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Archived questions from: May, 2019 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Something is not right in this relationship with my older boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Hi aunt's. I recently came back from a 3 month vacation and have been indoors and kind of claustrophobic. I live with my current bf and we've been together for a little over a year now. I saw him dressing up today and asked him where he was going ...

He wants us to go back to "friends" after being so keen to start with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months, initially he was so keen and was talking about our future, plans, and meeting friends/family, but this has completely changed recently! He knew from the start that my father had cancer, which he...

My boyfriend does not reply to me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - At the beginning of the relationship, we would always talk to each other message each other constantly. Until he stopped talking to me a lot. He asked me awhile back to always reply to him when I came online- so I did. Eventually he started ...

Toxic mother relationship during pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - Ever since I was a child I have been blamed for everything that as gone wrong in my mothers life. Labelled a difficult child, spoilt, etc. Blamed for the break down of her marriage, (even though domestic violence and my fathers infidelity was a ...

My girlfriend cant see my point of view and issued an ultimatum

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

23 May 2019 (M) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma as I've just started a relationship with a girl who I really thought was the one. We've been going out for about four months now and I really do love her and she loves me. She's just been on a massive rant to me today ...

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

My husband looks at young women in porn and tells me I should just be happy he's still having sex with me despite my shortcomings

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - My husband looks at porn of women around 18- 20 . I’m entering menopause and feeling extremely depressed about my changes to my body such as less elasticity and lubrication wrinkles etc . I’m fit and healthy but nothing makes me as young as the ...

Is he backing off to give me space to deal with father's illness or backing away completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy 6 weeks ago and it was a bit of a wonderful whirlwind, he was very keen and just pretty damn perfect from the get go but things are now starting to feel different. About a month before we met my Dad was diagnosed with cancer and things a...

I know I should just walk away .... but I love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - Hi I wonder if anyone can help me.. So I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3years and also he's an overthinker and recently he was feeling a little depressed. I supported him and was going out of my way to be there all the time .. he was m...

He says he loves me but doesn't respond to my texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy on a dating App about a month ago. We hit it off well - he seemed sweet and respectful. We met and there was a lot of sparks and chemistry. We both have complicated relationship statuses - he's divorced with a child from the marriag...

Is my FWB starting to get feelings for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - My friend with benefits knows i like him more than what we have we talked about things a while back he said he doesnt feel the same way but at the weekend we did a lot more than usual and he made a point of wanting to hold my hand and wanted to keep ...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

I like him, his friend likes me and indicates to him that I prefer the friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met him at his place of work and boom, big time crush. He feels the same way too. We were still in the initial stages of attraction.. Not talking too much.. Just staring at each other. Then his house mate who is always around just out smarted him ...

Is this relationship even worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

7 May 2019 (F) - Hello and thanks So my fiancé and I have been together over two years. He has cheated in the past and I forgave him. Lately our relationship has been strained he has been irritable with me , less affectionate as well. I began t...

I think he is the one with jealousy issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

6 May 2019 (F) - Hi, My fiancee and I have been together just over a year. We dont live together yet but were planning on it soon. We have had some really amazing times and also some rocky times. He is charming and tells me he loves me alot everyday. However,...

Do they really have these outrageous bills in Nigeria?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

2 May 2019 (F) - I have wrote here before. I had some good advice. It was about my Nigerian husband. I mentioned his mood swings , and I’m unable to ask any questions without his temper flaring up. Ai also mentioned his spending ways and his expections that ...

He says his affair was my fault. I am emotionally exhausted!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I got married young (21) and he was 25. I knew at the time that he was a bit insecure but I guess I was young and naïve. The insecurity is getting worse and worse. A couple of years ago, I h...