so are we. so we usually hang out together all the time.. well that night i wa sin the truck with my ...
A. 3 July 2010: If he wore a condom and he definately didn't cum, you won't be pregnant. As to why you're feeling ill and everything else, I'm not completely sure. But maybe it's just becuase you've got the thought of you being pregnant into your head and so you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend as your best friend???
Q. Following my recent breakup with my boyfriend, its been very difficult for us not to talk to each other as he always said that our friendship was the most important part of us. Recently we've been texting, casually. He's still able to make me ...
A. 30 March 2010: I don't see a problem with it myself. As long as you know that you're only friends now, it should be fine. But I do agree with part of the other comment, if you find someone new, be careful because they may not like the fact you're friends with your ... (read in full...)
Is your first time really special?
Q. When people say your first time is special is that..really..true or are they saying its fun have fun..is it bad to think that i want to get my first time through so i can get the pain over with..idk i KNOW im 15 but it seems like its time to be ...
A. 13 January 2010: I think my first time was special because I was doing it with someone who I loved and I was sharing that moment with them.
I think alot of people do make first time sex seem alot better than what it actually is. First time sex in my eyes wasn't that... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy a bigger "load"?
Q. Do women enjoy seeing a bigger semen load from their man? Is it pleasing to you? Especially when he is inside you, do you think it feels good? thanks...
A. 13 January 2010: Personally, I hate it when there isn't a lot there. I think if there's alot there, I feel better about myself because I know he's waited for this to happen and I personally think that my boyfriend would then enjoy it more because he's waited for ... (read in full...)
Going further making out?
Q. Girlfriend might come over to my house Saturday. I would like some advice on how to take it a little further without possibly scaring her. We've been together for about 11 months and have done nothing sexual at all. Ohhh, and by taking it further i ...
A. 14 October 2009: If you're sure your ready to go further and your pretty sure she doesn't mind, maybe when you're making out, you can move your hand around and touch her in places. But at first do it over clothes. Then if she doesn't seem to stop you, maybe you ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with her over this?
Q. I am having an issue with my girlfriend. I have been with her for a bit over 7 months. She has facebook. When i first starting dating her, about a month into our relationship, one of her facebook friends left her a comment on one of her pictures ...
A. 3 October 2009: I woulnd't dump your girlfriend over this. I understand you're a bit wary of her going out to see this guy but you need to trust her. Would you rather put some trust in her for a day and keep your relationship or dump her to then find out they were ... (read in full...)
Can girls feel you cum inside of them?
Q. I have a weird question. I hooked up with this girl for the first time (without a condom, stupid I know) and she rode me for a few minutes and came on my penis. After she finished cumming she asked me if I had cum inside of her and I was puzzled ...
A. 25 September 2009: I can't normally tell but his reaction kinda gives it away alot of the time. That's the biggest give away I think :) x... (read in full...)
My sex life is drying up and I can't stop it.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. For the first 3 we were living separately and the sex was great. We made love almost every time we saw each other. But since we moved in together the sex has kind of dried up. We went from 3-4 ...
A. 4 August 2009: I don't agree with the other post. Just because she doesn't want to have sex doesn't mean she doesn't want you anymore.
It's probably just something to do with the fact you now live together and see each other everyday. Before you weren't always t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he needs a break. What does this mean relationship-wise?
Q. My Boyfriend said to me last night i need a break.. i was shocked at his behaviour..and i still am. i kept saying to him... it means you dont love me anymore, and also i said you have your eye on someone else. you see i have been with this guy ...
A. 28 July 2009: Me annd my boyfriend had a moment like this too. He randomly came out with " we need to have a break" and I was shocked too when he said it.
It doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore or that he's got his eye on someone else. I wouldn't worry ab... (read in full...)
Does anyone know why my periods are so irregular?
Q. I've never had regular periods. They usually are regular for about 3 months and then they come on a couple of days later. However, this month it's slightly different. I'm two weeks late. I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative. ...
A. 27 July 2009: I haven't had any pains at all. I had a couple of pains a few days before I was due on a couple of weeks ago which I just thought were to signal my period was on it's way as the other stuff which usually happens when I come on had happened too. ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know why my periods are so irregular?
Q. I've never had regular periods. They usually are regular for about 3 months and then they come on a couple of days later. However, this month it's slightly different. I'm two weeks late. I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said negative. ...
A. 27 July 2009: I haven't had unprotected sex, we use condoms. And as far as I know, none of them have broken or split. I didn't take the test too early, I took the first test a week after I was due on.
I'm not on any other kind of birth control at the moment b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend suddenly doesn't trust me
Q. So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and ...
A. 21 July 2009: I kinda had this problem.. just it wasn't as bad. I spoke to my boyfriend about it. I asked why did he suddenly not trust me, what brought it on, what does he think I'm gonna do and so on.
So personally I think you should ask him about it. Don'... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Giving a blow job under water? Never done it myself but I can imagine it being pretty tricky. Maybe not a good idea if it's gonna be your first time doing that kinda thing.
