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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

I’ve made an ultimatum for my cheating husband. Is it reasonable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - Hello Cupids, Short question. My husband, who I have been with for 13 years, compulsively cheats on me. Last time, I kicked him out and begged him to get therapy, which he said he would. He didn’t, but kept telling me he planned to. Things got b...

My boyfriend's ex wants to meet him for coffee!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend asked me if I would be okay if he met his ex for coffee. His ex reached out to him wanting to catch up while she is in town for some official business. My boyfriend's ex ended their relationship a year ago and is currently seeing ...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

I kissed a girl and my boyfriend didn't like it, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

26 May 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 2 and a half years. During this time we've both expressed desires and fantasies in the bedroom and things we want to do. My boyfriend asked if I would have sex/be sexual with a girl while he watched, or have ...

My boyfriend has naked pictures on his phone, am I not pretty enough anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend about 5 yrs , and I recently he got cought having naked pictures on his phone , he was showing me a picture that he took and by accident ly I saw those , he said that his friend send those to him , so I said would u like ...

I accused my boyfriend of lying and now he won't talk to me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - Ok, so I'm not in a really good place right now and I'm hoping for some help. My bf is a super sweet guy but he can also be emotionally distant and introverted. I don't like this part of him and I feel insecure because of it. I'm trying to f...

Me vs his ex, is his behavior a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - To keep it short, my bf was showing me some pictures of him, and when he was going through different albums I happen to see an album cover which had the picture of his ex wife,besides this picture they send text messages to each other/communicate on ...

My boyfriend is extremely shy, but can put on fake confidence which is starting to worry me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - I don't get my boyfriend lately. After being together for nearly 2 years, i feel that I don't really know who he is sometimes. When we first met until about a year, he was VERY insecure, very shy. The type that would hunch over while walking. And ...

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch wi...

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

Does he have a disorder or is he just a liar?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hello i have a question, i have been dating this guy for 3 months but am confused about his character.The first time met him, he told he was born Jan 30th, the next time i asked he said 20th feb 1979 i asked to see his Id it was 1th Jan 1978. Last ...

I don't think this party girl is girlfriend material. Should I break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old my girlfriend is22. We're dating for four months and I still have doubts about her if she is gf material to me. Bottom line is she's a party girl, to me a girl who likes to party and drink and have sex with a lot of dudes is not ...

Am I playing myself for a fool with this older guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2405 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. I met him in early February while he was non exclusively dating a 21 year old .I met him in a little store near my house and one thing Led to another and now we are a couple. When i first initially met him he ...

I wish he would look at me and see I'm drowning, instead of calling me lazy, or belittling my parenting, cooking, whatever.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - I have a laundry list of concerns that I have really no one to turn to with. So I moved across the country to be with my bf and so our family could be together. 2 and a half yrs and 2 babies later, I'm unhappy. It hurts to admit. I have a roof ove...

How do I work on this trust issue and two, should I be with someone who is a diamond in the rough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hi all, After years of not feeling much for the opposite sex after a long, miserable marriage, someone I met as a child courted me for a few months before I agreed to meet up. I was almost convinced I'd never fall in love again It was an instant,...

Am I being used? I believe deep down that he is a good person but I am worried that I'm just there to teach him how to be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2418 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - have been seeing someone new for 4 months. When we first met, it was unlike anything I have ever experienced – I felt a real chemisty with this person and we hit it off straight away. Despite the distance (he lives in the south of the UK and me the ...

How can I deal with my upbringing ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - Hello aunts How can I forget my childhood? I come from a communist country (Europe) was basically raised here my whole life so I am Americanized but my parents had an arranged marriage - I still live with my folks as I am saving to buy a ho...

How can I get my mistress to finally trust me after 5 years together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

13 May 2018 (M) - I've been in a 5 year relationship with my mistress and she still doesn't trust me. I have done everything I can to show her I am trustworthy but she can never fully have faith in me. Her trust problem has caused a lot of tension in our relationship ...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

My boyfriend says he wants to get back together eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Background story: My boyfriend and I broke up in what initially was in good terms last month. We were together for 7 years, we were fighting too much and became so busy with our own lives that maybe we drifted away. We figured maybe we needed time ...

Is he playing games? How can I heal and also hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Guys I seriously need help.please read whole. I need help. I know this guy since the past 1.5 years, we started off as friends but then three four months into the frndship he told me he liked me. I had another friend (female) who had a crush ...

I'm pregnant and my husband is talking to a woman. Its making me sick

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2393 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I just found out my husband chat with his friend. He said he is a changes man now, not going to dark places anymore since he get to know a woman in the past. She adviced and changed him. I know he isnt talking about me. We have been dating for ...

I initiated a threesome with a guy friend and now my wife is having an affair with him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

12 May 2018 (M) - I just found out that my wife has been having an affair for the past two years with a single male friend of ours who we had a drunken threesome with two years ago..that threesome which was totally initiated by me alone wasnt so fullfilling for me, ...

My boyfriend and his ex are "best friends" and keep saying that they love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriends ex is starting to make me have uneasy. Feelings. They were only married two years and had no children together. She did bring a two year old little girl into the marriage. They fought all the time and she wanted out and filed for ...

He denied using social media and then won’t show me his secret account!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2421 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - I will get straight to the point! I have never ever used social media like Facebook etc., It has never ever appealed to me that’s all. When I met my husband 7 years ago he did not ever use social media and told me he didn’t like those kind o...

My boyfriend and his cousin sister's behaviour made me sick to my stomach. Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Please tell me if I'm being overly conservative. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years, and this is the first time his aunt and two cousins, one 12yrs old, the other 14yrs old came to visit. Since this is my first time meeting the...

I push people away because I'm scared that they will leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2425 days ago

7 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this really sweet guy for a little over two weeks and things are going well. I am happy but I’m scared that this happiness will only be temporary. I do not fall for people easily and I have a tendency to push...

I don't want to throw 5 years down the pan but I don't know what else to do. Can you offer any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm facing a bit of a crossroads in my life and I'm hoping you guys can help me as you've helped me so many times before. I've been with my BF for 5 and a half years. On our 5 year anniversary he proposed and I said yes. We've talked abo...

I pretended to be another woman and my fiancé told “her” he was single!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2425 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - My partner of 3 years has asked for my hand in marriage. At this point there are issues that make me unsure if I want to make this lifetime commitment with him,the big one being trust issues. He has cheated on me several times. Upon discove ering ...

Is it okay to delete from your life a parent (father, in my case) that has never cared for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2427 days ago

2 May 2018 (M) - Long story short - my parents separated (my mother and I got kicked out of the house) and later on divorced when I was 1. My father never paid a dime of child support. Times were different and it was very hard for my mother to legally force him to ...