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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

My married lover seems to have lost interest in me. Why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I met a wonderful man through work and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. We had few business meetings with other people and he finally told me that he's very much attracted to me but never contacted me. I found out he was ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

Help me sort this mees out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - I deserve to be blamed. I got divorce 4 years ago. My life was good just always I felt something is missing. Every time I was seeing couples holding hands it was catching my attention . I got divorce which I regret it today. It didn't worth the ...

She agrees to a threesome when drunk but not when she's sober)

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

21 May 2017 (M) - Ok... So my wife and I have discussed threesomes with another woman and she has accepted as long as I dont participate, in other words not really a threesome just voyeurism on my part, which i'm totally cool with, but I would also like for her to ...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...

My crush is suddenly avoiding me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I met my personal trainer end of March 2017 and immediately we clicked. We had so much fun together we would laugh all the time. He inspired me to push harder and even to go to the gym. Sometimes he would touch me in an unusual flirtatious way (but ...

He is too close to his ex' and it bothers me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - I have recently started dating someone at work (discreetly) and it has been going really well. I was very wary of him at first because he has an ex' in the same workplace who he is still close to. He also led me to believe that he liked me before (a ...

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfri...

Why is my partner continuing to flirt on line with other women? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - My partner and I met on a date site we both came off. Then he went back on so I had my broadband to block all sites. He now has a game on his phone where he can talk dirty to others. Why is he doing this? He never talks dirty to me ...

What are the signs a shy guy liks you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

7 May 2017 (F) - What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? I'm friends with and sit next to a boy in one of my classes and I started to realise that I was really into him earlier this year. I was directing a show and I asked him if he'd please be in my band an...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

My husband is almost forcing me to have sex with my lesbian neighbor

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - Hi, my husband has recently come home after a month away and suddenly started wanting me to have sex with my lesbian next door neighbour, he doesn't want to watch or be involved at all. We have known she has a crush on me for a long time and given ...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

Am I being unreasonable? When is it okay to not feel comfortable having your boyfriends ex flings hanging around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Two months ago I started seeing this guy. Three weeks into our relationship he tells me he has to go away for work. He asked me to stay at his place and watch his cat. The morning he's leaving it comes up that it’s his ex from months ago who hire...

Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...

I cant let go of this anger!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

2 May 2017 (M) - I am having trouble letting go of anger and resentment for someone that has got under my skin. The guy isn't a close friend, he was more of an acquaintance that I would see and speak to from time to time due to overlapping friendship group...