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writes:Ok well I suppose it's like this I began internet dating over a while now and I found a good one I made some friends on it and got to know people well. I met a girl on there and we got to talking and everything was going fine she sent me a photo of herself which was of her and she was naked all for a pair of underware. The talk seems to be mainly about sex I like her because she is intellegent I'm not one of those guys who goes for a girl just because she is beautiful there has to be more to it. She is musical and is very intellegent and she is beautiful too. She seems to be very liberal in the way she thinks and talks. She sent me two more photos of her also naked. Don't get me wrong I do like our sex talks. She asked me for photos of me which I did and she liked them I also did a couple of little videos of me too she enjoyed that too. One day we were talking about our fantasies and she said hers which ones for me to kiss and masturbate another guy while she watches the thought of touching another guys penis and having him suck me off is a bit unnerving to me. I have done what I have done in the past for her with the photos and everything. I'm going away in september to start my degree and she has a male friend who lives near it and she says she would visit with him and fufill her fantasy it is clear that I am uncomfortable about having to touch this other guy but if it is for her I want to please her but at the same time I don't want to get hurt as i have done in the past I really like her a lot please advise Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): It sounds like everything is going way too fast for you and you don't feel comfortable with the situation. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing or she could ask you more and more.As you're going away to university there will be the opportunity to meet lots of new people so you could meet someone you feel much more comfortable with.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (21 May 2008):
 yeah i can see why youre unerved about this, as fiona says she might be testing you or she might just be serious.. my opinion is if in doubt ask. and if you dont like what you hear then you gotta put it straight, ure vunerable so you dont want to be getting in to deep before finding out the better part of the puzzle..if you dont want to be doing something then dont do it or you could regret it and see her differently for it, or do it if u feel comfortable enough, only you know the path you will take we can only give you somesort of guidance in the matter hope this helps A xxx
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (20 May 2008):
 I am not sure if she is joking or for real?!
One way or the other you had better clear that up so you are clear. I don't blame you for not being up for her suggestions.
She could be just having a tease about it, to test you or something, however don't risk getting into anything you don't want to.
Otherwise it sounds great, and she sounds like a fun girl! I am sure you will get on.
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