If you REALLY want to do stuff, I'd suggest just tossing him off. That... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?
Q. At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...
A. 14 July 2009: Thanks for that advice. I'll be sure to let him know seeing as he is one of the main reasons why I'm gonna start taking it so it'll be stupid to then mess it up by having random mood swings.
x... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?
Q. At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...
A. 14 July 2009: Thanks everyone for your posts. I'll tell my mum that I want to go on it and then we'll arrange to go to the doctors.
But thanks for helping.
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm scared but I want to give myself to him
Q. Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and I've kept him waiting sexually this long, hes starting to anxious but he says he'll wait as long as I need. I know he really cares for me and would wait but part of me too is getting ...
A. 9 July 2009: I was the same age as you when I lost mine and I felt the same way as you. My boyfriend said he would wait until I was ready and I wanted to do it but I didn't know if I was ready. In the end I did do it and I'm very glad I did. Me and him are still ... (read in full...)
Tips to please my boyfriend?
Q. Im sixteen years old and am going out with this guy i really like, he has already fingered me, and hes amazing, but i feel like i should do something for him. The problem is that i have zero experience and dont know what to do or how to go about it. ...
A. 30 May 2009: When me and my boyfriend first started doing things, we just started with the basics. I think that's where you should start too.
Maybe you could tell him you have a surprise for him or something and when you next see him, either wait until he... (read in full...)
What every day objects can we use to get sexy in the bedroom?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had really good sex the other day, with the help of a feather. We used it as a way to build up and stuff and in the end it was amazing. We were just wondering, what other objects would we be able to use which are everyday obj...
A. 28 May 2009: Thanks everyone, we look forward to trying your ideas out =]
x... (read in full...)
Sex with a random girl felt better than sex with my b/f, what do I do?
Q. Help! i have a boyfriend and he went out of town for the week on a business trip and i went out by my self last night and saw this supper hot girl. so i we talk and had a few drinks next thing i new we were on our way back to her apartment. were we ...
A. 9 May 2009: Maybe it was just the fact it was the first time with a girl and the excitement of it made it feel better. If you had sex more than once and it was better than I'd say your bisexual. And you might want to tell him about it... technically it's ... (read in full...)
I tried to cheat on him. Should I tell him about it?
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, and he's everything to me. But last weekend i got drunk and tried to kiss one of my close male friends. I can't even remember doing it, but people who were there saw me. I don't know weather to tell my boyfriend or not, ...
A. 5 May 2009: It depends if you like drinking or not. If you like drinking, then I wouldn't tell him. He would realise that drinking makes you do stuff you wouldn't normally do and that would annoy and upset him. On the other hand, if you don't like it that muc... (read in full...)
How can I get my relationship back on track?
Q. Lately, me and my boyfriend of seven months have been arguing a hell of a lot. He's usually very sweet and caring, and considerate of my feelings. As of recently, however, he's been thinking of himself more than me. He'll do something even if he ...
A. 2 May 2009: Me and my boyfriend have been in this situation a few times, and we solved it.
What we did was we sat down with each other and talked about what was wrong. He said what he wasn't happy with, as did I. And then we both promised to work on the prob... (read in full...)
Understanding a dream?
Q. In simple terms, I want to know what my dream means. The people in the dream were me and the 4 guys that I have fancied since I have been going to secondary school. I have been out with 2 of these 4 guys, 1 of them I am going out with now, but ou...
A. 2 May 2009: There are alot of questions as to what dreams acctually are, no one is quite sure yet though.
But personally, I think that dreams are either a way of showing you what you really want from life but haven't achieved yet or something which will happ... (read in full...)
How should I break up with him?
Q. I want to break up with my bf of 2 years as he has no time for me any more and talking to him about it hasn't gotten through, its been 2 days since he's called. What way is harsher and make him think oh my god I miss her... completely ignoring...
A. 2 May 2009: Personally I would tell him up straight. Ignoring his calls and everything won't help. If he has no time for you now, ignoring his calls will just make him mad and angry and he probs won't realise that you've ended it or want to end it.
I don't th... (read in full...)
Boyfriend falling out of love
Q. I feel that my boyfriend is falling out of love . He tells me that he loves me and misses me but Im not sure. He calls others girls and he hardly calls me. We have been together for a year or so. How can I make him fall back in love with me. Sh...
A. 19 April 2009: I don't think that talking to other guys and trying to make him jealous would help anything. In the end you would get into an argument about it and that wouldn't help anything. I've kinda had a situation like this before. You need to tell him... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not the love of my life!
Q. Hi my name is Soda, I have a boyfriend of 7 months,I hate that he is so freaking controling. I mean I am the biggest flirt but still, wtf? Like, I thought he was the most amazing guy on the planet. What the hell was I thinking? I have lost the spar...
A. 15 April 2009: You need to tell him the truth. If you lie to him and keep it going and he finds out, he'll be even more upset. You can't pretend you still love him when you don't. That's not fair on you. He should understand you have a life too and if you're no... (read in full...)
I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!
Q. I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I...
A. 9 April 2009: That's exactly how it is with me and him. I don't want to say sorry when I'm not, but somehow I always do. The thing is though, it used to be the other way round. He used to make all the plans and he used to say sorry and kiss me first. Somewhere it ... (read in full...)
He still has porn in his computer. I feel like I cant trust him anymore
Q. i was looking through my husbands computer and i found some porn movies i was shocked because i thought he stopped watching long time ago what should i do ? i will talk to him about , but how can i make sure that he doesn't watch again ? i feel like ...
A. 6 April 2009: Why do you want to make him feel bad about it? If you said to him "please don't watch anymore porn" then I would understand but by the sounds of it, you just assumed he had stopped watching it. By that, you got it wrong.
And the not trusting... (read in full...)
First time sex. Next step?
Q. Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought ...
A. 6 April 2009: When I first had sex, me and my boyfriend just stayed on his bed and hugged and kissed and stuff.
Personally, I think that's what you should do. You've just shared a very special moment together, why run off to the toilet and ruin that mome... (read in full...)
Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???
Q. Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda ...
A. 5 April 2009: It doesn't mean she wants sex, she could just want some "fun".
If you're not ready, make sure you let her know. There's nothing wrong with making out for a while, that's what I did. If she is ready and you're not, she should understand and wait... (read in full...)
Who cums first between a guy n a gal?
Q. hi there good people. I'm back again for your excellent advices. here's what I've been wondering most bout: who cums first between a guy n a gal?...
A. 28 March 2009: In my relationship, I do first and then my boyfriend. That way we both get what we want. x... (read in full...)
She likes oral sex but I hate the taste!
Q. Hey everyone... I have a little problem I don't like the taste of going down on my girlfriend is their anyway to fix this because I know she likes it but the taste is just so bad to me anything will help thanks!...
A. 9 March 2009: Have you said to her "do you like pineapple?" and if she says yes, give her some. It's meant to make it taste sweeter. Loads of other foods can affect it as well so maybe experiment a little and see what makes it taste better.
Maybe you just nee... (read in full...)
AT 13, should we have sex?
Q. im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we are really deeply in love with each other.we have been going out for 4 in a half months.we both want to but should we have sex ?...
A. 26 February 2009: Honestly, I don't think you should. You're only 13. You might well love him to bits but having sex with him is a big deal. Your body probable isn't ready asnyway. So no, I don't advise it. x... (read in full...)
He wants me on top for first time sex and I'm not so sure...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and we're talking about having sex. Its not that i dont want to do it, but he says he wants me on top. i've heard its a great turn on for guys to have thier gf's on top but the thing is its my ...
A. 20 February 2009: I personally think that you shouldn't go on top first time. It's your first time and girl on top can be quite hard, I found it hard at the beginning, I wasn't sure quite what to do. I think that he sould go on top for the first few times and then ... (read in full...)
Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!
Q. Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I ...
A. 19 February 2009: Sex for the first time is always painful. But the more often you do it, the less painful it gets and the more pleasurable it gets. I personally would suggest that you do have sex with your boyfriend. That way it will get less painful and then... (read in full...)
Valentine's Day was horrible!
Q. today is our first valentines and sadly its the worst valentines day ever till today. calls me 1 am this morning after he finished work and tells me ohh todays valentines day i forgot happy valentines day honey ,, "yeah u 2 babe" so i wake up in the ...
A. 14 February 2009: Okay I can understand why you're annoyed... you don't get to see your boyfriend on valentines day. But you have to take part of the blame as well. You did refuse to see him tonight. He didn't make you say that. Men are never organised. So he... (read in full...)
Does the size a woman's boobs matter to men?
Q. I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I ...
A. 12 February 2009: I have small boobs and my boyfriend doesn't mind. He says they're just the right size so he can grab them and mess around with them easily.
I don't think it really matter... Big boobs get it the way anyway right?
Maybe buying padded bras will mak... (read in full...)
Do you let him taste his own semen after oral sex?
Q. I'd like to hear from the ladies on this one. As a finale to oral sex, do you ever let him taste your man his own semen? Does he willingly eat when you offer it to him?...
A. 6 February 2009: It depends on the "moment".
Sometimes he will kiss me after I've done it and he can taste it while other times he keeps it as cheeks only for a while.
x... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!
Q. Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything ...
A. 30 January 2009: I'm the same as you. I have a boyfriend but I love flirting. My advice is to, if you really like this guy, keep the flirting low. There's nothing wrong with having a bit of fun every now & then but make sure it doesn't get too serious.
If you pref... (read in full...)
Are condoms safe?
Q. If you can't use the pill is condoms very safe?? What are their success rate?...
A. 29 January 2009: I think condoms are safer than the pill. They are pretty safe, I think it's something like 97% or 98%, something high whichever way you look at it. But they can break/split so check it hasn't split afterwards.
xxx... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!
Q. well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but ...
A. 10 January 2009: You're 14 which is under age, he's 18 and you've had sex. He's classed as a paedophile. And considering you're not actually dating him, it's probably not the best idea to stay with him.
How about you stay with him but don't see him as often? T... (read in full...)
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